Offside kidogo, I think politics has taken over and somehow emotions are rolling. Lakini, unaweza oa malaya?
"What was your motivation to get into this kind of business?" my client asked me as I told him my charges for the night once we got in the room.
I hadn't seen the question coming because most sex-worker's clients have no time for preambles. Theirs is pay, get sex and leave. My client tonight was a young handsome man in his late 20s. The gold ring on his finger was the only reason I suspected he was a married man. ?
I did not have an immediate answer so I retorted: "...and why have you left your wife for prostitutes... I am in business!"
Deep inside me I knew I would give anything to live a more decent life, but prostitution had gotten into me and now I could not free myself! His smile was the kindest I have ever seen in my entire life as a sex-worker. "Would you really be interested in knowing why I am here?" He gently responded sending frightening memories of the warning my "mentors" in sex work had issued.
"If you ever meet a client who wants to engage you in conversation, be on the alert; he could be buying time for mischief such as calling his friends for gang rape, forcing you into crime or even murder!" But my one year experience in sex-work had equipped me fully for such eventualities and I knew what to do should this man try any monkey-business.
But how wrong I was, this man had been sent by God to rescue me from the bondage of prostitution. I recalled how I had got into sex work.........................
Today, I am a pharmacist and doing a Masters in a university in Nairobi. We have since solemnised our marriage and we are the proud parents of two lovely daughters. My husband has never judged me, nor does he attribute anything about me to my former sex-work life. I have never doubted his love or gotten insecure that he can seek solace from sex workers again. Our meeting made us believe in God more since it was indeed a divine connection.
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"What was your motivation to get into this kind of business?" my client asked me as I told him my charges for the night once we got in the room.
I hadn't seen the question coming because most sex-worker's clients have no time for preambles. Theirs is pay, get sex and leave. My client tonight was a young handsome man in his late 20s. The gold ring on his finger was the only reason I suspected he was a married man. ?
I did not have an immediate answer so I retorted: "...and why have you left your wife for prostitutes... I am in business!"
Deep inside me I knew I would give anything to live a more decent life, but prostitution had gotten into me and now I could not free myself! His smile was the kindest I have ever seen in my entire life as a sex-worker. "Would you really be interested in knowing why I am here?" He gently responded sending frightening memories of the warning my "mentors" in sex work had issued.
"If you ever meet a client who wants to engage you in conversation, be on the alert; he could be buying time for mischief such as calling his friends for gang rape, forcing you into crime or even murder!" But my one year experience in sex-work had equipped me fully for such eventualities and I knew what to do should this man try any monkey-business.
But how wrong I was, this man had been sent by God to rescue me from the bondage of prostitution. I recalled how I had got into sex work.........................
Today, I am a pharmacist and doing a Masters in a university in Nairobi. We have since solemnised our marriage and we are the proud parents of two lovely daughters. My husband has never judged me, nor does he attribute anything about me to my former sex-work life. I have never doubted his love or gotten insecure that he can seek solace from sex workers again. Our meeting made us believe in God more since it was indeed a divine connection.
Read more from the source: https://www.standardmedia.co.ke/evewoman/article/2001258350/i-married-my-sex-client