lesson to young men (copied)

[josento]

@Tauren

This is from an old thread by @thesavage:

Let me just leave this here…
I am talking to the younger boys in here, kina Mr. 1st Year, 2nd Year, ###rd Year, whatever. Na pia wale mnaanza maisha after colle.

There are mistakes men make. Like fucking around and getting girls pregnant and those girls go off and bring up their sons and daughters with some other men, or alone. Avoid that if you can. (Ms Truwoman Kampundit atakusho hiyo story kwa kina zaidi).

But that is not the mistake I am talking about today.

Nataka kukwambia a mistake I would consider more grave than hiyo. This problem is going to be there for you guys in the future. We of the previous generation nafikiri tulikwepa.

Mistake gani?

Kuoa kunguru.

Mimi nimesikia kunguru kutusiwa hapa, kufokewa etc etc.

Leo nataka niwaambie ni kwa nini.
In this age of social media and party life, kuna vile…

Usually, between the age of 28-30, many women wake up and reassess the last decade of their life.
They try to find the reason they have not been able to obtain a long term monogamous commitment from the high fliers she has been fucking on the party train.

During this stage many women make radical shifts in their priorities. They adjust the list of prerequisite traits that qualify as attractive in a man. In party years she is interested in physicality, sexual prowess and dominance.
But she has now realized that guys like Mr. Physicality, Mr. Sex, Mr. Dominance, will forget them as soon as the d*ck comes out of her possy.

Now her list of prerequisite qualities becomes; dependability, ability to provide, humor (hehehehe…), ati intellect, ati compatibility (heheheeeee…) [puliiiiiiz]

This where you come in, Mr. Young Man.

A common manifestation of the shift for these social media birds is convenient return to religious convictions she has disregarded kwa hizo party times.

Hata anaweza kupata kitu wanaita secondary virginity . Hiyo ni the refusal to have sex under auspices/conditions of her party times…in the hopes that some dunderhead will show up who appreciates her for her (newly acquired) prudence…same woman who was fucking like a rabbit the last 10 years, now is a prude. Heheheheee…

Woman kunguru who disappered from your radar akiwa na ukunguru mingi kutembeza kwa mtandao…suddenly shows up in your radar with pegion (jiwa) tendencies. Heheheheee…

If you marry that woman, she will never respect you. In her subconscious, you are the clueless dolt who settled for matapishi, who settled for mabaki, sloppy seconds, kitu imetumika vibaya. Wewe ni mjinga according to her, and according to everyone else out there. Pia, she will always compare your performance to that of the highfliers she was never able to clinch. You will be found wanting. She will not have chosen you, she will only have settled for you. Utakuwa something she doesnt really want, something she just tolerates. Pole.

So, Chunga. Watch out, young man.
Take off, young man. Kimbia.
Ni hayo tu.

Admin pin this thread…very importante…

[TrumanCapote]

@Tauren

This is from an old thread by @thesavage:

Let me just leave this here…
I am talking to the younger boys in here, kina Mr. 1st Year, 2nd Year, ###rd Year, whatever. Na pia wale mnaanza maisha after colle.

There are mistakes men make. Like fucking around and getting girls pregnant and those girls go off and bring up their sons and daughters with some other men, or alone. Avoid that if you can. (Ms Truwoman Kampundit atakusho hiyo story kwa kina zaidi).

But that is not the mistake I am talking about today.

Nataka kukwambia a mistake I would consider more grave than hiyo. This problem is going to be there for you guys in the future. We of the previous generation nafikiri tulikwepa.

Mistake gani?

Kuoa kunguru.

Mimi nimesikia kunguru kutusiwa hapa, kufokewa etc etc.

Leo nataka niwaambie ni kwa nini.
In this age of social media and party life, kuna vile…

Usually, between the age of 28-30, many women wake up and reassess the last decade of their life.
They try to find the reason they have not been able to obtain a long term monogamous commitment from the high fliers she has been fucking on the party train.

During this stage many women make radical shifts in their priorities. They adjust the list of prerequisite traits that qualify as attractive in a man. In party years she is interested in physicality, sexual prowess and dominance.
But she has now realized that guys like Mr. Physicality, Mr. Sex, Mr. Dominance, will forget them as soon as the d*ck comes out of her possy.

