Words from my father, Young men this is why it is important to score a good wife in your 20s

[imma_Peasant]

@Massai

So big man,u think that you’ll get married at 41 when you’re finally made it to a 24-year-old hot chile? Sio? Usishangae basi ukilea watoto sio wako. Considering how women are evolving nowadays, it will only get worse not better. You will only land the same single mothers u spew hate on when u wait until 50 to get married, na ukioa a young-in be very sure she will be there for the money while ferking her agemates on the downlow. Dont play yourself.

This doesnt make sense. Most of my female classmates after campo immediately got married to 38-40s guys and they are still together all this time. Women want security not Age. Most men look better in their 30s and 40s than when they are in their toothpick years. Just take care of yourself.

[system]

@muchatha local

and continue hunting.

Until when do u plan to continue hunting, ata simba huchoka na kuzeeka. If you’re currently 28 be very sure utachoka by 45 years. Halafu u will settle for a nyanya mzee of 36 years who gave her youth to other less deserving men. This is the curse of MGTOW.

[Sambamba]

@Massai

So big man,u think that you’ll get married at 41 when you’re finally made it to a 24-year-old hot chile? Sio? Usishangae basi ukilea watoto sio wako. Considering how women are evolving nowadays, it will only get worse not better. You will only land the same single mothers u spew hate on when u wait until 50 to get married, na ukioa a young-in be very sure she will be there for the money while ferking her agemates on the downlow. Dont play yourself.

I’d rather be a Munene Nyaga who waited till he was 42 when he was super secure than a Jimmy Gathu who made his first million at 25 in 1995 and got shortly married thereafter after following advice ya watu kama wewe. Saa hii at 50 bado analia watu wampatie kazi.

https://www.sde.co.ke/article/2001332519/how-i-lost-a-sh30-million-deal-jimmy-gathu

Anyway follow your path and live with the consequences of your decisions.

[muchatha_local]

@Massai

Until when do u plan to continue hunting, ata simba huchoka na kuzeeka. If you’re currently 28 be very sure utachoka by 45 years. Halafu u will settle for a nyanya mzee of 36 years who gave her youth to other less deserving men. This is the curse of MGTOW.

Every decision a man makes has its downsides, the thing about MGTOW is that I am comfortable with the downsides of MGTOW…

People who sell the ‘marriage dream’ are snake-oil salesmen who praise the upsides of marriage without highlighting the downsides…

Its better to be cursed as a MGTOW than to be cursed in marriage

[CRUD]

@WuTang

:D:D:D:D:D:D. Ati 2 paychecks? Ni sawa.

IKR. Funniest shit I have had to read today

[imma_Peasant]

@muchatha local

Every decision a man makes has its downsides, the thing about MGTOW is that I am comfortable with the downsides of MGTOW…

People who sell the ‘marriage dream’ are snake-oil salesmen who praise the upsides of marriage without highlighting the downsides…

Its better to be cursed as a MGTOW than to be cursed in marriage

Okay i dont understand this MGTOW thing, so i wont ask questions, but i totally agree with you on this one.

[system]

@muchatha local

Every decision a man makes has its downsides, the thing about MGTOW is that I am comfortable with the downsides of MGTOW…

People who sell the ‘marriage dream’ are snake-oil salesmen who praise the upsides of marriage without highlighting the downsides…

Its better to be cursed as a MGTOW than to be cursed in marriage

I am not praising marriage, but just saying that it is in your best interests as a young man to start sieving chaff from wheat as early as 25. By latest 28 you should have gotten mtu wa maana and quit the game.

[muchatha_local]

@Massai

I am not praising marriage, but just saying that it is in your best interests as a young man to start sieving chaff from wheat as early as 25. By latest 28 you should have gotten mtu wa maana and quit the game.

So stop shaming bachelors and bachelorhood in general… Whatever works for you will not work for everybody…

Trailblaze the marriage path, we might follow you or choose not to… It’s our choice, and we here at KTALK respect your choice too

[imma_Peasant]

@Massai

I am not praising marriage, but just saying that it is in your best interests as a young man to start sieving chaff from wheat as early as 25. By latest 28 you should have gotten mtu wa maana and quit the game.

Dating? fine! Marriage? Kids? Probably not unless you have the means.

