The perfect equivalent is:
A childless very hot model 10/10 (think of those Instagram queens) marrying a guy living in a rusty mabati house in Kibera
1) She's 100% loyal to him and not just a caretaker friend whom she uses for stability & consolation while she continues to romp sponsors and sugardadies
2) They have kids and it's confirmed through DNA the kids are his
Can it happen?
Women can't go, even just think of going against their expectations but they want to force men to go against theirs by raising other men's kids
However they seem to be quite successful
Single mothers will eventually get a sexually deprived betamale and thanks to those widespread shaming tactics and reverse psychology the betamales will raise their bastards