Leaning in is a subconcious act. Your mind quickly taps from what is familiar, in this case your submissiveness to her, while hers sticks to what is familiar- her ‘I will never submit to you’ inner person. If burj khalifa tower can fit in a photo frame, you also can. That we ‘should look good if I lean in’ is the simp in a man subconciously telling him what to do to impress.
