The advise is great especially
@WuTang. I once had a lady who was pressuring me to move to Langata because her brother lived there.I was to pay rent ya 35K. We later disagreed and split up,but i am glad i did not make the mistake.
I once told her if we get married my parents had given me a place to build and we could build there. They live in outskirts of Nairobi where many people commute to work so we could live there in our house and commute daily.The look i got ,and she was not wealthy as a person ,but seemed to glorify living for the camera.