Nothing would elate me more than for you to indulge and relish fellatio and cunniligus but the question begs, is genital gratification via the maxilofacial faculties worth the risk of oral
melanoma?
The world renowned thespian Michael Douglas,attests to the fact that his insatiable appetite for cunniligus was the source of his malignant throat tumour.
The choice is solely yours to make. Afterall its your mouth and or your genitals! You can fellate your partner and play russian roulette with cancer or you can keep it missionary style which is about the safest coital engagement one can have these days.
I do not exhort anyone to be celibate so do not shoot the messenger. I can commiserate with your disappointment even exasperation at this discovery.However, it would be tragic to end up at chemotherapy because you could not keep your mouth shut.