DNA TEST AND THE DAUGHTERS THAT WERE NEVER MINE

[MasterYoda]

@Uvuvwevwevwe Onyetenyevwe

So which is this first kid kama hakuwa na mtoto kabla uende majuu? Dude, your hekaya has a lot of gaps.!

In the last year before nirudi nilikuja akasema nimemwacha na ball(first kid) that turned out ni ya kamagera, 2nd kid is that the time I was back those first weeks anasema alishika ball ingin ya pili (2nd baby) wapi huelewi coz everyone else is understanding.

[mikel]

@Uvuvwevwevwe Onyetenyevwe

So which is this first kid kama hakuwa na mtoto kabla uende majuu? Dude, your hekaya has a lot of gaps.!

No gaps. …have read his hekaya and its timam…he really doesnt have to spell it to you that the lady already had another kid…in short she was already a single mama

[Uvuvwevwevwe_Onyeten]

@MasterYoda

In the last year before nirudi nilikuja akasema nimemwacha na ball(first kid) that turned out ni ya kamagera, 2nd kid is that the time I was back those first weeks anasema alishika ball ingin ya pili (2nd baby) wapi huelewi coz everyone else is understanding.

Haha nomaaaa sana boss! Huyu haikosi ni mungikiress…very very dangerous!
Pick up your pieces brother and keep walking like Johnie Walker

[Uvuvwevwevwe_Onyeten]

@mikel

No gaps. …have read his hekaya and its timam…he really doesnt have to spell it to you that the lady already had another kid…in short she was already a single mama

You see hata wewe huelewi.

[MasterYoda]

@Uvuvwevwevwe Onyetenyevwe

@MasterYoda kuna kitu huambii kijiji. You have only narrated about your last born daughter who was born ukiwa majuu. What about the first one? Was your woman childless before u left for abroad ama alikua single matha already?

She was childless when I left, nikuja home once in the last year akasema ni mimewacha na mimba. then nikirudi kumwoa after contract iliisha na nilee mtoi nayeye. hio fist two weeks akasema nimempea ball ingine… so hii ya pili ndio nilikuwa sure ni yangu coz those 2 weeks there was a lot of banging. Turns out kumbe she was banging the current husband too at the time I was back ama just before na huyo jamaa ndio alimpa ball. Thats why the guy agreed to marry her.

[captain_obvious]

@Uvuvwevwevwe Onyetenyevwe

So which is this first kid kama hakuwa na mtoto kabla uende majuu? Dude, your hekaya has a lot of gaps.!

Wewe Professor Faggot kwani comprehension ndio shida? Someni hekaya polepole badala ya kuanika ujinga hapa. Washienzi.

[Mimi_Huwa_Namwaga_Nd]

@mikel

@MasterYoda pole sana buda. Now i understand why many talkers have reservations about the other gender. Have you made a full recovery and are you dating again?
I know many are suffering in silence. I wish others like @Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii would also share their stories. Its a jungle out here

Hehehe mimi i learn from other people mistakes kama hii hapa sasa

[AFI]

@MasterYoda

So… where do I start…
In 2013 I got a job to go work for Fox Arabia as a Motion graphics designer. My girlfriend then, whose dad is a bishop in one of these amglican aama sijui ni pentecostal churches was my best closest friend. Partly I snubbed that job juu sikutaka kumwacha nyuma. But she insisted she can take care of herself. I asked her severa times if she could remain sexless until I come back after a 3 year contract and she inisted she could. Upto this time, the only red flag (which I was so blind to take serious) was that she was found kissing some dude in the watchmans booth at the gate of their court. The watchie told me and when approached alikubali… akalia… akaomba msamaha ikaisha. Infact if I had the mind I have right now back then, probably this thread would have ended right here as none of these events would have never unfolded.

