#ThisIsMyStory I was an A student, voted most likely to be successful from campus by my classmates. My upbringing though financially rocky was pretty solid. I met a lecturer in 3rd year dated him for five years and finally broke it off after he slept with my elder sister. He was married with 3 kids but I loved him truly and zealously.
I quickly got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy not my type. It was ideal coz I didn't care about him and he kept my days busy and shortened my nights .
He deliberately refused to use a condom and though the sex was nothing to write home about, it helped me decompress and stay away from my married lover.
Every time we had sex I tool P2s so I wouldn't get pregnant. P2s failed me one time and only knew that I was pregnant 10 weeks in.
I told him and he suggested I rid myself of the child.He said he had been around the block and that I had robbed him of his sperm. I was more shocked than hurt. The thought that he, looking like he does thought I wanted to trap him blew my mind.
I was trapped, with a child I didn't want fathered by a guy I couldn't care less about.
I was afraid of getting the ****, God knows I considered it up to the time I was 7months pregnant.
Now I have a baby boy, spitting image of his father. I love my boy to death and I know though his dad doesn't want him, I want him badly. He gives me a reason for living.
Now I am suing my baby's daddy for child support and I am taking biblical parenting lessons. I will raise this child right by God and get him all he need from his unwilling father and my hard sweat.
I am nowhere near where I planned to be but with God, my son and I will walk the paths he clears for us and we I'll be successful in all our endeavors.
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I quickly got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy not my type. It was ideal coz I didn't care about him and he kept my days busy and shortened my nights .
He deliberately refused to use a condom and though the sex was nothing to write home about, it helped me decompress and stay away from my married lover.
Every time we had sex I tool P2s so I wouldn't get pregnant. P2s failed me one time and only knew that I was pregnant 10 weeks in.
I told him and he suggested I rid myself of the child.He said he had been around the block and that I had robbed him of his sperm. I was more shocked than hurt. The thought that he, looking like he does thought I wanted to trap him blew my mind.
I was trapped, with a child I didn't want fathered by a guy I couldn't care less about.
I was afraid of getting the ****, God knows I considered it up to the time I was 7months pregnant.
Now I have a baby boy, spitting image of his father. I love my boy to death and I know though his dad doesn't want him, I want him badly. He gives me a reason for living.
Now I am suing my baby's daddy for child support and I am taking biblical parenting lessons. I will raise this child right by God and get him all he need from his unwilling father and my hard sweat.
I am nowhere near where I planned to be but with God, my son and I will walk the paths he clears for us and we I'll be successful in all our endeavors.
PS: #ThisIsMyStoryCampaign lets you open up, anonymously, about your struggles & how you deal with them. To take part, send your story to [email protected].
Follow the series on www.facebook.com/MarkMaishCom/
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