Dicott
June 6, 2019, 6:22am
21
Swansea:
This is a disaster waiting to happen.
You met in March. It’s now June. That’s barely 4 months.
You got her pregnant, assuming it’s yours. You both barely know each other (4 months) and you want her to move in simply because she is pregnant? You barely know her side of the family and I’m assuming she doesn’t know yours either.
Does she work? Mtoto ni responsibility my fren and you want to provide adequately and the best. You and her are tied for life with the coming baby. I see where the brother has concerns too.
Do you have any wazee on your side that you can consult with before meeting the brother or their side of the family before she moves in?
No she does not work. Am just trying to do my best but kuna restrictions mingi sana zao mbele yangu ju yao.
For now wazee ni noma but I can find an Uncle to help me.
Karoga
June 6, 2019, 6:27am
22
What makes you think that you are the father of that child?Why does she leave you for two weeks, then comes back? Why are you such a beta male to accept that like that her brother stops her from visiting you? Hapa unachezwa Kama guitar ya Ken wa Maria ,run my fren run
Dicott
June 6, 2019, 6:53am
23
Karoga:
What makes you think that you are the father of that child?Why does she leave you for two weeks, then comes back? Why are you such a beta male to accept that like that her brother stops her from visiting you? Hapa unachezwa Kama guitar ya Ken wa Maria ,run my fren run
I’ve been thinking like this sana, simu kuzimwa pia imekua noma sana.
Dicott
June 6, 2019, 7:20am
25
LeoK:
That child is not yours.
Waaaaah Shukrani Boss kwa mawaidha. Tukiongea saa hii tumekosana tena mbaya kila sa nikimpigia simu ni either amezima ama nikimpigia saa ile tunabonga sometimes you kuwa anahold ju kuna mtu amempigia simu beshte ati achukue, imeleta ngori sana hio kitu kati kati yetu.
Dicott:
Manze nlipatana na msupa kutoka Thika, kienyeji kitu March ivi kiigo kidigo na nikaikula na kumwaga ndani. Kumbe hakua safe na akaget PG. Gal Dem akakua anakam kejani 2 weeks anakaa then anarudi then 2 weeks ingine then anarudi home then 1 week then anarudi.
Noma ni nimemshow akam tuishi pamoja ju kama ilihappen illihapen. Hana maparo na kuna vile anadai kukaa huko kwao hadi ile siku nitaenda kusalimia familia ki customs zao ndio nikubalishwe kumchukua ama anadai atakaa tu Bro yake aamue ka ata kubalishwa kutoka akam tuishi pamoja.
Dem ako 25yrs na Bro yake ndio kusema since yeye ndio kama Paro zake na ndio kusema uko. Noma ni Bro yake hataki Siz yake akam tuishi pamoja. Sasa Dem anadai nipatane na Bro yake hii Friday ndio tubonge but niko na ugumu ya kuenda tumeet ju niliskia hataki siz yake atoke home juu hakunanga mtu uko ni msupa na siz yake pekee.
So nikubali kumeet Bro yake tuongee ama niwachane na yeye ajipange na siz yake uko juu ni kama hataki kumwachilia akam tuishi pamoja.
N.B Tulikua tushapanga stori za Clinics but Bro yake sioni ka anafanya effort yoyote na ako (3 Months Now PG).
Wadau nifanye nini niamue tumeeet ama ni cancel meeting na ni songe na maisha.
Naogopa kupigwa pia sijui niende na arif ama solo?(Boy child anaeza kua na uchungu na mimi na sijui ju tumeitisha meeting lakini iekaa ndio aitikie)
Saidieni Please.
As of now meeting bro yake sipoa, go for the parents , family meetings nyumbani kwao .na ata wakiwa na mbwa kali aje usiogope.make sure you are not alone ! Tafuta wazee wa3
kwani hio mimba ndio umepeana ya kwanza? At 29!
system
June 6, 2019, 8:15am
29
Dicott:
Manze nlipatana na msupa kutoka Thika, kienyeji kitu March ivi kiigo kidigo na nikaikula na kumwaga ndani. Kumbe hakua safe na akaget PG. Gal Dem akakua anakam kejani 2 weeks anakaa then anarudi then 2 weeks ingine then anarudi home then 1 week then anarudi.
Noma ni nimemshow akam tuishi pamoja ju kama ilihappen illihapen. Hana maparo na kuna vile anadai kukaa huko kwao hadi ile siku nitaenda kusalimia familia ki customs zao ndio nikubalishwe kumchukua ama anadai atakaa tu Bro yake aamue ka ata kubalishwa kutoka akam tuishi pamoja.
Dem ako 25yrs na Bro yake ndio kusema since yeye ndio kama Paro zake na ndio kusema uko. Noma ni Bro yake hataki Siz yake akam tuishi pamoja. Sasa Dem anadai nipatane na Bro yake hii Friday ndio tubonge but niko na ugumu ya kuenda tumeet ju niliskia hataki siz yake atoke home juu hakunanga mtu uko ni msupa na siz yake pekee.
So nikubali kumeet Bro yake tuongee ama niwachane na yeye ajipange na siz yake uko juu ni kama hataki kumwachilia akam tuishi pamoja.
N.B Tulikua tushapanga stori za Clinics but Bro yake sioni ka anafanya effort yoyote na ako (3 Months Now PG).
Wadau nifanye nini niamue tumeeet ama ni cancel meeting na ni songe na maisha.
Naogopa kupigwa pia sijui niende na arif ama solo?(Boy child anaeza kua na uchungu na mimi na sijui ju tumeitisha meeting lakini iekaa ndio aitikie)
Saidieni Please.
Enda na ule beshte unachukia ndio kama nikupigwa hauta feel chochote akipigwa…
system
June 6, 2019, 8:15am
30
kanguthu:
Next time use a condom
Weeee kwina hehoo,muthuru waku nimutheruu
Wechez
June 6, 2019, 8:28am
31
Ambia yeye akomboe @FieldMarshal CouchP ni whitecap sita na nyama kilo ako sorted.
Hiyo mimba si yako. Kuna ninja ingine hapo kando
Stori yako ni noma sana Kijanaa
ampex
June 6, 2019, 9:46am
35
With the pregnancy, check her phone while staying with her for a month and and be ready to control the shoka feeling. Your mind will be clearer afterwards on your way forward. Its too earlyto do the meeting and footing the bills ju haukosure mimba ni yako.
Umesema abebe @Pure blood waende naye … hehe
2 seconds of nutting inside… A lifetime of regret…
Idias
June 6, 2019, 11:59am
38
ongezea yleodon kwa handle yako @Dicott .
Take advise from someone who was in your shoes 5 years ago.Ask yourself this question,if it wasn’t for her getting pregnant would you have moved in with her or talked to her bro for her hand in marriage.
Take a piece of paper and write all the.pros and cons of the decision you’re about to make and make an objective decision based off that