Excitement of landing in another country na skype calls kibao, then nikamhamisha to a nice house when greenfields in donholm was still considered a posh neighborhood. sasa ni savings na kutuma pesa ya kujaza nyumba, I had a 3 weeks leave every year and on the last year came home, came spent time na madam and left. 3 months later she calls telling me nilimwacha na mimba. " I call up mama not believing her story juu nashindwa mbona naambiwa after 3 months. Moms like, kuna madame wanaweza shika ball esp if its the first na ikuwe miezi kadhaa wakose kujua. Then I let it slide. Sasa contract inaisha, madam alishazaa kule nairobi womens na mimi sasa ni kurudi home naona. My boss is reasigning me to another asian country with a new contract na chance ya kuleta wife na mtoi. Mimi naona savings imetosha I go back home set up a stable biz na take care of my young family.

2 weeks in, I bump into one of her friends whose shocked am back na hajui. Nikwamwambia I am around. Kidogo I ask why she hasnt passed by yeye na the group of girls I left… first she was slow to say anything but later she opened up akaniambia they were banned from going to my house. Interrogation kidogo kumbe kuna makanga wa squadi (kamagera) amekuwa akilala huko daily. When they knew they approached their friend kuwongelesha but she chose the d*ck over solid advice. According to her, huyo mtoi anafanana huyo jamaa. Akanipeleka base, I approached the guy peace talk kidogo nikaona wanafanana. Nigga gave me 500bob ya maziwa nipelekee madam as at that moment I was the womans cousin. kufika home nikamwambia hii stoty yote, drama hapa pale…machozi… akakataa mtoi si wa huyu jamaa. I was like kesho we do a DNA test (back then it cost an arm and a leg) we agreed kesho we go. Did research nikaambiwa. Nikalala kwa siz nikafika na taxi nikamwambia achukue mtoi twende. She was like shes thought about it overnight na akaona labda si wangu… na hataki niharibu pesa ikuwe sio yangu.

Gave her 48 hours atafute story ataambia watu wa kwao na ahame. She picked stuff na akaenda. A month later she calls ati hio 2 weeks we were together na ile daily sex nimempea ball. Nikaona hapa siwezi ruka. So since I have been taking care of the girls wako early primary saa hii. LAter she caused a lot of drama kule kwa childrens ati huyo mtoi wa kwanza pia ni wangu na sitaki majukumu. Nikaona nipeane child support to both for peace of mind. Now as usual when unalipa venye wanataka hakuna kelele. She went and got married to some jamaa. one day she calls me ati watu wa kwao hawapendi the husband and she needs some manly advice. tukaongea tukimaliza am like “na unapenda huyu mwanaume, hebu whatsapp me picha yake nimwone” - mjinga akatuma. Guess what? Anafanana na my last daughter copyright. when I shared the pic na familia everyone is like anafanana msichana yako sana.

Kidogo, shule zinafunguliwa fees ni 160k for both first term, nikamuliza uliwapeleka riara ama wapi jamani. Akasema ni hivyo… kuitisha fees structure ikakuja after 3 days na ni word document yenye haina rubber stamp. Mimi ndege nikakuja nairobi. Nikasema if I am paying more fees I need to know if these babies are mine juu it all smells shit. Nikachukuwa watoi jioni ati pizza hut. nikamwapeleka mombasa road DNA test (which btw nilipata hapa kwa kijiji) Samples nikalipa nikaambiwa 2 weeks results. Kila siku ni simu anapiga… unatuma fees lini. Venye nilisema natuma nikishapata DNA reslts akaenda akauliza watoi niliwapeleka wapi. Akashika nare mbaya.

Results ndio hizo attached.
Trauma for a few days nikarudi normal. Nikasema heri nimejua mapema.

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Endelea tafadhali. What has transpired since then. I hope you have completely cut off ties with her completely and u have filed for a restraining order against her.

[Mzee_wa_jiji]

I am always glad that i received the red pill before entangling myself in such situations. Women will always be women and will always do what is right for them and their offspring regardless of how it affects the lives of those around her including you as a man. Always remember that and you will never be really surprised by what they do.

[MasterYoda]

@AFI

Endelea tafadhali. What has transpired since then. I hope you have completely cut off ties with her completely and u have filed for a restraining order against her.

Sikutaka thread ikuwe refu sana, still with some clients ntaendelea baadaye.