[Kodiaga]

wise wo

@imma_Peasant

So you are trying to say at 35 i cant score a 25 year old? Ama once she sees my fat wallet all her sanity and morality will go out the window? Are you trying to say that the only route to true love is poverty?

Okay, let me give you a scenario, im in my early 30s, btw, since my first job at 27, there was nothing i could account for that time, apart from all the furniture and household i had. However, when i clocked 30, something changed, like the next day, i felt different- in that one year, i made tiny investments, i was insecure, i joined a sacco, started thinking about my future, i broke up with my girlfriend ( thank god) Today, i have something small in my account, i can not fail to pay rent, i can help around at home with projects, i can lend guys money, When guys talk of investing at the table, my ears are open because i can relate, i have the dough-i have been saving up. I dont have loose ends.

Scenario 2
My kid bro 25 years got his girlfriend paged, HE IS FUCKED!! this was last year. He had just got his first job, he hardly knows what it feels like to have 100k in his account and nothing to do with. He’s never been to a full week’s party at a beach house in Nyali. He is now a Dad. Heck! He cant wake up and leave, start a fresh, he is tied down. But my kid bro is 25. He is the perfect icon of the narrative you are trying to pass.
Now i know you might want to defend your theory with that whole crap ya family keeps you motivated…okay where are the opportunities in this fucked up economy? This is not a movie bro!!
So tell me, without the opportunity to advance his education to get a better job or advance his career, without enough money to save or start a kibanda or invest cause he needs to feed three mouths pay for rent and handle his shit, what does the future hold for this young man in this bleek economy? Please tell us? How the fack is this ninja supposed to pursue his potential that the wife saw in him?

I have an answer for you, soon love will run dry, his 23 year old very very fly wife is going to be facked by @Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii , his sorry broke self at 25 will be abandoned if not given a second kiddo.
But what if he waited? What if he waited until when he was old enough to have stable income?

Things are different right now. Our parents had opportunities, back in the day the gova hired anyone with papers…saa hii nikujuana. You gotta play your cards well. I dont care if my kids have an old dad, hio ni shida yao, you dont get to choose your parents watazoea.

Right now, im saving up, eating healthy, watching my weight, enjoying my bedsitter, enjoying my youth. I am older, i am wiser, i dont need to rush to marry, when a nice one comes along, if she ever comes, i will settle down.

For now, my next door neighbor ametoka shift BIG SQUARE, she’s learnt a new recipe amenipigia kelele week yote, after dinner ntachukua slices niwachie Manager wao atakula end month akikuja kulipa rent.

Moral of the story, dont get pressured to wife someone when you are not ready. What family guys wont tell you is keeping kids is not easy, its a career in itself. You cant afford not to have food, or TP, or water, or stima, or TV time, or fees, or money.
Check yourself before you wreck yourself!

wise words over there

[Mimi_Huwa_Namwaga_Nd]

Marriage in 2020 is a very risky affair. Where there are risks it is best to err in the side of caution. I would rather spend my sunset years childless than with a brood of good for nothing ferktards who are asking when i will die so that they can inherit my BMW.

[Kumbaffu]

People think marriage is a bed of roses. Tell that to those who got married early, divorced after discovering how big of a scam marriage is, and vowed never to marry again. Yote ni vanity.

[linux_evalgelist]

@Massai

I have noticed that the common consensus here in ktalk is that young men should not get married or commit in their 20s; that they should put matters marriage off until their mid-30s and 40s when they have finally ‘made it’. I beg to differ. Young men reading this, it is very important to start scouring for a good life partner as early as you turn 24 years and settle down officially by latest 28 years. Why?

1. As a man, your 20s are the most volatile phase of your manhood. A chokeful of testosterone and infinite sexual potency means that you’re bound to make very silly decisions in a bid to score as much pusy as possible - club-hopping, binge drinking, endless partying, lanye tasting, road trips hazieleweki, drunk driving etc. The end result is wasted money, time and resources that would otherwise have been put into better use. A good wife gives you the stability and presence of mind to plan as far ahead into the future as possible and get your shit together. Very few young men have this kind of internal self-discipline.

