Hua naskia mtu akisema venye bibi anafaa kusaidia financially nacheka. Alioa asaidiwe? Yani ni funny huo ni utapeli
Sijui mbona unaona nikama naoa bibi ndio anikopeshe pesa.
I’m talking about vitu kama family investments, zile property watoi wata inherit. @Yuletapeli umesema pesa yako inagharamia basic needs, investments na luxury? Bibi hafai kuchip in towards any project?
Very risky, pesa yake hata usikuwe na kazi nayo in any way. Yao huwa uma sana.
Women are not designed to give…
Pesa yake wachana nayo and you will be happy man.
Kuna watu hufai kutegemea planteshen inakuwanga handicap kwa mwanaume wewe ndio utapanga kila kitu wewe jua uko na bibi na story iishie hapo, investments ni wewe kujipanga solo bora mbegu yako isihangaike sana kule mbeleni
Kabsa.
Enyewe siko ready. Najipenda sana
Exactly. Watu lazima wacompartmentalize
Live alone first.Siku hizi ni safe kuoa ukiwa 35 years hivi kuendelea,that is when most men’s career picks.Otherwise you will suffer.Mwanamke ataanza kuexpect pia Kazi ya watoto na chores zisplit,then atakuresent kama haucontribute kitu,hapo ndio unaskia 60% over women file for divorce.Ongeza kuchip in pesa na atakudharau. Kuishi na mwanamke ni Kazi ngumu,ukikosa pesa ni worse.Single life as a bachelor ni phase poa sana especially with money coming in
Hehe, usikubali kufanya house chores…
Why ain’t y’all telling him the most important thing here?
ukieka yeye mimba mbili rudi hapa nitakupea advice. For now, pambana na hali yako.
If that’s the case you should install daily spending theshold. Kama ni 400 per day ikipita hapo nwenyewe atasort extra.
bukusu washwash utaoa lini ?
That is the problem if you marry young, mko age mates, and in formal employment
Mmemaliza campo around the same time and then you marry (with nothing in your name)
career wise, you are equal and salary are largely the same
You have no power and utmost respect in that house. She can leave and find someone better easily. In fact, staying there is helping you financially and you can’t maintain the lifestyle alone
it’s not ideal, but I would say that you both contribute. Don’t be the donkey and slave away your productive years while the wife saves and invests her income (secretly)
a better situation is marrying later (30-35ish) ushakua established financially and have invested something
You have grown as a man, and career-wise and earn significantly more
best situation is you having a biz that generates 5-6 figures monthly in profit (multiple times her income)… and you save/(re)invest 5 figures
So income ya wife does not matter at all
she can comfortably be a housewife
all in all, learn from elders and do not rush to marry early, especially if its still early enough to back out of that relationship
for the average man, marrying at 32 instead of 25 will give you 7 good years to build your frame and investing early, free from family responsibilities (compounding interest will pay you back handsomely)
Which is???
Don’t try that. Women’s money comes with spite and immature expectations. Just let her give you kids. If she wants to spend her money on the home and other family expenditures well and good but don’t include her contribution in your financial planning, particularly when it comes to investments (assets like land, shares etc). Kama huwezani na this approach usimarry cause differences over finances lead to divorce
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The fact that the day he accepts a woman’s (substantial) financial input in the home is the day he will start losing his voice.
it is very simple, the moment that woman you call wife/girlfriend starts paying some of the bills in that house she automatically becomes a man…because the work of the man is to provide, the work of the woman is to nurture…
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