building your parents a house

[Ngau]

@Lordsavegery

From a facebook online discussion

[B]I judge your parents if they had to wait for you to build them a house. They lived their life and had their chances, if they couldn’t build for themselves, well their loss.
In my culture it’s not seen well that a parent waits for the child they gave birth to, to build them a house. It’s kind of failing adulting. I don’t understand how it’s a way of life in Kenya. I’d be so embarassed.
Different cultures, different beliefs. I guess… https://z-p3-static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/tf1/1/16/1f4af.png[/B]

.This issue of most African parents using their children as an investment has been holding us back for long time.Imagine with this kind of life, when you have to deal with your parents needs plus your own.Yes we have to aid them but dealing with their failed responsibilities some times drags us back that we can not prosper coz we are constantly looking back instead of going forward contributing to a series of generational poverty.

Utakosa kusaidika wazazi usaidie Nani, lakini kuna watu ata kupatia mzazi 2k hawawezi, lakini mizinga na Malaya wanatumia mamillion ya pesa…jinga Sana.

[PERDITION]

@Ngau

Utakosa kusaidika wazazi usaidie Nani, lakini kuna watu ata kupatia mzazi 2k hawawezi, lakini mizinga na Malaya wanatumia mamillion ya pesa…jinga Sana.

C.c to @kanguthu , @kanguthu has tingishad kinyambizz for dollars across the globe but since he earned his income the ‘hard way’ he never helped @kanguthu senior who sold his kinyambliz locally . A cursed lot of perverts. @kanguthu luckily got married to @Thirimaii and together were blessed with baby frog with ssengas smug smile[ATTACH=full]453312[/ATTACH]

[Thirimaii]

@PERDITION

C.c to @kanguthu , @kanguthu has tingishad kinyambizz for dollars across the globe but since he earned his income the ‘hard way’ he never helped @kanguthu senior who sold his kinyambliz locally . A cursed lot of perverts. @kanguthu luckily got married to @Thirimaii and together were blessed with baby frog with ssengas smug smile[ATTACH=full]453312[/ATTACH]

@PERDITION

C.c to @kanguthu , @kanguthu has tingishad kinyambizz for dollars across the globe but since he earned his income the ‘hard way’ he never helped @kanguthu senior who sold his kinyambliz locally . A cursed lot of perverts. @kanguthu luckily got married to @Thirimaii and together were blessed with baby frog with ssengas smug smile[ATTACH=full]453312[/ATTACH]

Wee nawe huwezi pea watu space ya ku-breathe after 2nd round.

[system]

@Ngau

Utakosa kusaidika wazazi usaidie Nani, lakini kuna watu ata kupatia mzazi 2k hawawezi, lakini mizinga na Malaya wanatumia mamillion ya pesa…jinga Sana.

Not everybody loves their parents like you buana

[messiahette]

Giving is always better than receiving. The joy you get from putting a smile on someone’s face is priceless, moreso your parents. Give frequently and always with a cheerful heart because the more you give, the more you receive.

[Titty_Twister]

Depends. Kama wazazi wako na permanent house, wanaeza kataa waseme wanataka noti, kama wetu. Everyone is giving them a stipend check-off but pia ilifika mahali tukasema tutabomoa hata wakikatalia ndani. Walitii na sasa they retired as they dreamt at one point tukiishi kwa tin-roofed house pale Nyabasi. Ile upendo wako nayo for the grandkids, wacha tu. Kusema tu ukweli i love my parents. They sacrificed the world for us

[Azor_Ahai]

@SwagMargeddon

kuna jamaa alosemanga hapa ati anaishi kw babayake ba baba yake anaishi kwa baba yake pia:D:D:D

Nakumbuka vizuri sio mwingine ila village kypii @Jimit :D:D

Pia alikataa kutahiri kapsaaa

[Shaka]

@Mwanaume Pochi

Guys don’t be harsh to your parents because in the last 50 years we have transitioned from the traditional African society to modern society.

You see in traditional time kids were a source of wealth juu they provided labour for you in farming( kulisha cattle, planting,cultivating & harvesting) plus dowry was paid for girls and this led to wealth creation.

Fast forward we are in modern time children are now the number one source of poverty juu

1.Kuna school fees & other expenses until 18 years or more. So kuzaa kama panya is a disadvantage.

2.There is a scarcity of resources (land) juu watu ni wengi already.

3. Machines (robots,computers & tools) which have replaced human labour. Of course they are more efficient and have contributed massively to unemployment. By the way kuna artificial intelligence eg. self driving cars so in the future jobs mob zitaenda.

4.Colonisation , capitalism & corruption has caused a lot of poverty juu tunajua ni wachache wanafaidika na sisi wengine ni slaves wa kuthukuma ,was kulipa tax & a market for finished goods.

