This made me think: Another of my "light bulb" moments.....

[Wakanyama]

Kabuda you’re a faggot,the sooner you realise that the better

[Ka-Buda]

@Mathice

I said it on klost and will repeat it here again.Any person dumb enough to post their relationship problems in a forum like this deserve what they are going through(if at all it’s true).Am married and like in all normal marriages, I go through my fair share of tribulations but have never even once posted on social media any of it.You are the kind of people who write to Dr Kitoto or call Maina Kageni for advice.Enough said.

Your name betrays you.

You dont personally know me and i can almost guarantee that you will never know me personally.
Some people are on social networks like KTalk for fun but for people like me and whoever takes me seriously,we share our true life experiences with the hope of getting a balanced viewpoint regarding our already fucked up lives,
I wish that someone like you would instead share their perfect life stories rather than bash all the rest of us forsaken souls.

[Ka-Buda]

@Wakanyama

Kabuda you’re a faggot,the sooner you realise that the better

Nyee ici! @Col Kakende ngukutha umwo ni mbia njege ino!

[Mathaais]

I already explained the source of my handle, search the threads in case you missed it and from what I read, you are the kind who fill the churches of the likes of Kanyari and Kyuna loooking for divine intervention only to end up more fucked up.Make the right choices kijana and stop shouting from all over the roof tops for whomever to hear.

[Ka-Buda]

@Mathice

I already explained the source of my handle, search the threads in case you missed it and from what I read, you are the kind who fill the churches of the likes of Kanyari and Kyuna loooking for divine intervention only to end up more fucked up.Make the right choices kijana and stop shouting from all over the roof tops for whomever to hear.

FAR-Q! @Mathice ! Uro-thicwo nugu ino! Keep your stupid opinions to yourself.

[Mathaais]

@Ka-Buda

FAR-Q! @Mathice ! Uro-thicwo nugu ino! Keep your stupid opinions to yourself.

Ha ha, see, you are manning up.That’s the spirit bro.Man up and control your wife and stop the ferking whining!

[system]

Phew! That was fast!!:eek:

[Njamba_Huthu]

what kinda guy is this fellow ? such a moron. must be dick head…[ATTACH=full]2247[/ATTACH]

[Ka-Buda]

@Njamba Huthu

what kinda guy is this fellow ? such a moron. must be d*ck head…[ATTACH=full]2247[/ATTACH]

why did you say that? please explain?

[gashwin]

someone put @Ka-Buda on suicide watch. the anger inside might consume him…

[system]

Real intention to change is not shared, you just change, bila drama

[Njamba_Huthu]

@Ladyette

Real intention to change is not shared, you just change, bila drama

@Ka-Buda… mambo ni kama vile umeambiwa na huyu mwanamke hapa…

[kijanamrefu]

@Ka-Buda

Jana i was at work (driving up and down as per kawa!) and then it occurred to me that it was my fathers birthday. Now my dad is exactly 30 years older than i am but his birth date could be any day that year because he was born in a time of strife and instability in Kenya and birthdays were not high on the agenda when freedom from the mzungu was a bigger priority. Anyway,i went back home to my flat that i have rented out since the big "separation" from my wife and for some reason i started going through this suitcase that i havent opened for years since we moved to our family home.
It has all my personal stuff that i bring back from Kenya everytime i visit and its even got that African smell (kama moshi) . I always try to avoid this ka-suitcase because it just gives me nolstagia and being alone away from my estranged wife i should have known better than to go in there.
As i opened it i noticed this Kodak photo folder kinda thing that i know holds all my childhood photos that my mum put together the last i was back home.In it there was all my ridiculous photos from high school,and all other sort of photo you would expect to find from your childhood that your mum would have saved.
But among all the photos i saw,one struck me the most and put everything in perspective as far as my present marital situation is at the moment:
I pulled out a photo of me and my father at my Confirmation.(all catholics know what im talking about),that ceremony that allows you to finally eat the bread at church every sunday or be it after a long que!
I must have been 7 or 8 when that picha was taken and there i was grinning and wearing some ridiculous “3 piece suit” that must have cost my parents a fortune and my dad was standing behind me and if pictures speak a thousand words,he was about to hug me but couldnt,because he was an "African"! This picture made me think!: In the picture,my dad is exactly the same age as i am now. In the picture,i am the same age as my son is NOW! In the picture,my dad is going to have this picture taken,drive me,my brother and sisters back to a home that he and my mum have made for all of us! In this picture,my dad and mum have their fair share of relationship squabbles that i know about,but they always seem to work things out,and for we ,their childrens sake,they put their differences aside on a special day like this!
In this picture,i see a father who never walked away. I see a man who through all challenges and faults of his own making or otherwise,stood by his FAMILY!
I see a man that i admire and want to be.
I see a man that i am not.A real man who overcame the stress,shame,and anything in-between to see to it that a man his age under the same circumstances as he was at that age,became a HERO,for me,at the same age.
Today,i want to be a hero for my son and for all my children.
I will keep you posted listers/Talkers.
Pray for me.

This is an image of me at my lightbulb moment,driving down a deserted road.[ATTACH=full]2236[/ATTACH] [ATTACH=full]2236[/ATTACH]

Deep story man. Subterrenean.

Alafu, ati African(kama moshi), hahaha. Kondoo!

[Ka-Buda]

@kijanamrefu

Deep story man. Subterrenean.

Alafu, ati African(kama moshi), hahaha. Kondoo!

Thanks everyone who cared to support me.I have spent a very fruitful day with my ex wife and i am glad to report that i will be moving back home in two weeks time.There is obviously a list of conditions to be met but i feel like a changed man.Its amazing how far small words like sorry can go to mend things in a relationship.
Thanks guys.

@kijanamrefu
Ni ukweli,kuna ka harufu ka Africa mtu huskia ukifika majuu.You can be as clean as you want kabla upande ndege lakini ukfika that ka harufu ka moshi follows you…heheheheh…

[jameson]

@Ka-Buda

Thanks everyone who cared to support me.I have spent a very fruitful day with my ex wife and i am glad to report that i will be moving back home in two weeks time.There is obviously a list of conditions to be met but i feel like a changed man.Its amazing how far small words like sorry can go to mend things in a relationship.
Thanks guys.

And that’s how season 2 of the soap ends, tunangojea season 3

[Ka-Buda]

@jameson

And that’s how season 2 of the soap ends, tunangojea season 3

:D:D:D:D
Uko na vichekesho sana…season 2…SMH…:D:D:D:D:D

[Delilah]

ndoa ni uvumilivu na kusinywa#truestory#

[Guru]

Murimo wa mushoka niguo uriaga mundu… - Translated ------> Never go back to your vomit!!

[Ka-Buda]

@Guru

Murimo wa mushoka niguo uriaga mundu… - Translated ------> Never go back to your vomit!!

But she is the mother of my kids. How do i just walk away? you dont think i should give it another go for the kid`s sake? People break up to make up in any relationship.My heart is telling me to try again kama watu hawangekuwa wanasameheana then nobody would be talking to anybody and there would be so much anger.

[Guru]

@Ka-Buda

But she is the mother of my kids. How do i just walk away? you dont think i should give it another go for the kid`s sake? People break up to make up in any relationship.My heart is telling me to try again kama watu hawangekuwa wanasameheana then nobody would be talking to anybody and there would be so much anger.

@Ka-Buda I feel you especially for kids sake. But if it had reached a point of separation, it had hurt. Are you ready to FORGET completely her fouls and vice versa? Do you know that kids sometimes suffer more when parents fight than when they are living apart? Well there is only way that you can survive - Kukaliwa na bibi! All the best my brother!