[Benito]

Enyewe kama si Hekaya, uli ignore redflags mob but as Wahenga walisema, at the touch of love, every man becomes stupid. we funga biashara ya support effective Midnight.

[Kumbaffu]

@Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii

Ooh nimekupata sasa! Iza mwanaume. U were played a long loooong con. Sasa hapa itabidi umetafuta a very sharp lawyer because u are in deep shit if she decides to go legal on your ‘fatherly’ duties.

As always, MGTOW = Freedom. This other gender hapana cheza nayo. They can make u cry like a small baby. Handle them with tongs!

Even if the kunguru goes to court with “assumption of fatherly duties”, the OP works abroad in a different jurisdiction. Hapo payslip haiwezi guzwa.

Oya @MasterYoda you need to close that business that you opened for her. Fukuza yeye kabisa. No mercy!!!

I hope you didn’t buy her land or car registered in her name.

[Kijana_Mdogo]

She admitted to cheating on you and also the likelihood that mtoi wa kwanza anaeza kua sio wako. Buda it didn’t cross your mind to have the second toi tested immediately after birth?

[fisi_fc]

Some things i cant wish on anyone.

[Mimi_Huwa_Namwaga_Nd]

@Benito

Enyewe kama si Hekaya, uli ignore redflags mob but as Wahenga walisema, at the touch of love, every man becomes stupid. we funga biashara ya support effective Midnight.

Its not that straightforward. Let him hope the woman will play ball aache kumtafuta. @MasterYoda hio pesa umespend so far on those bastards najua inatosha kununua gari mpya zero mileage na ubaki na change ya ku attend the Brazilian Grand Prix ujionee watoto wazuri wa kilatinoo

[conteh]

@Uvuvwevwevwe Onyetenyevwe

You see hata wewe huelewi.

Hekaya iko timam…no gaps and from the narration, the mama was not a single mom.

[MasterYoda]

@Kijana Mdogo

She admitted to cheating on you and also the likelihood that mtoi wa kwanza anaeza kua sio wako. Buda it didn’t cross your mind to have the second toi tested immediately after birth?

Now thats where I Ferked up.

[Obaba]

Never sign the birth certificate (or anything else) without first having a DNA paternity test done proving that the child is yours.

Lakini iza mzae, hapo ulitumiwa kama ATM machine while makanga alikuwa anakula vitu bila kuweka effort

[Shiesty]

Is your name still on the birth certificates?

[MasterYoda]

@smokin_gun

Even if the kunguru goes to court with “assumption of fatherly duties”, the OP works abroad in a different jurisdiction. Hapo payslip haiwezi guzwa.

Oya @MasterYoda you need to close that business that you opened for her. Fukuza yeye kabisa. No mercy!!!

I hope you didn’t buy her land or car registered in her name.

Nilishafukuzana na yeye, she gave everything from that day of the results. She called my mom apologizing that hata yeye hakujua ni hivyo. acting all shocked and shit. Mum fired her then she called my elder bro, he has a soft spot for her. Bro akamwambia this time hata mimi siwezi kukusaidia. Finay she called and said sorry, mimi nikamwambia atoe jina yangu kwa birth certs za hao watoi then ndio aniongeleshe. Shes in the process of doing that now.

Lately we have nothing in common. Sijampiga na sijamguza ( I have so much to loose) Finally the thought that I wont be hearing from her na matusi ndogo ndogo when thimgs dont go her way have stopped. My mum is hurt most. Hearing her say “sasa siatitwa grandma tena!” that made me feel bad.

Am away eating exotic things, I have noted that the care I used to have about how a woman feels and treating them like queens is gone. Saa hii ni pombe na what do you want from me to hit that pudesh… she gets I get na life inaendelea. My house has become a shrine, sitaki dame huko. I arbnb for the weekend, bang some new random chic with hair like a meraid and tukitoka hapo I will never pick your calls again.
My biggest worry is am turning COLD… that makes me afraid. But I prefer boys wakunywe pesa yangu nikijua hawatanisaidia lakini the convos we have at those moments are gold and I leave there not expecting anything from them.