chap
April 1, 2021, 6:23pm
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I have stopped reading just because of that, it is a reflection of the discipline he lacks in life
Mjombaz:
Recently my baby mama who is in Qatar found someone who wants to marry her n my 4 year old daughter that i really am attached to and we love each other very much. Only condition is i give up my daughter and all rights forever not even ever video calling or communicating with my daughter even if she gets her own phone. I support and always supported the baby mama pay rent, food ,medication and any need.Cunning and crafty ,she will a times lie the child is sick to siphone money. The drama the baby mama has put me through can never allow me to get back to her. For me personally, i have no problem her marrying infact am happy for her…so she can stop her drama ,humiliation, pain and agony she has put me through before she left for Qatar. She will go around playing victim yet i am the one who knows her exact philandering ways…which i came to find when she was 5 months pregnant accidentally on her phone’s facebook. I found almost 10 different men. Some are in the US , others they meet when I am at my business, others she was telling them…“My boyfriend will be leaving abroad for studies in September so we can continue meeting”. From the messages i also came to understand her modus operandi , even from a her university days at Baraton Kapsabet,she was a public kunguru on the weekends they will be club hopping at Eldoret town jumping from one d*ck to other with her othrr slay queens. Fucking married sponsors and even at times the wives will call her to confront her but she din’t give a shit. Also she was raised by single mum and so she had Daddy issues …which tells why she is so slutty and does not respect a man …she never respect me and will talk anyhow. I later wanted to bolt out after discovering this shocking revelations but i din’t want to be called names; “deadbeat, i paged someone and abandon her”. Also, she gave my number to her aunt, who is married to a pastor of the Prophet David Owuor churches, adviced me to stick and wait the child to be born we do DNA. Then afterwards i can decide to do what to is best. It made sense since i figured it will it just four months only tujue mbivu na mbichi.? By now had even started doubting who is the father. I also forgot to mention she was my rebound and we had barely met 7 months ago and it i was just munching to get over my ex.I had met this Kunguru(baby mama) on tagged…but two months akaniambia ako paged…and since she seemed wifey material i said well life happens…lets see how it goes but boy was i wrong !She concealed her true character haungedhani anaeza ua inzi. After mtoi kuzaliwa ananifanana sana I stayed for a year torn in a loveless relationship juu i felt the child is innocent can’t ay for sins of their parent. I din’t trust the baby mama infact we slept in separate rooms just faked for appearance n relatives. Gentlemen ile hasira ako nayo the baby mama wacha tu! I personally don’t like drama and mambo mingi. She will come to my business premises mbele ya majamaa , neighbors ,shouting , chaos, tried fight my new girlfriend till akaona hapa ni kunoma and she left. She will deny me mtoto access occasionally but yet am supporting her …i guess i was or am soft or care too much. She knows my weakness ni huyo mtoto juu nampenda sana. She got me by my balls, she knows where to squeeze me hard( the kid access). Even now she maybe using reverse pschology to get me to go back to her…because i love the child like crazy. My dillema now is what i should do, she told me even i refuse to let free (meaning give up on my child)cause the man is will be will not be happy her step daughter phone /video calling me daddy when he comes from work.Also she has asked if there is any way i can forgive her and reconcile cause she just wants a family . She doesn’t mind being wife no 2 with my current girlfriend who has a daughter for me 6 month daughter. But that means i would lose my current gf n daughter…Villagers i am torn in losing the first daughter but i don’t want to lose my current gf and daughter?
You fukced up to the point of no return the day you saw a ‘wife material’ in tagged. Tagged, cupid na hizo zingine zoooote ni za umalaya.
conteh
April 1, 2021, 8:37pm
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…then too soon after ya Yodas story that is pinned.
Pole mbro your goose is cooked.
Lets them go forever. Anza afresh. The kid might find you one day
Let her go with the daughter.
It is time to move on…unless you still want that kunguru. Fullstop!
hata mimi nimesoma first sentence nikasema bullchieth
MBOMB
April 2, 2021, 2:54am
29
After @MasterYoda 's thread gathered over 15 pages of comments, @administrator Na yule mod handle yake imejaa abbreviations of his past STDs wameamua kutupima akili…shenji sana
Hata mimi nashangaa. How do you meet a woman on tagged and expect wife material. Tagged is like meeting a drunk woman at the pub.
anon46421834:
You fukced up to the point of no return the day you saw a ‘wife material’ in tagged. Tagged, cupid na hizo zingine zoooote ni za umalaya.
Yeah bro , you are right about tagged.I made a poor sense of judgement which i regret till today. I had just been introduced by a friend since he suggested, " Now that you single to forget your ex and move on go for few dates here but he didn’t caution me how ruthless and seasoned those tagged kunguru are! The child is a blessing though despite every other mistakes. Someone adviced that even if you spend so much money fighting in court ,the mother wins.
