In my study, I find out that whenever you accidentally impregnate a girl regardless of whether you were in love ama ni slices za mtaa ulipewa, chances are very low that you two end up marrying. I’m not excluding unmarried men from this. Take for instance, a situation where an unmarried young man, either in college or elsewhere, accidentally impregnates his girlfriend, and maybe cause he isn’t ready to marry at that time, he decides to deny responsibility. This guy will most likely never marry this girl. She is more likely to be inherited by an overage man or become a single mother. While choosing to be a single mother is suicidal, considering that most of them never have the potential to give care for the born babies. Ndo sababu, unaonaga dem anazaa tena na tena, as she tries to find means to have to have these kids survive. But my question is; how do you guys feel when you now married, but you still have some other kids of yours with other ladies elsewhere that aren’t your wives?
Nobody sets out in life to impregnate 3 or 5 different women and then desert his children. These things are all down to fate and it is important that you don’t dwell too much on things that you can’t change and instead do your best to provide for all of them.
A friend of mine has 4 baby-mommas and he reckons that it is his calling in life to impregnate women who wish to be single mothers!..
