How to Talk to a Friend Who is a Serial Wife Batterer

[Guru]

Stupid mofo who batters a woman and worse children! Which age is he in?
If I were you I would confront him. His friends sampuli ya @Jirani could be fueling to his fights. It is good you he knows what he is doing is wrong and from a trusted friend.

[Ebonycurves]

You have to do something for the sake of the kids. If you don’t you won’t be able to live with yourself if the kids get badly injured. Try talking to him.

[system]

@Randy

what has tribe go to do with wife battering? indulge me nione pahali ujinga yako imefika!!!

Regardless if it was your mother or sister you would be talking a different language . Try that shit uko ujeru uone ukirudishwa dandora.some of this things there is nothing like controlled wife battering, eventually it escalates.in this case Nigga is even injuring his children… ingekua Mimi ii jamaa ningekua nimeiseti kwa child services coz soon enough he will do irreversible damage.

Stop wasting your time trying to engage this dimwit@ghetto you will never have any meaningful conversation.

[IPDEV]

Kata stori na yeye naumwambie ukiskia stori yake tena utaita polisi kama any other corncerned neighbour.Remind him once he is jailed you will continue being very close friends with the wife as he gets atwolied in Kamiti.

[Mrs4thletter]

Tell him to kill himself he is not a man at all nkt, watu hupeana excuse ati bibi no disrespectful bla bla bla na mtoto? Mboch? Nkt anyway

He cannot change unless he wants to , he thinks using his muscles makes him someone powerful so…he probably had some issues growing up

[incognitus]

Nyumba ya wenyewe wachana nayo unless he brings up the matter.

[pamba]

@ Randy, pewa mbili umeongea kama mwanaume,just tell him you’re ashamed of being associated with a wife batterer and you’re cutting your friendship if he doesn’t change, you may save a family instead of sitting on the fence.

[pamba]

@Mrs4thletter

Tell him to kill himself he is not a man at all nkt, watu hupeana excuse ati bibi no disrespectful bla bla bla na mtoto? Mboch? Nkt anyway

He cannot change unless he wants to , he thinks using his muscles makes him someone powerful so…he probably had some issues growing up

If its the wife pushing him to the wall to be violent divorce pia ni suluhisho,mungikiress angefanya nistakiwe na murder, nilimpea space sahii hatusumbuani.

[pimpin5000hoes]

Mimi najua a certain guy who was very powerful in the Kibaki government. He used to have a very beautiful wife lakini shida yake ilikuwa hii tu ya kuchapa bibi. Alikuwa anamchapa hata asubuhi kabla aende job. Then she was very kind and nice. The guy alikuwa na dereva anampick asubuhi na kumrudisha jioni. The driver then had knowledge of what was happening. Siku moja dereva akaona mjamaa amezidi na kwa macho yake hakuwa na makosa. Akifika nyumbani bibi anakuja mpaka kwa gari anatoa vitu… So akiwa hapo anangoja mkubwa aingie kwa gari, mkubwa akaaanza kuingia wife war. Akamsimamisha asivunje wife na akamwambia, " kama hutaki huyu bibi yako, nipee mpaka na watoto mimi ntawachunga na sitawapiga."
From that day, huyo mjamaa hakuwahi piga wife tena.
You only have to have the thought of losing someone that the heart to appreciate the person is borne.

[Ubongo]

Ameniuthi sana juu ya watoto. If he is close enough and he knows that you have known his undoing, try to talk to him

[12inchbamboo]

befriend the kids. Ask the kid what happens. Let they narrate to you. Next time ask the kid what happened in front of the dad. Confront that beast!

[Ubongo]

@pimpin5000hoes

Mimi najua a certain guy who was very powerful in the Kibaki government. He used to have a very beautiful wife lakini shida yake ilikuwa hii tu ya kuchapa bibi. Alikuwa anamchapa hata asubuhi kabla aende job. Then she was very kind and nice. The guy alikuwa na dereva anampick asubuhi na kumrudisha jioni. The driver then had knowledge of what was happening. Siku moja dereva akaona mjamaa amezidi na kwa macho yake hakuwa na makosa. Akifika nyumbani bibi anakuja mpaka kwa gari anatoa vitu… So akiwa hapo anangoja mkubwa aingie kwa gari, mkubwa akaaanza kuingia wife war. Akamsimamisha asivunje wife na akamwambia, " kama hutaki huyu bibi yako, nipee mpaka na watoto mimi ntawachunga na sitawapiga."
From that day, huyo mjamaa hakuwahi piga wife tena.
You only have to have the thought of losing someone that the heart to appreciate the person is borne.

