Personal time

[Father_Figure]

kwani u don’t play video games? that’s the best woman repellant

[epoch]

@The.Black.Templar

Mwambie akuwe akitayarisha food mapema

Ikoshida,
Talk to her direct, mwambie vitu hupendi…be open, pia yeye akupe mawazo yake.
I always use the strategy I used to convince a woman for the first time in bed.

[system]

@kukuru kakara

How long have you been living together?
And how long did you “date” before moving in together?

Is it just space ama kuna kitu kingine kinakusumbua?

Yet to move in,space issue,being second guessed and it is emerging she might have weakness as a home maker.If she doesn’t like/take something that I do,she tries to discourage it.

[system]

@Father Figure

kwani u don’t play video games? that’s the best woman repellant

am too old for that,I want to live my life…

[system]

@rollout

:D:D:D sio hiyo buda

[gashwin]

@KinduKiega

kupika mnakula late na ameshinda hapo tu akisumbua

have you told her what time you want your dinner or you are at her mercy? [SIZE=1]i’d have told you to stop wearing the skirt in your home but it is not polite…[/SIZE]

[system]

@gashwin

have you told her what time you want your dinner or you are at her mercy? [SIZE=1]i’d have told you to stop wearing the skirt in your home but it is not polite…[/SIZE]

Nilitaka kuona kama ni tabia na inakaa ni tabia

[Grundy]

@KinduKiega

I need an advice from the married villagers.

How do you make madam know/understand that despite being together in the house one need personal time to do personal stuffs.
Like watching movies,doing some research on internet,hiking and et al.

This idea of someone thinking that coz she is around it is all about her,that all the attention should be diverted to her is killing me.
Siwezi fanya kakitu napenda na amani.

Do you guys go through this in your matrimonial homes.

Kuwa kichwa ngumu and do what you like. For me nikiwa kwa hao I can’t play PS, tunawatch movie, documentaries na music that she likes. Ukiamua kwenda kuhang out na maboyz umuachie afanye chenye anataka ni issue tena. You just have to learn how to live with these people and not always bend backwards to please them otherwise they will see you as a weak man and life’s too short anyway.

[kukuru_kakara]

@KinduKiega

Yet to move in,space issue,being second guessed and it is emerging she might have weakness as a home maker.If she doesn’t like/take something that I do,she tries to discourage it.

1. Yet to move in na hapa unasema anapika late? Ama ni mimi sielewi???

@KinduKiega

Hajakosa cha kufanya,mtu anafanya masters na badala atake advantage ya time na watch movies afanye project yake,she is allover,kupika mnakula late na ameshinda hapo tu akisumbua

2. Anyway, what are the repercussions of some of your choices that make her question and criticise you, and your decision making?

3. Weakness as a homemaker, based on what experience?

4. Hapo kwa discouraging anything you do that she doesn’t like, grow some balls. it’s either she lives with it or walks out.

FYI, if you have technically and psychologically moved in, just the physical imebaki, sit her ass down and set ground rules. Just like a workplace, relationships (except friendships at times) should have ground rules.

[gashwin]

@KinduKiega

Nilitaka kuona kama ni tabia na inakaa ni tabia

careful now. changing the settings will be a test of wills and if mishandled could lead to a nasty fallout. all the best…

[kukuru_kakara]

@gashwin

have you told her what time you want your dinner or you are at her mercy? [SIZE=1]i’d have told you to stop wearing the skirt in your home but it is not polite…[/SIZE]

Kuna mshipi umepita hapo chini

[Father_Figure]

@KinduKiega

am too old for that,I want to live my life…

Hapa ndio mi husema I’ll never grow old. Kama sunday tukitoka church na tukule ni kushika pad hadi giza iingie, na kuchungulia udaku za ktalk. Yeye ni apige pasi nguo za wiki au ashinde kwa simu na mabeshte zake wakisengenya hairstyles na fashion za workmates.

[Young]

@Father Figure

ashinde kwa simu na mabeshte zake wakisengenya hairstyles na fashion za workmates.

that’s where u r wrong, kuna mtu anakuwanga akisafishwa mecho wewe ukifikiri ati wanasengenyana.

btw I cunt relate, ukifika miaka zingine hizi mashida huisha.

[jagger_snr1]

In such occasions, I have a study room I escape into…yeye abaki apo na soaps zake na ma Churchil na ma news…nkifika kule naweza kueka ngoma zangu, play comp games (only fifa) and stream porn venye nataka. Akinitaka anipigie na whatsup if shez that idle.

[upepo]

@KinduKiega

she is allover,kupika mnakula late na ameshinda hapo tu akisumbua

Utakipata.Kalisha yeye chini mwambie ukweli. Ukweli ni mchungu lakini mtasaidika nyote. Having been in a similar situation once, I can read the anger in you. Kesi za manslaughter huanza hivi. Hawa ni wale huwezi ata enda msalani in privacy kabla hajakutafuta.Just a casual observation, single mum daughters hulemewa sana na hii tabia.

[upepo]

@KinduKiega

Nilitaka kuona kama ni tabia na inakaa ni tabia

I can already tell yeye ni kichwa ngumu na pia wale watu know-it-all. Huyu ni wale argumentative kuliko opposition.

[Etigere]

Unataka kugurumisha jing-cheng na uko na bibi :eek:

[M-Pesa]

@jagger_snr

In such occasions, I have a study room I escape into…yeye abaki apo na soaps zake na ma Churchil na ma news…nkifika kule naweza kueka ngoma zangu, play comp games (only fifa) stream porn [SIZE=4]na niwashe nduthi[/SIZE] venye nataka. Akinitaka anipigie na whatsup if shez that idle.

:D:D nimethondeka

[Ubongo]

@upepo

Utakipata.Kalisha yeye chini mwambie ukweli. Ukweli ni mchungu lakini mtasaidika nyote. Having been in a similar situation once, I can read the anger in you. Kesi za manslaughter huanza hivi. Hawa ni wale huwezi ata enda msalani in privacy kabla hajakutafuta.Just a casual observation, single mum daughters hulemewa sana na hii tabia.

Good one, painful but it’s the truth

[system]

@Young

that’s where u r wrong, kuna mtu anakuwanga akisafishwa mecho wewe ukifikiri ati wanasengenyana.

btw I cunt relate, ukifika miaka zingine hizi mashida huisha.

wonders shall never end, of all the people on Ktalk @Father Figure role model wetu akuwe wrong??? pengine @Ice_Cube might be lakini si FF