I have seen people bash single mothers here for no reason. Personally, I see nothing wrong with marrying a single mother because there are many childless women full of shit. Unfortunately, my friend Steve didn't know where to draw the line and ignored the red flags despite my advice. Let's just say yesternight alijua hajui. Steve is in his early thirties, a little older than me, and was a bachelor, so I understood the pressure on him to get a wife at that age. Obviously, at his age, it is safe to assume that his most probable partner would have a child. However, when Steve spotted this 23 year old single mother with firm boobs and a killer ass, his mind went into overdrive and within weeks, he was her official man. Although I have nothing against single mothers, I believe that it is foolhardy to try and marry a woman with her back against the wall to provide for her kid. Simply put, the chances of the "love" not being genuine, from her side is extremely high as she has to sacrifice her feelings for her child's welfare. When I asked Steve what the young single mother did for a living, Steve couldn't give a definitive answer. I asked him how exactly she had managed to raise a kid in Nairobi, without a job and probably from a poor background. I expected ajijazie but he was too dumb or just pussymatized. I thought that at his age, and having been in Nairobi longer than me, he should know that if a single mother doesn't have a stable source of income, or cant explain her income stream, there is a high chance of being a whore. During Fridays and Saturdays, she goes to her "home" and returns on Sundays. Jana tukiwa na Steve rounds za ulevi, we met his woman grinding on a mzungu pale Simmers. Honestly, I was not surprised. Steve is the new mayor of I told you town.
Yesterday was not a good day for a drinking buddy
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I wouldn't trust any single mother raising a kid while jobless in Nairobi or with an income of below 20k. I hinted to the nigger that if he had to marry a single mother, his best bet was one with a stable income stream e.g a teacher, nurse, businesswoman (a business he can verify) etc. Kuoa single mother msoto is a very stupid decision. It is impossible kudomesticate mwanamke ameonja pesa ya umalaya unless you have very deep pockets that it no longer makes sense for her to "hustle".
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Some of these issues is purely misiba ya kujitafutia. Beautiful women are usually a target of the most sinister men and they most times end up being single moms, aborting or hit and run. Wanaume go all out to lure them but mostly theyre never serious with them. So its obvious after all the bitter experiences and with kids to support they feel justified to use their good looks to get financial support from men. So since he didnt meet her in a church. He should have expected it. Plus most dead beat dads are still in the picture anyway. Blood is thicker than water. Pole kwa hayo but be sober n conservative wen getting a life partner,sio tuu looks.Theyre women who are virgins even at 25 so kusema he could only get a single mother, sielewi imetoka wapi. Good girls are but hutawapata kwa pubs or dressing provocatively. If he saw the behind hata wanaume wengi wanaona hiyo behind so watamsaidia kulea mtoi. People need to be realistic in life. U don't just jump into deep end n the person tayari ako na baggage!