@smokin_gun and @Nananimpa can guide here
Mjombaz:
Yeah bro , you are right about tagged.I made a poor sense of judgement which i regret till today. I had just been introduced by a friend since he suggested, " Now that you single to forget your ex and move on go for few dates here but he didn’t caution me how ruthless and seasoned those tagged kunguru are! The child is a blessing though despite every other mistakes. Someone adviced that even if you spend so much money fighting in court ,the mother wins.
Waah, pole bro.Have you confirmed by DNA that the child is indeed yours? If yes, the child is a blessing. Kenya’s constitution favors women in matters parentage, custody and sexual(harassment /abuse) But if you can prove that your kid is being mistreated or abused physically and or sexually by the step dad or anyone else when she is supposed to be under the care of the mum, or that the mother is irresponsible, by introducing different men to the child as ‘daddy’, or by deserting the kid by kuwachia wazazi pale muchatha etc, then you can win.
Mjombaz:
Yeah bro , you are right about tagged.I made a poor sense of judgement which i regret till today. I had just been introduced by a friend since he suggested, " Now that you single to forget your ex and move on go for few dates here but he didn’t caution me how ruthless and seasoned those tagged kunguru are! The child is a blessing though despite every other mistakes. Someone adviced that even if you spend so much money fighting in court ,the mother wins.
Nop, the mother does not win. It is a lie. If you have evidence of what you have been doing, just go to the court. even if you have not been doing anything, if you go to the court, it will compel you to start doing it, but also give you access. The court will never deny a father or mother access to the kids, unless one party proves she or he is a danger to the kid. Na mtu asikuambie usahau those kids and move on, you will never have peace of mind as long as you had created a bond with her. Nobody will come share with you the pain and anguish of not seeing your kid and thinking what the kid might be wondering why daddy doesn’t come to see her? I have been there I know it. The only difficult thing is enforcing the order given she is out of the country
Mjombaz:
Recently my baby mama who is in Qatar found someone who wants to marry her n my 4 year old daughter that i really am attached to and we love each other very much. Only condition is i give up my daughter and all rights forever not even ever video calling or communicating with my daughter even if she gets her own phone. I support and always supported the baby mama pay rent, food ,medication and any need.Cunning and crafty ,she will a times lie the child is sick to siphone money. The drama the baby mama has put me through can never allow me to get back to her. For me personally, i have no problem her marrying infact am happy for her…so she can stop her drama ,humiliation, pain and agony she has put me through before she left for Qatar. She will go around playing victim yet i am the one who knows her exact philandering ways…which i came to find when she was 5 months pregnant accidentally on her phone’s facebook. I found almost 10 different men. Some are in the US , others they meet when I am at my business, others she was telling them…“My boyfriend will be leaving abroad for studies in September so we can continue meeting”. From the messages i also came to understand her modus operandi , even from a her university days at Baraton Kapsabet,she was a public kunguru on the weekends they will be club hopping at Eldoret town jumping from one d*ck to other with her othrr slay queens. Fucking married sponsors and even at times the wives will call her to confront her but she din’t give a shit. Also she was raised by single mum and so she had Daddy issues …which tells why she is so slutty and does not respect a man …she never respect me and will talk anyhow. I later wanted to bolt out after discovering this shocking revelations but i din’t want to be called names; “deadbeat, i paged someone and abandon her”. Also, she gave my number to her aunt, who is married to a pastor of the Prophet David Owuor churches, adviced me to stick and wait the child to be born we do DNA. Then afterwards i can decide to do what to is best. It made sense since i figured it will it just four months only tujue mbivu na mbichi.? By now had even started doubting who is the father. I also forgot to mention she was my rebound and we had barely met 7 months ago and it i was just munching to get over my ex.I had met this Kunguru(baby mama) on tagged…but two months akaniambia ako paged…and since she seemed wifey material i said well life happens…lets see how it goes but boy was i wrong !She concealed her true character haungedhani anaeza ua inzi. After mtoi kuzaliwa ananifanana sana I stayed for a year torn in a loveless relationship juu i felt the child is innocent can’t ay for sins of their parent. I din’t trust the baby mama infact we slept in separate rooms just faked for appearance n relatives. Gentlemen ile hasira ako nayo the baby mama wacha tu! I personally don’t like drama and mambo mingi. She will come to my business premises mbele ya majamaa , neighbors ,shouting , chaos, tried fight my new girlfriend till akaona hapa ni kunoma and she left. She will deny me mtoto access occasionally but yet am supporting her …i guess i was or am soft or care too much. She knows my weakness ni huyo mtoto juu nampenda sana. She got me by my balls, she knows where to squeeze me hard( the kid access). Even now she maybe using reverse pschology to get me to go back to her…because i love the child like crazy. My dillema now is what i should do, she told me even i refuse to let free (meaning give up on my child)cause the man is will be will not be happy her step daughter phone /video calling me daddy when he comes from work.Also she has asked if there is any way i can forgive her and reconcile cause she just wants a family . She doesn’t mind being wife no 2 with my current girlfriend who has a daughter for me 6 month daughter. But that means i would lose my current gf n daughter…Villagers i am torn in losing the first daughter but i don’t want to lose my current gf and daughter?
huyo ako qatar ni mkisii?
