you need to destroy the idea that there’s an expectation to do things by a certain age,there are no rules to life and life is neither a race nor a competition so live your life to the fullest
You are saying there are no good men then why do you complain you are single.Its like saying there are no good cars in Nairobi and you expect to be driving tommorow,of course you have conditioned your mind to see nothing good in the cars in Nairobi.
Another thing i have noticed is that many Nairobi women are self centered narcissists, they are good at listing qualities that they want yet they have nothing to match, they run around in their early 20’s sleeping with sponsors then wake up in their late 20’s when no man is willing to tolerate their ways.men do not owe you anything,life is already hard so no sane man is willing to bring a woman under his roof to give him problems.It;s like these unemployed graduates i see with placards on Nairobi streets, kindly give me a job, i have a masters in ABC,they feel entitled to jobs because they went to school, no one cares what you have, an employer/business owner who has invested his life in his business from scratch wants to hear what you bring to the table then you can talk.