Why marry if one will cheat?

Chances are yo’ll talkers eat kando, or pia the wife will be eaten severally outside. What is the point of keeping each other at home when you know attraction outside is imminent?

Marry kwanza

Mbona unakula kama bado badaye utasikia njaa? Mbona unalipa ushuru kama bado itaibiwa? Mbona wewe ukicheat huwa unarudi nyumbani kwa mkeo?

Well then why wasting your time in school if you just gonna die?

juvenile meffi takataka thread

Yes, why do you do that? What’s in it for you?

Advice watoto waelimike elder

If you don’t own a vehicle, you always wonder why people don’t give hike until you own one…so until you marry you may not understand why…

What’s so mysterious about marriage that makes it so hard to explain??

Marriages are different like finger prints.

What, in your opinion do you think the purpose of marriage is?

I cannot absolutely say. The few options in my mind like procreation, sexual fulfillment, companionship, etc., seem to me greatly flawed and or endangered by “NEW DESIRE” in the process of life. Like one can be married today, and 5 years later, one partner “finds” a more fitting partner, say in sexual appeal, that would deeply tempt them to jump ship. If I can do that later, then I feel compelled to wait longer, but the longer I wait seems like the longest I should wait. And my settling at some point doesn’t guarantee me that my partner will also be absolutely settling at that point in their mind or whatever. Hence, my questions.

U have a sick mind,not mad but veeery sick,seek a doctor.

How do you make a diagnosis and you are not a doctor??

Ignore him, kuna ngumi kadhaa za kichwa alipigwa zikamuaffect

Nani alikupiga mablow za hedi

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define imminent first

= ready to occur, can happen, hangs over your “HEAD” waiting… uncertainty, in the future- unknown but expected.

Marriage has more to it than sex. You may not plan on cheating but you can get married then your wifes sex drive dips and she is no longer interested in sex or your marriage can have other issues going on like she loses a close relative and she does not feel like having sex with you for 2 years due to depression. Women are also wired to use sex to secure a husband and once that is done they see no need for regular sex unless their bodies tell them they need a child. Never judge people who cheat and never try to advise them. You do not know what theybare going through and that cheating may be the only thing keeping them sane. We need to embrace open marriages so that people are more open to each other that you can love someone but it does not mean that they meet your sexual needs. Even you yourself you will not meet all your wifes needs and how she reacts to that is upto her not you.