Mjombaz:
Recently my baby mama who is in Qatar found someone who wants to marry her n my 4 year old daughter that i really am attached to and we love each other very much. Only condition is i give up my daughter and all rights forever not even ever video calling or communicating with my daughter even if she gets her own phone. I support and always supported the baby mama pay rent, food ,medication and any need.Cunning and crafty ,she will a times lie the child is sick to siphone money. The drama the baby mama has put me through can never allow me to get back to her. For me personally, i have no problem her marrying infact am happy for her…so she can stop her drama ,humiliation, pain and agony she has put me through before she left for Qatar. She will go around playing victim yet i am the one who knows her exact philandering ways…which i came to find when she was 5 months pregnant accidentally on her phone’s facebook. I found almost 10 different men. Some are in the US , others they meet when I am at my business, others she was telling them…“My boyfriend will be leaving abroad for studies in September so we can continue meeting”. From the messages i also came to understand her modus operandi , even from a her university days at Baraton Kapsabet,she was a public kunguru on the weekends they will be club hopping at Eldoret town jumping from one d*ck to other with her othrr slay queens. Fucking married sponsors and even at times the wives will call her to confront her but she din’t give a shit. Also she was raised by single mum and so she had Daddy issues …which tells why she is so slutty and does not respect a man …she never respect me and will talk anyhow. I later wanted to bolt out after discovering this shocking revelations but i din’t want to be called names; “deadbeat, i paged someone and abandon her”. Also, she gave my number to her aunt, who is married to a pastor of the Prophet David Owuor churches, adviced me to stick and wait the child to be born we do DNA. Then afterwards i can decide to do what to is best. It made sense since i figured it will it just four months only tujue mbivu na mbichi.? By now had even started doubting who is the father. I also forgot to mention she was my rebound and we had barely met 7 months ago and it i was just munching to get over my ex.I had met this Kunguru(baby mama) on tagged…but two months akaniambia ako paged…and since she seemed wifey material i said well life happens…lets see how it goes but boy was i wrong !She concealed her true character haungedhani anaeza ua inzi. After mtoi kuzaliwa ananifanana sana I stayed for a year torn in a loveless relationship juu i felt the child is innocent can’t ay for sins of their parent. I din’t trust the baby mama infact we slept in separate rooms just faked for appearance n relatives. Gentlemen ile hasira ako nayo the baby mama wacha tu! I personally don’t like drama and mambo mingi. She will come to my business premises mbele ya majamaa , neighbors ,shouting , chaos, tried fight my new girlfriend till akaona hapa ni kunoma and she left. She will deny me mtoto access occasionally but yet am supporting her …i guess i was or am soft or care too much. She knows my weakness ni huyo mtoto juu nampenda sana. She got me by my balls, she knows where to squeeze me hard( the kid access). Even now she maybe using reverse pschology to get me to go back to her…because i love the child like crazy. My dillema now is what i should do, she told me even i refuse to let free (meaning give up on my child)cause the man is will be will not be happy her step daughter phone /video calling me daddy when he comes from work.Also she has asked if there is any way i can forgive her and reconcile cause she just wants a family . She doesn’t mind being wife no 2 with my current girlfriend who has a daughter for me 6 month daughter. But that means i would lose my current gf n daughter…Villagers i am torn in losing the first daughter but i don’t want to lose my current gf and daughter?
According to children’s act, you can demand all that you want. Wakili lazima utatumia.
omhangla:
Nop, the mother does not win. It is a lie. If you have evidence of what you have been doing, just go to the court. even if you have not been doing anything, if you go to the court, it will compel you to start doing it, but also give you access. The court will never deny a father or mother access to the kids, unless one party proves she or he is a danger to the kid. Na mtu asikuambie usahau those kids and move on, you will never have peace of mind as long as you had created a bond with her. Nobody will come share with you the pain and anguish of not seeing your kid and thinking what the kid might be wondering why daddy doesn’t come to see her? I have been there I know it. The only difficult thing is enforcing the order given she is out of the country
People, especially women, see court as a place to go to get the man’s cash. Kumbe even men can be assisted?