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What do you do after your 'Girlfriend' is 'allegedly' raped?

Boxer ex

Senior Villager
#44
I have been in this dilemma since yesterday. I agree, leaving is right, but it's also shitty and very mean kutoka mtu akipitia issues serious hivi.
U sound like a fool rape is acrimino offence she should go to police then to the nearest hospital for a headspin,otherwise she has found a bigger d*ck than uas this what we call a shit test
 
#49
There is a lady we've been together for three years. We met in campus as I was finalizing, she was in her first year. She's now a finalist. Mtu ametulia tu hana mambo mingi, she valued the relationship, I feel its because she was amongst the few of her few friends dating a working guy.

Fast forward to last year, COVID came and she went home. She would spare atleast two weekends a month, come to Nairobi and see me. Around august last year, after several raw rounds she went home, weeks later she would complain of delayed menses and vaginal pain na alkua na wasi wasi mtoi anakam. Hiyo ningetoa tu bado. Anyway she came to town again, this time ata kuhit ilkua ngori juu alkua anacomplain uchungu. Anyway alinyesha finally. But something changed.

After a few weeks, hapo end of september she changed a lot, no more lovely messages, no frequent calls etc..She even relocated from home and moved to her rural home in kuishi na shosho yake. After hiyo silent treatment, as a redpilled man, nkaona siwezipembeleza yeye. I ignored as well and moved on mbio sana bila madharau. So since then imekua tu salamu kidogo ya hapa pale. Nothing much. Ata nlidhani ameshapata mtu mwingine amemchanganya. But hakukua na any evidences za any date pics, travelling ama picha za gifts vile wanafanyanga when they are stupid in love. My insticts suggested so.

Anyway, she then resurfaces later but then everytime we talked it would always end up in arguements. Long story short, this week after the arguments on phone, I tell her openly I knew she cheated, and that must have been around last year september when she changed a lot.

However, she opens up that she discovered her 'step brother' alkua anwaekea mchele yeye na cuzo yake and raping them at night. She claims the younger cousin is in form two and was taken to hospital, the guy even escaped home. She was too hurt and left, her step mother further moved her out claiming anadanganya na amefukuza kijana yake home. She explains that she has been going through a lot and that's why she needed a place and time to heal.
I told her off, nikamuambia hiyo ni hekaya za abunuasi, she got angry and wrote paragraphs. I later called, she picked na tukiongea she was insisting it's embarassing and its the last time we would talk ati nitafte tu dem mwingine, (she suspects I already moved on). Now Im in a dilemma, on whether to just leave her alone, I totally have no problem with that, ama her situation is serious and I should try and at least pretend I care vile tu unaeza sympathize na mtu who has gone through shit. I suggested akuje tuongee hii issue inakaa serious but she said a big NO since I have never bothered to care.
I need wise counsel elders.
Your situation seems like it was staged and planned long ago to confuse you and leave you alone. If your gal loves, she would ignore the allegations that she's cheating. Second, if she loves you, she would have revealed to you something is wrong ( and suggested to seek medical attention, pu**y haiwezi kua na uchungu alafu dem anakazia). third, after quarrelling in her family, she would have opted for coming to you rather than opting for rural home ( she's not even used to shagz lifestyle, and thus it should be her last option). Fourth, leave alone campus bitches, they are never faithful, use them while keeping them at a bay for your own sake( chapa kitu ilale ukisonga). She has the guts to tell to get another gal out of a mere debate, that's a red light, wake up nigga........
Finally, trust your instincts, they are never wrong, let her go and go for good!!!!
 

Alecs

Village Elder
#54
Hii mambo nimeona its beyond me. The relationship and sex life can NEVER go back to its previous state. I have decided to abort mission and move on.
 

Shaka

Village Elder
#55
Relationship for fun instead of friendship and companionship are fragile and do not withstand hardships and turbulences of life. You should have been the first person she should have run to in times of trouble. The rape incidence just revealed how your relationship is lacking.
 

Alecs

Village Elder
#59
Relationship for fun instead of friendship and companionship are fragile and do not withstand hardships and turbulences of life. You should have been the first person she should have run to in times of trouble. The rape incidence just revealed how your relationship is lacking.
Some things you wouldn't understand, until it strikes home. Pia mimi issues za rape nlikua tu naziona kwa news, until now.
 
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