Darkest six years of my life.u

[system]

A woman who leaves her kids ni bure kabisa! I have no respect even for those ladies that let their parents raise their kids ati naenda Nairobi/Ngambo kutafuta pesa! No! No! Carry your own cross! Very traumatizing for the kids…Pole @Col Kakende

[bjurmann]

Na kwa nini huwa unajiitaga Colonel Kakende juu hata kakende hata kamoja huna? You have no balls.

[Ingia]

@Ice_Cube

am not him, I just remembered in the other thread he said he had a six year experience with the first wife and Luther told him to retell

Okay. I get it.
@Col Kakende Wewe inakaa unabembelezana na wanawake sana, and they know the weakness. A man who can raise 3.5 M in a short time should be able not to give a fuck about bitchy women. Unaamka unaprepare watoto kwenda shule mapema hivo kwani bibi yako alikuwa na mimba inakaa aje?? Since what I get is that she spent most time at home. If you work seven to nine and bring good things home, the other party should be able to appreciate that. Make your effort worth to you bro. You aint in fuckin charge of your women.

[Purr_27]

@Ingia I think you talk too fast without reasoning and too much …, Or maybe its your age who have not experienced enough to fully understand from a reality point of view

[kush_yule_mnono]

@Col Kakende

Furthermore what would one expect from someone who has no any parental responsibilities… ?? Itwa baba kwanza then come comment…

Let me just comment though am not yet a baba. Pole jo mujamaa, you and @Ka-Buda have passed through so much krinkum in this life but isorait. So what happened to huyo mtoi wa @BadaLingam malizia hio story priss

[scotch]

there are things i’d only do if my wife/baby mama/gf is paralysed, stick to your roles

[system]

@kush yule mnono

Let me just comment though am not yet a baba…

That you know of…priss priss! Let’s not get ahead of ourselves…

[emali]

amalize story kwanza ndio tuone vile anaweza saidiwa

[Electronics4u]

@emali

amalize story kwanza ndio tuone vile anaweza saidiwa

I concur…apana pea sisi hekaya nusu nusu…maliza yote tukupatie kikombe.

[Ingia]

@Purr_27

@Ingia I think you talk too fast without reasoning and too much …, Or maybe its your age who have not experienced enough to fully understand from a reality point of view

Aiiih. I can see the man has gone through trying times but he sucks up too much to his women. Why did he wake up and take the children to school while the wife sleeps?? So where is her “man” if she has no roles for herself because he has decided not to be in control. You cant cook for your wife, take care of her babies for her and do all shit and expect her not to fuck the watchman while you are at work. he should have watched TV or driven off kuzurura town ama at work so that you go home early. Ama ata wewe unatafuta mwanamme kama huyu wa kutesa?

[kush_yule_mnono]

@Electronics4u

I concur…apana pea sisi hekaya nusu nusu…maliza yote tukupatie kikombe.

Hehe wewe mod siukona u.pus

[Mr_Black]

sounds like a spate of bad luck to me, shit happens to good people. Waiting for part 2

[system]

@Col Kakende

One fine morning… now its almost seven years and some months, niliamka mapema juu ya kopoteza usingizi nikaamua tu wacha niamke mapema at least ni prepare watoi for school. Nikawapikia tea, brushed their shoes and by 6am nikawasindikiza kwenda shule. Nikarudi, nika iron nguo zangu and by 7am nilikua ready kuishia job. Nikaingia bedroom, kissed my “wife” and my almost 2yr old daughter a goodbye kiss… Mimi huyo i left for work. Kutoka job around 5pm nikapitia pub nikameza ka VAT69 nikipitia gazeti faster faster juu nikiwa job, hakuna hio time. Nikafika home by 7pm just in time to watch news. Kufika napata tu my first born na second born pekeyao kwa hao nikadhani tu labda wife ako kwa neighbour wanapeana muchene zao. Kufika 8pm i sensed something is not right coz by 8:30pm watoi huwa washakula supper and ready for bed. Nikatuma my son to the neighbour aangalie kaa mamayake yuko huko since her phone was off. kufika akapata tu his sister( my two year old daughter) na neighbour. Ndio neighbour akaja akanishow that my “wife” alimuachia mtoi at around 2pm na kumwambia anaenda tao and she will be back by 4pm. Akaishia then nikaingia kitchen and hurriedly cooked for the kids then they ate and slept. Nikabaki sitting room waiting for her to show up. By 10pm i started calling her family members asking for her whereabouts but none knew where she was. Ikafika asubuhi and called my general manager at work, explained myself and out of mercy anipea 3days off. Wacha nianze kuzunguka to the all police stations insearch of her… nikaingia all hospitals mpaka after 3days nikaamua kutembelea mortuaries… and" lucky "enough she was not there either… then nikaanza kukusanya pesa just incase someone called to demand ranson for her release. In total nikakusanya 3.5M.