So in the end POVERTY has confused AFRICANS to the point that instead of inheriting wealth from their parents just in like in the Bible, in the west & in traditional African society the reverse is happening. Poor people hexpect to raise kids with bare minimum resources hoping wataomoka ndio sasa they build houses for parents na wasomeshe wadogo wao & other forms of black tax

Yah total confusion, resources are scarce and for a young man or woman time is also as scarce. It should be you first and then your parents and siblings not the other way round. I have seen first born girls miss their chance of making a family working hard to help parents and educate their siblings

[Jimit]

@Azor Ahai

Nakumbuka vizuri sio mwingine ila village kypii @Jimit :D:D

Pia alikataa kutahiri kapsaaa

Fadhee jana umeitwa faggot leo pia ikasemekana wewe ni crossdresser sasa unajaribu kuget back na very lame jokes. Haiwork.

[captain_obvious]

@Kumbaffu

Muhindi by the time amemaliza high school, anakuwa mentored into the family business ata kama yeye alikuwa dander head.
Alafu anafunzwa investment, asset management etc mpaka anatafutiwa bibi sio kunguru.

Huyo ni muhindi wa Kenya, watu wamekuwa na pesa for at least four generations now. It’s certainly not Indian culture coz ukienda huko India situation ni same, majority of the population struggles to educate their children partly because they expect those kids to succeed and give them a better lifestyle.

@sani

Wale wazungu kwao hakuna black tax, wamejawa na upweke, huwa wanakufa wakiwa lonely, marafiki zao ni mbwa na paka.

Mzungu anashinda akitukumbusha vile black tax is not their “culture” alafu anakufa peke yake kwa apartment, mwili inapatikana after one year, na anazikwa bila ata one so-called family member attending their funeral. Mwafrika kama kawaida juu kazi ni ku-copy kila kitu mzungu hufanya, utaona akishinda pale social media ati “we need to talk about black tax.” Washienzi kabisa.

[Douchebag]

@uwesmake

nimejengea mbuyu kiongozi 5 bedroom Kanduyi bungoma and i have no regrets

Kumbe umepiga selli mkunye hadi ukoo yako yote wamefaidika?!!!
Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeseeeez

[SwagMargeddon]

nimepata buana
kumbe ni @bad guy
More young adults 25-34 years old living with their parents: Report - General - Kenya Talk

@SwagMargeddon

kuna jamaa alisemanga hapa ati anaishi kwa babayake na baba yake anaishi kwa baba yake pia:D:D:D

lakini @bad guy anakaa old money wale wa kukuwa na greenhouse saba na car wash bay kwa nyumba ya 5acres leafy suburbs

[SIZE=1]mtu asiniulize kwa nini ninakiquote
ama kama nimesahau kubadilisha handle[/SIZE]

[Mjusi_Kafiri]

@uwesmake

nimejengea mbuyu kiongozi 5 bedroom Kanduyi bungoma and i have no regrets

nobody asked you uwesmakei

[cortedivoire]

For every 150 spent tuma 150 kwa mzazi

[Capitan]

@Azor Ahai

This only happens when broke people breed like rats in the hopes that one kid will save them from misery

so everyone with one or two kids is rich?

[Azor_Ahai]

@Capitan

so everyone with one or two kids is rich?

Is that what you understood?

[ugali_ya_jana]

@Billy Drago

Ile siku mzazi wake ataiaga dunia, workmates wachange za mazishi na wateue some representatives kuleta rambirambi zao, wapate a grass thatched house halafu walinganishe na ustaarabu wa their colleague huko mjini… Hiyo afisi haitakalika.

Wajengee wazazi, pengine karo yako ndio ilikuwa kizingiti cha wao kutojenga.

so with your funny swahili you care much how people will view you after your parents demise because they lived in a thatched house?

[WongNamba]

@PERDITION

It’s a noble cause ,don’t listen to cursed mothwrfucken dogs here , take care of Barents and u will b a beta human and blesd.dont worry andwritin nmekunywa baloozi 23 na ugal kilo 2

:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

[WongNamba]

@SwagMargeddon

kuna jamaa alosemanga hapa ati anaishi kw babayake ba baba yake anaishi kwa baba yake pia:D:D:D

:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

[WongNamba]

Still go back to my point of building adequate = tiny house. Unawajengea a tiny one bedroom with large wide doors, ramp ya kuingia hao na bathroom geriatric friendly mpaka place ya kuketi wakioshwa… just build tiny don’t break the bank. It will even be cheaper to warm the house for wazae… Hata haitafikisha nusu mita ocha standards but it would be a beautiful little thing to behold.