gashwin:
actually i don’t see it that way. rather i see it as an investment in the community. a way of keeping in touch. you see i left the village after college and getting a job, went on to buy a plot in town and established my home. i only go home (only my eldest brother and his family live there) three to four times a year and when there are funerals of neighbours and weddings of close family friends. but i do what any community member is required to do as i am an active member of the community welfare association. the reason i do that is because i’ll be buried there next to mama’s grave.
i do not want to be one of those town dwellers villagers say drive around the village with windows up. these people get into social embarassments. just recently an agemate lost is wife and he had to pay gravediggers - something unheard of and very embarassing - because the local young men could not do it as he does not socialize. on the burial day kaburi ilikataa kujaa mchanga because the locals attended the funeral and ate the food provided by a commercial caterer but did not participate in filling the grave because my friend keeps aloof…arrangements had to be made quickly to hire more young men to complete the job!
very sad indeed
Binghi:
thought ni kwetu pekee
ni ocha zote
Electronics4u:
huskia vibaya sana
wewe inaonekana hawakuitishangi chapaa kama MCA… the worse thing ni wale hadi hukuja kwenyu morning ya 7am
wewe ni boy ulisoma private school huwezi elewa
waaaah dat just rude
kwetu ni opposite ju wana pesa ya muguka sasa hawana time yako wanakuita ukakague pro box gan wamebuy ina teke in proccess unaoga na fombe
conteh
December 7, 2017, 2:10am
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gashwin:
actually i don’t see it that way. rather i see it as an investment in the community. a way of keeping in touch. you see i left the village after college and getting a job, went on to buy a plot in town and established my home. i only go home (only my eldest brother and his family live there) three to four times a year and when there are funerals of neighbours and weddings of close family friends. but i do what any community member is required to do as i am an active member of the community welfare association. the reason i do that is because i’ll be buried there next to mama’s grave.
i do not want to be one of those town dwellers villagers say drive around the village with windows up. these people get into social embarassments. just recently an agemate lost is wife and he had to pay gravediggers - something unheard of and very embarassing - because the local young men could not do it as he does not socialize. on the burial day kaburi ilikataa kujaa mchanga because the locals attended the funeral and ate the food provided by a commercial caterer but did not participate in filling the grave because my friend keeps aloof…arrangements had to be made quickly to hire more young men to complete the job!
I get you, ata mi nikirudi mtaa I walkabout reconnecting with my guys but wengi sasa keg ndio zao, so mi nawaachia zao na life goes on.
True @old monk ey has been MIA for along time.
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gashwin:
actually i don’t see it that way. rather i see it as an investment in the community. a way of keeping in touch. you see i left the village after college and getting a job, went on to buy a plot in town and established my home. i only go home (only my eldest brother and his family live there) three to four times a year and when there are funerals of neighbours and weddings of close family friends. but i do what any community member is required to do as i am an active member of the community welfare association. the reason i do that is because i’ll be buried there next to mama’s grave.
i do not want to be one of those town dwellers villagers say drive around the village with windows up. these people get into social embarassments. just recently an agemate lost is wife and he had to pay gravediggers - something unheard of and very embarassing - because the local young men could not do it as he does not socialize. on the burial day kaburi ilikataa kujaa mchanga because the locals attended the funeral and ate the food provided by a commercial caterer but did not participate in filling the grave because my friend keeps aloof…arrangements had to be made quickly to hire more young men to complete the job!
Small price to pay. Most of these drunkards will still steal from you if they get the opportunity after you’ve given them za macho. Kwanza kama ni relative I ask them to go fetch that money where they expect me to get it from.
system
December 7, 2017, 6:12am
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Shida yenu nyinyi ni wachoyo ama nikusota mumesota Sijui.
Sio kusota. Kama ni kuomba heri uombe pesa ya maana for a good cause. Say if someone is sick, school fees, a small loan to get back in business. Lakini mtu anakuomba 50 leo, kesho 30 and everytime you meet so that they can smoke cigarettes. Wacha tukosane.
Maybe
I’ve always been here never failed to login any day.
Sio kusota. Kama ni kuomba heri uombe pesa ya maana for a good cause. Say if someone is sick, school fees, a small loan to get back in business. Lakini mtu anakuomba 50 leo, kesho 30 and everytime you meet so that they can smoke cigarettes. Wacha tukosane.
apa umeongea kweli…worse ni ukiwa na such uncles… wale husema mimi ata sitaki kitu natakaa mia mbili… ukimpatia jioni uyo anarudi na heka ingine vile ameibiwa iyo soo mbili na macho zinakaa za uhuru
Hawa ni dangerous. They can even sell your gate like scrap metal knowing you cannot take legal action against a relative. Best thing is to be civil with them and refuse to give them money for their addictions but help when they really need help. Kama ni school fee you pay in the schools bank account.
system
December 7, 2017, 9:05am
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You owe them something infact something big.
Kuna wale ulifanya wakapigwa miaka nane coz everytime ulikua unakuja number mzuri unawa wachia number ya chura.
Kuna wale wali fail coz you were the class hornbill
Kuna wale wako traumatised vile uli wa bully
Kuna wale wali share na wewe pesa ya lunch n snacks
Sasa kuna pia tule tulikua tu fisi but uka cock block
Una imagine ulkspend na mtu 9 years in the same class, probably hakuna X wako ashai last that long
Afro
December 7, 2017, 12:20pm
32
:DAma anarudi akiwa totaly drunk and starts insulting you
kwesta
December 7, 2017, 2:03pm
33
My strategy to get rid of the incessant ones in simple , akiomba finje, I tell them I only have a 100 note , you give them wanasema watakupa change, of course they won’t .
Next time you meet them before they ask for money remind them they owe you .
Same applies to those relas who never pay debts , “lend” them a small amount you can afford to lose, they will never have face to borrow a big amount knowing that they owe you .
yani vile mswari imetufanya