Now her list of prerequisite qualities becomes; dependability, ability to provide, humor (hehehehe…), ati intellect, ati compatibility (heheheeeee…) [puliiiiiiz]

This where you come in, Mr. Young Man.

A common manifestation of the shift for these social media birds is convenient return to religious convictions she has disregarded kwa hizo party times.

Hata anaweza kupata kitu wanaita secondary virginity . Hiyo ni the refusal to have sex under auspices/conditions of her party times…in the hopes that some dunderhead will show up who appreciates her for her (newly acquired) prudence…same woman who was fucking like a rabbit the last 10 years, now is a prude. Heheheheee…

Woman kunguru who disappered from your radar akiwa na ukunguru mingi kutembeza kwa mtandao…suddenly shows up in your radar with pegion (jiwa) tendencies. Heheheheee…

If you marry that woman, she will never respect you. In her subconscious, you are the clueless dolt who settled for matapishi, who settled for mabaki, sloppy seconds, kitu imetumika vibaya. Wewe ni mjinga according to her, and according to everyone else out there. Pia, she will always compare your performance to that of the highfliers she was never able to clinch. You will be found wanting. She will not have chosen you, she will only have settled for you. Utakuwa something she doesnt really want, something she just tolerates. Pole.

So, Chunga. Watch out, young man.
Take off, young man. Kimbia.
Ni hayo tu.

Its always interesting to see the experts on all matters life coming in with advice. Advice to younger men and women blah blah.

What can I say, of course you know my position about anyone who abandons their own blood. It’s the ultimate form of self hate. You may not want the mother or father but the child is your blood, your DNA. Regardless of the circumstances of their conception you are throwing away a part of yourself. To me that is unforgivable. It’s self hate of the highest form.

Now let’s go to matters sex and how it affects the caliber of the woman you get. Here is the thing, some boys and girls start having sex as early as primary school especially those in shags and who are sent to mixed boarding in primary schools. They may continue in high school and change by campus. You will be none the wiser.

The ones who are vilified are the ones who enter the hookup culture in their twenties. So this type of person is apparently worse than the ones who started in primary school and just got tired in adolescents. Since there were no standards in primary school and high school about the people you slept with that is overlooked coz ni utoto ama peer influence.

In the sex saturated culture we live in by the time most women are in their late twenties they have had their sexual debut and in the eyes of society fallen from grace.

The good girls are the ones you marry as virgins in their early to mid twenties or technical virginity coz you started having sex by age 10 by age 18 umechoka so you go on sabbatical which is no different than the one who hangs up the boots at age 28-30 but the custodians of morals don’t know that you were having sex at age 10-18 without any standards so wewe sio kunguru. Kunguru ni yule analala na high flyer pekee or whichever other hypergamous criteria. Anyone like that is a kunguru but not the one who quit at 18 and started at 10.

OK.Let’s go to the ideal woman. The wife material who presteenly fell from heaven and married the first guy she dated maybe from campus or after campus. They’ve hustled together. Blah, blah.

The problem of this wife material is that expectations are sky high bcz she has no experience with men and relationships other than from the movies. Kungurus know that men will disappoint you coz they’ve had their fair share of disappointments. So they are realistic about men.

The good wife material whom you married as a virgin first of all expects that bcz she waited until marriage you should not disappoint her in any way. So when the man cheats, ignores or doesn’t treat her well, she totally loses it, from the disappointment she says like Kawira of Papa Shirandula who got married as a virgin to a pastor no less, that she regrets waiting until marriage or she regrets saving her virginity for her husband. Meaning she just wishes she had a hoe phase like the rest of the population bcz at the end of the day your great feat of saving your Virginity for marriage means nothing to your husband otherwise he would treat you like the princess you are for saving your virginity for him. All that respect and you end up treated like trash like the rest of them. So now comes the most promiscuous streak ever seen usually with men who are better than her husband in one way or the other. The gym instructors. The bosses you go on trips with. Younger more attractive men. Older men with more connections.

So you got married as a virgin but you become a kunguru in marriage. The husband you respected enough to save yourself for now you despise but what can you do? You have the dream wedding and kids. You stay put and sleep around with a vengeance hypergamously.

I don’t know if the kunguru of the hoe phase of pre 28-30 ever changes for the better but I have seen a few who have seriously hanged their boots. Anatulia tuli tuli.

