Gender equality

T-Raww1

Senior Villager
#1
Hello villagers ... I was not planning to share this but hey here I am ... so today after mass service at St. Austin’s Catholic Church Msongari I met my sister at ABC place for lunch . You see she is well of with a job & financially stable . She’s now 36 years of age with no child & possibly no serious boyfriend who would marry her . So as we were talking she told me how she’s planning to buy a plot or a house somewhere in Ngong and settle there . I was very amazed that she doesn’t require any man in her life . She seems very comfortable that way. She’s my eldest sister & I could not question her much about her decisions. I mean is that the kind of society that our daughters will live ... no plans to have a family & you think Cz you have money you don’t need any man whatsoever...!
 
#5
It's sad indeed.
What I've come to realize from experience is, life is all about finding a balance.
Leaning on one side can seem OK initially but causes problem in the future.
As a human you need that balance, a family, a stable spouse to confide in and be your companion as you age.
It's just those small things that we've overlooked but are the essence of human gratification. You cannot change this process, because whatever you change it with be it material or financial, that gratification can only be found from sources as explained.
Look at the westerners, people dying having only the cat or dog as their companions.
 
#7
Hello villagers ... I was not planning to share this but hey here I am ... so today after mass service at St. Austin’s Catholic Church Msongari I met my sister at ABC place for lunch . You see she is well of with a job & financially stable . She’s now 36 years of age with no child & possibly no serious boyfriend who would marry her . So as we were talking she told me how she’s planning to buy a plot or a house somewhere in Ngong and settle there . I was very amazed that she doesn’t require any man in her life . She seems very comfortable that way. She’s my eldest sister & I could not question her much about her decisions. I mean is that the kind of society that our daughters will live ... no plans to have a family & you think Cz you have money you don’t need any man whatsoever...!
Uko na bahati coz ukizalisha watoto atachukua akulelee(She will always "steal"them for company.
I have a friend who says the big siz have spoilt his kids,wakifunga shule hawakai kwao
 

Purple

Moderator
Staff member
#9
I don’t understand what’s happening to men but one thing is true. Eligible guys have become a rare breed whereas successful women are plentiful. If she’s happy being single forever, fine. If not, please tell her that she must learn to put herself out there before it is too late.

While there are some decent men in Kenya they may not be as rich as she is. It’s a tough decision. Across all cultures, the idea that women will always find someone to marry up is being tested. If she ever wants to become a mother, egg freezing would give her a chance in future. I predict that someday parents will be paying for their daughter’s college tuition and egg freezing services concurrently. What’s an ambitious girl to do? Freezing eggs at 22 years will give women the opportunity to conquer the world and thereafter settle down into motherhood and family. Anyway I think you care deeply about your sister and are best positioned to advice her.
 
#11
At 36 your sister is wise enough to know that she is a SPENT CARTRIDGE. She is a decade too late! Which serious single man would marry a woman who cant even get pregnant and even if she does she can barely carry it to term? I keep saying here that a woman's best years are between 18-25, but mnaona ka mimi ni fala. After this short window period its all downhill, even nature itself conspires against her to make her life FULL OF SHIT!
 
#12
Hello villagers ... I was not planning to share this but hey here I am ... so today after mass service at St. Austin’s Catholic Church Msongari I met my sister at ABC place for lunch . You see she is well of with a job & financially stable . She’s now 36 years of age with no child & possibly no serious boyfriend who would marry her . So as we were talking she told me how she’s planning to buy a plot or a house somewhere in Ngong and settle there . I was very amazed that she doesn’t require any man in her life . She seems very comfortable that way. She’s my eldest sister & I could not question her much about her decisions. I mean is that the kind of society that our daughters will live ... no plans to have a family & you think Cz you have money you don’t need any man whatsoever...!
Welcom to the future. Let her be, huwezi oa dadako. Mwachie apange life yake vile inamfaa. That is how the future is going to be. Mariage is not for everyone.
 
#13
Hello villagers ... I was not planning to share this but hey here I am ... so today after mass service at St. Austin’s Catholic Church Msongari I met my sister at ABC place for lunch . You see she is well of with a job & financially stable . She’s now 36 years of age with no child & possibly no serious boyfriend who would marry her . So as we were talking she told me how she’s planning to buy a plot or a house somewhere in Ngong and settle there . I was very amazed that she doesn’t require any man in her life . She seems very comfortable that way. She’s my eldest sister & I could not question her much about her decisions. I mean is that the kind of society that our daughters will live ... no plans to have a family & you think Cz you have money you don’t need any man whatsoever...!
Nimekucha kuelewa hiyo story nowdays! Its not that they dont want a man, its that they dont want marriage! Its too messy ! Otherwise they all want a fuckmate, a trusted guy they can confide in somehow. No woman wants to take a holiday to some exotic seaside and lie in the sandy beach alone, watching couples happily romancing and then say in her mind am happily single.
Have u noticed they all want a kid to raise singly?
 
#14
When shall the notion that one has to be married to be complete end? It's better to live a happy and fulfilling man than getting married to a person who might destroy your destiny.

Even the Bible doesn't urge people to get married. 1st Corinthians 7:8-9"... You should stay single, just as I am. But if you don’t have enough self-control, then go ahead and get married. After all, it is better to marry than to burn with desire..."

Let people be!
 
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#16
Nimekucha kuelewa hiyo story nowdays! Its not that they dont want a man, its that they dont want marriage! Its too messy ! Otherwise they all want a fuckmate, a trusted guy they can confide in somehow. No woman wants to take a holiday to some exotic seaside and lie in the sandy beach alone, watching couples happily romancing and then say in her mind am happily single.
Have u noticed they all want a kid to raise singly?
Mtu wa Nyaribari chache detected
 
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