A week passed… then another week .Week after another and weeks turned into a month… endless visits to police stations and hospitals mpaka finaly nika open a missing person file. All this time, my kids were realy hurting asking me when is their mom going to show up… had nothing to tell them but to all just kneel and pray together for her well being wherever she is. . Month turned into two months then more months then ikafikia mwaka… the pain and anguish at that time had reached its limit till i started contemplating suicide just to end my pain and misery. Nikabuy poison nikaingia bedroom ready to consume it and die. But just when i was about to, my little daughter knocked asking me to prepare her milk. Out of nowhere i sobbered up and asked myself what is that i was about to do ?? Who will take care of my kids if i end my miserable life ?? I owe my little daughter big time till date. Then the second year passed… then third year passed also… all this time praying that a corpse might surface somewhere at least nijue alipass on so that my pain and anguish ipungue.

fourth year ikafika… na ikamalizika… . Fifth year vile vile… my kids by this time walikua wame suffer ile mbaya psychologicaly. They were in so much pain hata staki kukumbuka…

then one day at the end of the sixth year nimekaa sitting room na my little dota tukiwatch cartoon nikaskia knock… there she was right at my door step akiwa na mtoto anakaa sijui muhindi ama arab… nilijipata nimem strangle almost to death. infact alianguka chini nikadhani amekufa mpaka alipo regain conciousness 10 min later… thats when my woes began… she filled a case againist me for attempted murder… since she had clear visible marks on her neck ku prove kua she was indeed strangled… lemmie just leave the rest for another day… its all too painful to recal…

Haiya! Eti nini? 6yrs? No communication then casually comes back? Aiye!! Izza for the ordeal.

[Alchemist]

The third story to resonate with these two will get you busted.

[system]

@Ingia

We niaje. Si ulikuwa umenarrate story ingine tofauti hapa? She is not going to dissappear for five years and come back na muhindi. You have to leave. SAVE US THE HEKAYA.
I can see you are trying to depose the Hekaya Hall of Fame secretary general

Comprehension can’t be that difficult, surely.

[kush_yule_mnono]

@Female Perspective

That you know of…priss priss! Let’s not get ahead of ourselves…

Hebu nikuulize sweetheart, is it true that when one wanks too much he will not be able to father a child hapo baadaye?

[Col_Kakende]

@Ingia

Okay. I get it.
@Col Kakende Wewe inakaa unabembelezana na wanawake sana, and they know the weakness. A man who can raise 3.5 M in a short time should be able not to give a f**k about bitchy women. Unaamka unaprepare watoto kwenda shule mapema hivo kwani bibi yako alikuwa na mimba inakaa aje?? Since what I get is that she spent most time at home. If you work seven to nine and bring good things home, the other party should be able to appreciate that. Make your effort worth to you bro. You aint in fuckin charge of your women.

Sasa tuseme… wewe huwa hujipikii chai asubuhi ?? You dont polish ur shoes ?? Whats wrong with polishing your kids shoes ?? And drink tea that you have prepared ?? … do you have kids ?? Kupika chai nikudondoa mchicha… ??? I can see what is it that you are trying to do. Prior to her disappearance we never had any fight. Na ukumbuke huyu ni mama ya watoto wangu. Kama angekua ako kidnapped kikweli ulitaka nisi give a fucckk ??? Fikiria sana… she never showed any signs of cheating. She had made a very calculated move…

[system]

@Col Kakende

Sasa tuseme… wewe huwa hujipikii chai asubuhi ?? You dont polish ur shoes ?? Whats wrong with polishing your kids shoes ?? And drink tea that you have prepared ?? … do you have kids ??

Easy does it. You’re talking to baba zeroes here, they don’t get it. People will punch holes even in air. Wachana nao.

[Ingia]

@Col Kakende

Sasa tuseme… wewe huwa hujipikii chai asubuhi ?? You dont polish ur shoes ?? Whats wrong with polishing your kids shoes ?? And drink tea that you have prepared ?? … do you have kids ?? Kupika chai nikudondoa mchicha… ??? I can see what is it that you are trying to do. Prior to her disappearance we never had any fight. Na ukumbuke huyu ni mama ya watoto wangu. Kama angekua ako kidnapped kikweli ulitaka nisi give a fucckk ??? Fikiria sana… she never showed any signs of cheating. She had made a very calculated move…

It isnt against the law to prepare your children for school, but there are some things you dont do unless your wife is absent, sick, or engaged in a genuinely much more important duty. A wife you work for like you said you did should have something that she realizes makes the marriage worth it for the bread winner. And not just sex or the “love” thing. Just take a good girl home now that you are done with the previous two and do everything and even make sure that all her duties are done for her and watch her fuck all neighbours and you will be back here complaining. Surely, she didnt dissappear on you just like that. There must have been something wrong and you didnt see or you were giving it too much space. If you didnt have your occassional fights then there must be someone in denial. Normal strong relationships have people disagreeing. Give your woman things to worry abt just as she gives you things to worry abt and you will survive and be in control. Ama uwachane nao kabisa and do everything.

[Niititini]

@Bus

Don’t mind these young lads. The worst thing they have seen is a power outage on a weekend.

Hahaa!! That’s a good one.