There is a lady we’ve been together for three years. We met in campus as I was finalizing, she was in her first year. She’s now a finalist. Mtu ametulia tu hana mambo mingi, she valued the relationship, I feel its because she was amongst the few of her few friends dating a working guy.
Fast forward to last year, COVID came and she went home. She would spare atleast two weekends a month, come to Nairobi and see me. Around august last year, after several raw rounds she went home, weeks later she would complain of delayed menses and vaginal pain na alkua na wasi wasi mtoi anakam. Hiyo ningetoa tu bado. Anyway she came to town again, this time ata kuhit ilkua ngori juu alkua anacomplain uchungu. Anyway alinyesha finally. But something changed.
After a few weeks, hapo end of september she changed a lot, no more lovely messages, no frequent calls etc…She even relocated from home and moved to her rural home in kuishi na shosho yake. After hiyo silent treatment, as a redpilled man, nkaona siwezipembeleza yeye. I ignored as well and moved on mbio sana bila madharau. So since then imekua tu salamu kidogo ya hapa pale. Nothing much. Ata nlidhani ameshapata mtu mwingine amemchanganya. But hakukua na any evidences za any date pics, travelling ama picha za gifts vile wanafanyanga when they are stupid in love. My insticts suggested so.
Anyway, she then resurfaces later but then everytime we talked it would always end up in arguements. Long story short, this week after the arguments on phone, I tell her openly I knew she cheated, and that must have been around last year september when she changed a lot.
However, she opens up that she discovered her ‘step brother’ alkua anwaekea mchele yeye na cuzo yake and raping them at night. She claims the younger cousin is in form two and was taken to hospital, the guy even escaped home. She was too hurt and left, her step mother further moved her out claiming anadanganya na amefukuza kijana yake home. She explains that she has been going through a lot and that’s why she needed a place and time to heal.
I told her off, nikamuambia hiyo ni hekaya za abunuasi, she got angry and wrote paragraphs. I later called, she picked na tukiongea she was insisting it’s embarassing and its the last time we would talk ati nitafte tu dem mwingine, (she suspects I already moved on). Now Im in a dilemma, on whether to just leave her alone, I totally have no problem with that, ama her situation is serious and I should try and at least pretend I care vile tu unaeza sympathize na mtu who has gone through shit. I suggested akuje tuongee hii issue inakaa serious but she said a big NO since I have never bothered to care.
I need wise counsel elders.