Between a Rock and a Hard place

One of my first cousins married my Ex, their marriage has not been smooth and they have not been living together for the last few months. I have really avoided the woman because I am sure the husband will blame me for the issues in their marriage. I actually have blocked her phone calls, FB and whatsapp. Yesternight the husband decided to visit, they had a fight and apparently the woman was hurt. She took the matter to the police and she has sworn to teach my brother a lesson. People have talked to her to withdraw the case she has refused. Now the family members have approached me to talk to her to drop the case.

If I talk to her and she agrees to drop the case, there will be that question mark, “only him could talk her to drop the case”, on the other hand we can’t afford this guy being jailed. He is a high school teacher and so far his career is on the rise.

She is very stubborn and that is one of the reasons I could not keep her. Her marriage to my cousin was some kind of protest to me, that I dropped her so she marries my cousin as a revenge.

Mbisha ya your stubborn ex…

Kati ya wawili wameoana hapana ingilia…
Lipia cousin police bond or apelekwe court.
As a villager elder who can see far my prediction is that your wife is following keenly.

Never.

Sorry but both the woman & your Cuzo seem be MORONS! Let them sort out thier issues! Did they consult you when they were starting this border line ‘incest’ relationship?
Yeah I didn’t think so, let them sort themselves! Its not between a rock & hard place its a nice seat and some pop corn as you enjoy this thriller! Ama ni horror show!!!

Your cousin/brother/not brother, should decide liwalo na liwe. Then cut all ties with her and find himself again. These people have destroyed kings

That is another conundrum, she is just waiting to see how I will play it.

Kuna the family issue pia, I can’t just sit and watch, as it is everybody is already involved, if I don’t they will have an impression I am enjoying the show.

Beba squad yote muende mumuongeleshe. Avoid a one on one contact…

You don’t say.

Ongea na ndugu yake aende aongee na yeye

As a high school teacher he ought to understand that domestic violence will not solve his marital problems in this days and age, therefore he should involve parents and elders to sweet talk his wife and stop the case

Swali mbili tu kabla I advise you based on a woman’s perspective.

  1. Who broke it off, you or her?..
  2. When you were together did you sleep together or no…

He is a jerk and picks very stupid fights. There was a time he was arrested for being drunk and disorderly and in police station some office was pushing him to the cell he slapped the police officer. We all have such kind of relatives.

  1. Who broke it off, you or her?..-I broke it off.
  2. When you were together did you sleep together or no…-Yes we did.

Huyu jamaa ata watch career yake iki tembea soon, I suggest you stay off and let the parents and elders handle this

We are what we eat, you can imagine

hii ni noma

Sometimes the best thing to do is to frustrate her efforts from another front where she cannot realize. Just look for the OCS or some influential person in the police dept or justice system to thwart her attempts. Do not get involved directly.

Kamua for old times sake. Na during pillow talk ambia yeye to drop charges.