Wife beating is unethical and uncouth. But is it right to say that women require occasional spanking?. Case in point Shebesh, Mr. Shebesh being a gentleman had never spanked his wife. Saga after saga followed the wife. After the famous kidero slap, the lady has calmed down, I guess Mr. Shebesh can now sleep easy. Is the African myth of occasional spanking of a woman as a sign of love true?