Men who gossip....??

4makind · July 11, 2015, 10:00am

Fanya kama Ababu and expose them

WuTang · July 11, 2015, 10:01am

Men from all places gossip. Nothing to do with tribe.

Lifeist · July 11, 2015, 10:12am

Mathice:

For over 18 months or so, there’s this group of men that I made acquantice with, 5 to be exact. They are a bubbly bunch and good company when having a drink like on a Saturday afternoon. But there are about three of them who have got this behaviour that I don’t consider manly. When they are all in one group, the general discussion is what men are good at, football, women, and plenty of hilarious escapades. But when let’s say A is not in the group, you find the three I earlier mentioned disparaging him and describing aspects of his life in not so flattering terms and they will be at it for hours… Ooh, huyo amekaliwa chapo na mpango yake ya kando. Next time if it’s B missing from the group… Oooh huyo anakuwaga amewezwa na bibi… If it’s C missing… Ooh huyo ata performance yake job inakuwaga mbaya mpaka bosses are looking for his replacement and so on and on. I find this habit irritating and not befitting grown ass men. Talkers why do some men behave like this as I thought this is a preserve for women?

Weave mnaweka na pesa ngapi?

Tarantinoh · July 11, 2015, 10:18am

agreed it has nothing to do with tribe but idleness. The area has many idlers. Urban areas A.K.A Kambi.

le_scumbag · July 11, 2015, 10:20am

This coming from you is expected…n even now you are busy bringing tabia zako mbaya za gossip hapa. Mathice maku Ni magandu… @Mathice

Mathaais · July 11, 2015, 10:24am

Pelekea mfuko yako ya makende malaya zako, serre!

Goks · July 11, 2015, 10:34am

@Mathice …something to ponder about that was soaked to me before and after initiation(Kuruwa)…" You are the average of five people you spend the most time with" - Jim Rohn. This is usually true in all situations of life. Hawa si marafiki wema!!!

pamba · July 11, 2015, 10:35am

Nilipoteza simu nakuru juzi.

WuTang · July 11, 2015, 10:40am

Especially people that sit in ghetto bases every day chewing leaves and twigs

Koolibah · July 11, 2015, 10:41am

Nnnnnani mwingine biker?

4makind · July 11, 2015, 10:51am

:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

Haiya??? kumbe tuko saloon

junkie · July 11, 2015, 11:40am

Have noticed this in different circle of friends from work mates to high school,primo,campus pals.that’s normally my queue to start hitting on the hot mama next table

ndume · July 11, 2015, 11:49am

Mathice:

For over 18 months or so, there’s this group of men that I made acquantice with, 5 to be exact. They are a bubbly bunch and good company when having a drink like on a Saturday afternoon. But there are about three of them who have got this behaviour that I don’t consider manly. When they are all in one group, the general discussion is what men are good at, football, women, and plenty of hilarious escapades. But when let’s say A is not in the group, you find the three I earlier mentioned disparaging him and describing aspects of his life in not so flattering terms and they will be at it for hours… Ooh, huyo amekaliwa chapo na mpango yake ya kando. Next time if it’s B missing from the group… Oooh huyo anakuwaga amewezwa na bibi… If it’s C missing… Ooh huyo ata performance yake job inakuwaga mbaya mpaka bosses are looking for his replacement and so on and on. I find this habit irritating and not befitting grown ass men. Talkers why do some men behave like this as I thought this is a preserve for women?

I’m surprised by the reactions here. People everywhere talk about others that they know. If you are worried about what people say about you, then the remedy is ceasing to exist. I can assure you that your friends, co-workers and neighbours gossip about you. The remedy is not to care about what they say about you, it is their problem, not yours.

bjurmann · July 11, 2015, 1:09pm

HOYA

Jazzman · July 11, 2015, 2:48pm

Usisahau hapa pia kuna TheSALONians

Ingia · July 11, 2015, 7:40pm

unafanya nini kwa hio group?

Mathaais · July 11, 2015, 7:45pm

I was a fringe member but now that I know them better, they can go suck their dicks.

Shyguy · July 11, 2015, 9:11pm

Tact doesn’t work in this case.You need to be blunt and address them when they are all present.Shame them!

Mathaais · July 12, 2015, 3:18am

Noted.

system · July 12, 2015, 5:11am

:D:D:D:D:D