2. Unless you come from the very few elite families in Kenya, you are basically in the trenches financially in your 20s. You’re yet to make any meaningful progress in your career or amass some serious wealth kama wewe ni mtu biashara. This is actually the best time to separate chaff from wheat. Its easier for Ruto to become president than for you to land a genuine woman when you’re a 45-year-old multimillionaire. They will be there for the money, and the money they will chop. Any woman who loves you when you’re squatting in your shitty bedsitter in Uthiru must have fallen in love with your potential and this is a very good sign.

3. Getting your progeny in your 20s means that they will out of the house by the time you hit your 50s. Not only will you learn to focus and up your hustle early in life ( for the sake of your kids ) but you will also be done with child-rearing by the time you start managing your lifestyle diseases at 65. Hakuna kitu ya ujinga kama ku budget for high school fees when you have an upcoming testicular cancer screening or renal exam.

4. Lets just face it, almost all 30-something childless bachelors with zero responsibilities generally make less money than their married counterparts and have an even lesser drive to invest their earnings. Lakini utawapata kwa clubs in the weekends swapping slay queens.

DISCLAIMER: If you manage to survive your 20s one way or another without getting married to a nurturing genuine woman, then don’t ever get married. Stay single. Chances are high you’ll end up with a raw deal - either a gold digger, a former kunguru, single mother or ill-adjusted reject women with underlying mental issues. My drinking buddy anawaitaga ‘insurance salvages’ hehehe. BTW, all good women worth a shot at marriage are often taken by 25 years, usidanganywe na mtu.

This is some fucked up advice in today’s world, marrying in your 20s robs you the chance to take big risks(investment risks), that could change your life. It’s even hard to change a job because you can’t afford downtime, you play it safe into your old age. Taking risks in old age is the dumbest idea one can have, when you’re old you become fragile, if a big monetary deal(investment) goes south, you could easily be killed by a heart attack, stroke e.t.c.

If you make money when you are still young and energetic, you won’t even have to worry about school fees and other other expenses, because you’ll have set up trust funds and investments(passive income) to take care of your family whether you are alive or dead.

Personally. i would be smiling in my grave knowing that the family that i left behind will be well taken care of…

[Stew_maker]

@Sitakiupusi

any lady mwenye haeki mshahara take kwa meza no Moto wa kuotea mbali…once you two combine resources maisha itakuwa nyweee

Just a word of advice, don’t count on a lady salary, you the man of the house. Otherwise she will have to "look elsewhere " to replace for what she’s giving out. Yeah women are that mean

[Stew_maker]

Marrying in your 20s is good if you come from a good background where your finances are insured.however that does not guarantee stability in marriage. A 25yr old guy will most likely marry a 23yr old lady, those are two immature and naive couples. There marriage is inclined to chaos and cases of infidelity as both parties are still in the exploitation phase of mankind.
So even with good finance it’s not advisable to marry in that age bracket

[system]

Take those words back to your father and tell him that does not apply today.
Also ask him how long it took him to have coitus with a woman when he was your age n compare with today.

[Poison]

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3. Getting your progeny in your 20s means that they will out of the house by the time you hit your 50s. Not only will you learn to focus and up your hustle early in life ( for the sake of your kids ) but you will also be done with child-rearing by the time you start managing your lifestyle diseases at 65. Hakuna kitu ya ujinga kama ku budget for high school fees when you have an upcoming testicular cancer screening or renal exam.

My older friend used to say this. And then his 2 daughters became singo mathas brought him their kids to raise. He’s now still hustling well into his 50s to raise his grandkids who will come to age when he is in his 70s.

[Haiwesekani]

@cortedivoire

At this era, Men who start family in their 20’s will most luckily have 2 or more baby mamas and you can take this to the bank

One way or another. Kuna kamoja kalipeleka soda jana. He’s just 29. Kujua hakajui kumeanza.

[eddy_mahelo]

Your 20s are your years of meeting many types of bitches to know who you can tolerate as a wife or not… then to get dumped and heartbroken for one reason or another and harden by the time you are 30s.

Its very hurtful to experience cheating , deceit, heartbreaks first time with your wife… and this is the mistake men make when they get attached too early… unapatana na shida kama hizi kwa ndoa, karibu ujiue… yet if you had learnt your lessons early , you would have avoided kungurus or even have better experience handling them

[Simiyu22]

@cortedivoire

At this era, Men who start family in their 20’s will most luckily have 2 or more baby mamas and you can take this to the bank

And bachelors pass 33 will likely have 2 or more bastard children out there and you can take this to the bank.