Nice lesson

[incognitus]

@pimpin5000hoes

Mimi najua a certain guy who was very powerful in the Kibaki government. He used to have a very beautiful wife lakini shida yake ilikuwa hii tu ya kuchapa bibi. Alikuwa anamchapa hata asubuhi kabla aende job. Then she was very kind and nice. The guy alikuwa na dereva anampick asubuhi na kumrudisha jioni. The driver then had knowledge of what was happening. Siku moja dereva akaona mjamaa amezidi na kwa macho yake hakuwa na makosa. Akifika nyumbani bibi anakuja mpaka kwa gari anatoa vitu… So akiwa hapo anangoja mkubwa aingie kwa gari, mkubwa akaaanza kuingia wife war. Akamsimamisha asivunje wife na akamwambia, " kama hutaki huyu bibi yako, nipee mpaka na watoto mimi ntawachunga na sitawapiga."
From that day, huyo mjamaa hakuwahi piga wife tena.
You only have to have the thought of losing someone that the heart to appreciate the person is borne.

Are you the powerful guy or the driver?.. asking for father figure and gashwin.

[ziga]

@Ghetto

unajua Blaze amefanywa nini na wife wake juzi akiwa mlevi?

:D:D:D:D

[shocks]

@old monk

Hapa kuongelesha yeye ni bure nenda kwenye kituo cha polisi iliyokaribu nawe piga ripoti.

Lives are in danger.

Cops can’t do anything if wife says she hit her head on a door

[123tokambio]

@Randy

distance yourself from him… when he asks why come clean and confront the fucker. else wait he kill his family and you will have to live with guilt of doing nothing. who is this fucker who abuses his children to the extent of injuring them?

Njia muafaka hio. At least ukimshow ‘you do not associate with psychopaths’ ataona yenyewe kuna vile ujinga yake imezidi…

[MISCHIEF]

@Randy

ingekua Mimi ii jamaa ningekua nimeiseti kwa child services coz soon enough he will do irreversible damage.

unakuaga na UMAMA

[123tokambio]

@Randy

wacha ujinga that lady might as well be your mother, sister or daughter . you dare put hands of on my sister nitakupiga na nyundo ukae ni kama umegongwa na lorry.

[ATTACH=full]84125[/ATTACH] ikiwa too much pia inaezabidi.

Kuna kafala flani kaliacha siz na mkidi kakapotea kitu mwaka tano. Then kakaamua kukujia mjunia eti akakae kwa mama yake instead. Sasa kalichagua ile siku nilikuwa mashinani pia. Jamaa akajileta na squad yake ati wamekujia mtoi by force. Zile kuni hao vijana walipokea kutoka kwangu na ndugu zangu, imekuwa miaka tatu sasa hajawai onekana kwenye hicho kijiji…

[system]

Shait.
I feel bad enough when these shepparts misbehave to the point where I have to dispense a cummon.
To hurt your own kids?
Stop covering for that friend.

[Ruffneck]

@Ice_Cube

hapo nitafuata tu thread, and how does he react when you start a topic that touches on wife battering? maybe after seeing it as a passing news item?

Niccur is an angel when not in one of those rages. It is something that has been happening in all of his relationships. ALl his GFs knew his violent side. Akitaka kupiga mwanamke auwe sina shida - serikali itamshugulikia. Lakini watoto hapo I feel he may be having a mental problem. Who beats up their kid to a point of injuring them?

@Randy

distance yourself from him… when he asks why come clean and confront the fucker. else wait he kill his family and you will have to live with guilt of doing nothing. who is this fucker who abuses his children to the extent of injuring them?

Exactly! Kids are innocent sana.

@Ghetto

What tribe is the wife?

Alafu ambia boy not to gonga ile ya kuumiza alafu he should avoid hitting her kwa sura. Just afew soft touches inatosha

Hehehehe. The tribe is not an issue really.

@Ice_Cube

kwani huwa hafeel guilty watoi wakimskia kwa mlango wananyamaza kama maji kwa mtungi after hearing them laughing and running around ama wanatorokea kwa bedroom?

I don’t know the relationship between him and the kids, but all I know is seeing a kid who’s been injured by their dad who is a friend affects you in a way bana.

@Jimit

Wachaneni na mambo ya nyumba ya wenyewe

Like I said hapo juu, I keep off such fights. But ikifika point mtoto anaweza bleed juu ya baba… You don’t get concerned in any way?

@old monk

Hapa kuongelesha yeye ni bure nenda kwenye kituo cha polisi iliyokaribu nawe piga ripoti.

Lives are in danger.

Hapo ni ngumu. I ain’t a snitch bana.