I’m not big on labeling people as irredeemable purely based on their sexual pasts maybe because at the beginning of the HIV pandemic I lost several male relatives. Back in the day if you ferked the wrong person you were totally screwed pardon the pun. There was no ARVs, the stigma and isolation were insane bcz you destroyed your life by being a hoe. Even if you got it from one person the public perception was that it was a punishment for promiscuous people.

Many years later with the advent of ARVs, people who have HIV get second chances, get married and do everything that people who are negative do.

So pardon me if I am not keen on writing anyone off bcz of their past. I have seen people at the brink of death over and over bcz of HIV few months later they are getting married and having kids. I think that after the mistakes they have made which are irreversible and the endless suffering from the disease, they have come to value love and companionship more than the rest of us good guys and girls or just lucky not to have fallen in the same predicament as they have.

Here is to second chances in life. You can imagine if God was as judgemental as we are, where would any of us be.

HIV-positive couples weds

[The_jacckal]

@Mwanaume Pochi

Mimi nilisema kutoka high school kama dem si vajo siezi guza (siezi Kula leftovers ya wanaume wengine) …thank God I stuck to my guns …HAKUNA kitu muhimu kama dignity… happily married

Uwongo,uwongooo io

[Scott_Gardener]

@TrumanCapote

Its always interesting to see the experts on all matters life coming in with advice. Advice to younger men and women blah blah.

What can I say, of course you know my position about anyone who abandons their own blood. It’s the ultimate form of self hate. You may not want the mother or father but the child is your blood, your DNA. Regardless of the circumstances of their conception you are throwing away a part of yourself. To me that is unforgivable. It’s self hate of the highest form.

Now let’s go to matters sex and how it affects the caliber of the woman you get. Here is the thing, some boys and girls start having sex as early as primary school especially those in shags and who are sent to mixed boarding in primary schools. They may continue in high school and change by campus. You will be none the wiser.

The ones who are vilified are the ones who enter the hookup culture in their twenties. So this type of person is apparently worse than the ones who started in primary school and just got tired in adolescents. Since there were no standards in primary school and high school about the people you slept with that is overlooked coz ni utoto ama peer influence.

In the sex saturated culture we live in by the time most women are in their late twenties they have had their sexual debut and in the eyes of society fallen from grace.

The good girls are the ones you marry as virgins in their early to mid twenties or technical virginity coz you started having sex by age 10 by age 18 umechoka so you go on sabbatical which is no different than the one who hangs up the boots at age 28-30 but the custodians of morals don’t know that you were having sex at age 10-18 without any standards so wewe sio kunguru. Kunguru ni yule analala na high flyer pekee or whichever other hypergamous criteria. Anyone like that is a kunguru but not the one who quit at 18 and started at 10.

OK.Let’s go to the ideal woman. The wife material who presteenly fell from heaven and married the first guy she dated maybe from campus or after campus. They’ve hustled together. Blah, blah.

The problem of this wife material is that expectations are sky high bcz she has no experience with men and relationships other than from the movies. Kungurus know that men will disappoint you coz they’ve had their fair share of disappointments. So they are realistic about men.

The good wife material whom you married as a virgin first of all expects that bcz she waited until marriage you should not disappoint her in any way. So when the man cheats, ignores or doesn’t treat her well, she totally loses it, from the disappointment she says like Kawira of Papa Shirandula who got married as a virgin to a pastor no less, that she regrets waiting until marriage or she regrets saving her virginity for her husband. Meaning she just wishes she had a hoe phase like the rest of the population bcz at the end of the day your great feat of saving your Virginity for marriage means nothing to your husband otherwise he would treat you like the princess you are for saving your virginity for him. All that respect and you end up treated like trash like the rest of them. So now comes the most promiscuous streak ever seen usually with men who are better than her husband in one way or the other. The gym instructors. The bosses you go on trips with. Younger more attractive men. Older men with more connections.

So you got married as a virgin but you become a kunguru in marriage. The husband you respected enough to save yourself for now you despise but what can you do? You have the dream wedding and kids. You stay put and sleep around with a vengeance hypergamously.

I don’t know if the kunguru of the hoe phase of pre 28-30 ever changes for the better but I have seen a few who have seriously hanged their boots. Anatulia tuli tuli.

I’m not big on labeling people as irredeemable purely based on their sexual pasts maybe because at the beginning of the HIV pandemic I lost several male relatives. Back in the day if you ferked the wrong person you were totally screwed pardon the pun. There was no ARVs, the stigma and isolation were insane bcz you destroyed your life by being a hoe. Even if you got it from one person the public perception was that it was a punishment for promiscuous people.

