Women choose who to have sex with, men choose who they marry.

Abba

Village Sponsor
#2
But does it mean that for a woman, the man she marries tells us zero about her preferences for a sexual partner?
The preference you referring to isn't about sex , it's about the genes she wants transfered to her offspring . They carefully select what genes their kids need to have.
 
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Wewe unafikiria kwanini kitambo in our ancient traditional African setting virginity was such a highly valued commodity? Elders knew that the befitting gift for taking up a risk such as marriage was being the 1st one to hit the coochie. But siku hizi beta males watatoa mahari ya kitu imekanyangwa kuliko zile basi za kuenda kwa kina @Eng'iti . Even worse, singo mathas pia wamepanda bei na pia wanadai dowry:D:D


What a time to be an Alpha
 

thesavage

Village Elder
#6
Nope, they select the provisionary ability. Kama ni genes anadai atapata ata nje. 75% of men in KE are not raising their spawn....guaranteed
So then to a woman, marriage and sex are two things miles apart? That a woman who has marital interest in you may have zero interest in you sexually? Assuming the answer those questions is even remotely to the affirmative, it is crucial for a man to distinguish which woman is sexually interested in him and which one is only having marital interest. How can a man discern?
 
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TLtl

New Villager
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The preference you referring to isn't about sex , it's about the genes she wants transfered to her offspring . They carefully select what genes their kids need to have.
False.. beautiful women get married to mean looking rather ugly men why
 
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Mrs Shosho

Guest
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So then to a woman, marriage and sex are two things miles apart? That a woman who has marital interest in you may have zero interest in you sexually? Assuming the answer those questions is even remotely to the affirmative, it is crucial for a man to distinguish which woman is sexually interested in him and which one is only having marital interest. How can a man discern?
I don't think it is fair to tar all women with the same brush. Kwanza millenials waharibu jina sana. Our grandmothers must be tossing in their grave.
 

thesavage

Village Elder
#9
I don't think it is fair to tar all women with the same brush. Kwanza millenials waharibu jina sana. Our grandmothers must be tossing in their grave.
Of course there are exceptions: For example, it is the nature of men to have a pair of balls. Some freaks have none, some have one. I think what @troller was referring to was just women in general in their natural state, not the freaks.
 
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Mrs Shosho

Guest
#10
Of course there are exceptions: For example, it is the nature of men to have a pair of balls. Some freaks have none, some have one. I think what @troller was referring to was just women in general in their natural state, not the freaks.
Truedat. I did not see his thread...so could be biased. Having said that I will say one thing against my fellow women....a man should be careful, v careful about a woman caught cheating and I mean wife here.
 

thesavage

Village Elder
#11
Truedat. I did not see his thread...so could be biased. Having said that I will say one thing against my fellow women....a man should be careful, v careful about a woman caught cheating and I mean wife here.
It was not a his thread, it was just a comment he made on a thread...

"Should be careful?" You no say. Heheheeee

Me thinks in the circumstances, considering the marriage thing and all, not caught is more likely, and also most catastrophic.
 
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Mrs Shosho

Guest
#12
It was not a his thread, it was just a comment he made on a thread...

"Should be careful?" You no say. Heheheeee

Me thinks in the circumstances, considering the marriage thing and all, not caught is more likely, also most catastrophic.
I did not want to dwell too deep...here we but ujue only a women DNA notwithstanding, can stand and say this is the father of my child.
Also normal women have sex with their emotions engaged. Si umenyit those 2 points?:)
 

thesavage

Village Elder
#14
I did not want to dwell too deep...here we but ujue only a women DNA notwithstanding, can stand and say this is the father of my child.
Also normal women have sex with their emotions engaged. Si umenyit those 2 points?:)
Kweli. Point nzito. Ni wale tu uhanya kupindukia saa zingine hujichanganya wasijue mtoto ni wa nani. Heheheeee... I have heard of such cases, lakini ni exception. Na pia kuna malaya wengi sana hii dunia, kumaanisha wanafak wakifikiria pesa. Emotion much? Heheheheeee... Cover story. So kulingana na hii maneno mwanamke anaweza olewa kuondokea maisha magumu (ie apate pesa).
 
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Mrs Shosho

Guest
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Kweli. Point nzito. Ni wale tu uhanya kupindukia saa zingine hujichanganya wasijue mtoto ni wa nani. Heheheeee... I have heard of such cases, lakini ni exception.
Hata akijichanganya, she can kind of work out who she was with if she works her dates backwards. Lakini tushajionea a white woman giving birth with her husband in atttendance taimagini and the baby comes out pitch black...mpaka it makes headlines and on telly etc.
Atee how the midwife, nurses and Drs were left in shock as the man stood there confused. A happy moment turning into tear works.
 

MikeOck

Village Elder
#16
So then to a woman, marriage and sex are two things miles apart? That a woman who has marital interest in you may have zero interest in you sexually? Assuming the answer those questions is even remotely to the affirmative, it is crucial for a man to distinguish which woman is sexually interested in him and which one is only having marital interest. How can a man discern?
You can discern by developing tests that filter for whatever you want to optimize for. I want ladies who are interested in me sexually first and foremost, so I do cheap first dates, I don't tuma fare and I make the date some far off place like Two Rivers that requires time sacrifice on her part to see her initial receptiveness. A woman looking for husband material will want the man to pay uber and do expensive dinners, but a lady looking for the hot alpha will jump through all manner of hoops on her own to get to him. Also during the date, look at the topics the woman wants to discuss. If she's so keen on finding a beta male provider, she will start career and property discussions(uko na gari/unastay wapi) very early in the date and be disgusted by dirty talk. But kama ni dame ako keen on banging, she will be keen on talking about fun times and even sex talk, mambo ya career/uko na gari/unastay wapi bla bla bla will be largely ignored unless you bring it up
 

edd K

Village Elder
#17
Wewe unafikiria kwanini kitambo in our ancient traditional African setting virginity was such a highly valued commodity? Elders knew that the befitting gift for taking up a risk such as marriage was being the 1st one to hit the coochie. But siku hizi beta males watatoa mahari ya kitu imekanyangwa kuliko zile basi za kuenda kwa kina @Eng'iti . Even worse, singo mathas pia wamepanda bei na pia wanadai dowry:D:D


What a time to be an Alpha
ahahahahahahaha....pia singo matha wanataka validation............!!!!!!!!!
 

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