Why I’m Opting For Abortion.

[Phylgee]

I can’t see reason for abortion unless it’s a matter of life and death… Either way you’ll be mother, a mother of a dead baby. When you engage in sexual activities you know what you are doing and you know the consequences… If you don’t take precautions then it means you are ready to face the outcomes…
I have seen many girls ls aborting, I still so sad, other girls are doing it like an everyday routine…

[Jergen]

You need to do what will be best for you…

[S.P]

Maina, in as much as you might have your own stand, please advise the young girl to keep that child - she turned to you so you do her that one service, whether she keeps it or not is up to her but it will be on record that you advised her to keep the child.
I will not get into the whys of it - hakuna watoto hapa.

[WANJIKU]

@Mark Maish

#Thisismystory I am currently a fourth year student in the university. I recently just found out that I am pregnant and this news was the biggest blow in my life. I am in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend who is the father of the unborn baby.

To be frantically honest, I am not ready to be a mother at the age of 22. I have never pictured myself getting married or having children in the future because my parents separated while I was so young and to date this affects me. I am also very scared of the future which is unknown. This is because I have read so many blogs of young mothers in campus who started their lives well with the baby daddy but in the long run, they all ended up being single parents full of regrets of keeping the child.

Another reason that makes me scared is the fact that this is shameful to my mother. My dad is the kind of person who blames my mum for every wrong act done that happens. I don’t want my mother to be verbally abused for the mistake that has been done and for that reason I’m opting for abortion. Yes, I know people will judge me as an evil person but its only girls who have undergone this would understand my current situation.

Although my boyfriend is very supportive and willing to help us and marry me in the long run, he doesn’t have a job but is currently looking for one. This fact scares me because I don’t want to burden my parents with my financial problems. I’m here afraid to take the biggest step in my life because of all the reasons mentioned above knowing well that this will affect me greatly and probably bring no shame to my family.

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you are really going to miss a beautiful experience. What is ahead may look hard …the pregnancy will take a toll on you,giving birth will be hell, but the minute you hold that child in your arms believe me you will be glad you did not abort. your mother is living her life don’t use her as an excuse ,she has chosen to live with that man and bear him as he is. Again how is she accountable for the actions of a 22 years old?"wana onyi ni ta uthungu " so my grandmother said.rougly means utoi ni kaa uzungu(don’t ask me how foolishness equates to a jungu)…

[system]

@Jolly

Lets be honest, huu ni mwiba wa kujidunga. This is a very selfish person. Contraceptives zimejaa kila place even though si 100% but still kuna chance that she was not using any. Atleast right now she should atleast do something right and that is keeping the innocent kid. How does one live with themselves knowing you killed your own child? Its sickening.

Nada more to add Jolly.

[Mark_Maish]

@S.P

Maina, in as much as you might have your own stand, please advise the young girl to keep that child - she turned to you so you do her that one service, whether she keeps it or not is up to her but it will be on record that you advised her to keep the child.
I will not get into the whys of it - hakuna watoto hapa.

I’m sending her a link to this thread so she can read the pieces of advice herein.

Personally, I’m going to encourage her to keep the baby. This is because I have received countless emails from women who chose to abort only to end up regretting their decision for the rest of their lives.

[uwesmake]

keep the kid , abortion is murder even if its one hour old . argument ya incest child huwa reasonable but the line is too thin and can be taken advantage of so wacha mtoto azaliwe . na ukishauwa mtu madem hawajui it will follow you for the rest of your life