Many years later with the advent of ARVs, people who have HIV get second chances, get married and do everything that people who are negative do.

So pardon me if I am not keen on writing anyone off bcz of their past. I have seen people at the brink of death over and over bcz of HIV few months later they are getting married and having kids. I think that after the mistakes they have made which are irreversible and the endless suffering from the disease, they have come to value love and companionship more than the rest of us good guys and girls or just lucky not to have fallen in the same predicament as they have.

Here is to second chances in life. You can imagine if God was as judgemental as we are, where would any of us be.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isBbYDUv5Ow

Practically, it can work to minimize spread of HIV.

[Naughty_stick]

Nuce advice. Pewa kwa bill yangu

[Achat1997]

Straight guys are much more likely to get married than gay guys. About 60 percent of straight men marry at least once in their lifetime. Libra 2023 Horoscope

[Shamsudin]

@Mwanaume Pochi

happily married

Oxymoron

[Mlinda_lango]

@Tauren

This is from an old thread by @thesavage:

Let me just leave this here…
I am talking to the younger boys in here, kina Mr. 1st Year, 2nd Year, ###rd Year, whatever. Na pia wale mnaanza maisha after colle.

There are mistakes men make. Like fucking around and getting girls pregnant and those girls go off and bring up their sons and daughters with some other men, or alone. Avoid that if you can. (Ms Truwoman Kampundit atakusho hiyo story kwa kina zaidi).

But that is not the mistake I am talking about today.

Nataka kukwambia a mistake I would consider more grave than hiyo. This problem is going to be there for you guys in the future. We of the previous generation nafikiri tulikwepa.

Mistake gani?

Kuoa kunguru.

Mimi nimesikia kunguru kutusiwa hapa, kufokewa etc etc.

Leo nataka niwaambie ni kwa nini.
In this age of social media and party life, kuna vile…

Usually, between the age of 28-30, many women wake up and reassess the last decade of their life.
They try to find the reason they have not been able to obtain a long term monogamous commitment from the high fliers she has been fucking on the party train.

During this stage many women make radical shifts in their priorities. They adjust the list of prerequisite traits that qualify as attractive in a man. In party years she is interested in physicality, sexual prowess and dominance.
But she has now realized that guys like Mr. Physicality, Mr. Sex, Mr. Dominance, will forget them as soon as the d*ck comes out of her possy.

Now her list of prerequisite qualities becomes; dependability, ability to provide, humor (hehehehe…), ati intellect, ati compatibility (heheheeeee…) [puliiiiiiz]

This where you come in, Mr. Young Man.

A common manifestation of the shift for these social media birds is convenient return to religious convictions she has disregarded kwa hizo party times.

Hata anaweza kupata kitu wanaita secondary virginity . Hiyo ni the refusal to have sex under auspices/conditions of her party times…in the hopes that some dunderhead will show up who appreciates her for her (newly acquired) prudence…same woman who was fucking like a rabbit the last 10 years, now is a prude. Heheheheee…

Woman kunguru who disappered from your radar akiwa na ukunguru mingi kutembeza kwa mtandao…suddenly shows up in your radar with pegion (jiwa) tendencies. Heheheheee…

If you marry that woman, she will never respect you. In her subconscious, you are the clueless dolt who settled for matapishi, who settled for mabaki, sloppy seconds, kitu imetumika vibaya. Wewe ni mjinga according to her, and according to everyone else out there. Pia, she will always compare your performance to that of the highfliers she was never able to clinch. You will be found wanting. She will not have chosen you, she will only have settled for you. Utakuwa something she doesnt really want, something she just tolerates. Pole.

So, Chunga. Watch out, young man.
Take off, young man. Kimbia.
Ni hayo tu.

@Tauren na @TrumanCapote you guys are soulmates.

[TrumanCapote]

@Mlinda lango

@Tauren na @TrumanCapote you guys are soulmates.

Soul mate wangu ni mzungu please.

[Slim_fit]

Music to my ears.

[system]

@TrumanCapote

Soul mate wangu ni mzungu please.

What! Not even @Lionheart? He responds to all your posts like some lovestruck teen. Nyonya mboro yake hata basi. Energy yake isikuwe wasted.