Wadau. As you all know, family relations have their ups and downs. Now suppose (hypothetically speaking) you have a younger sister. She is in her late twenties and living a comfortable life, by kenyan standards. She is the proprietor of a succesful logistics company and the husband is a senior financial advisor in one of the local companies. They have 1 kid and their lifestyle is what most people would admire. But guess what, it’s not. Behind closed doors, the husband is very violent and the young lady has been hospitalised severally due to injuries inflicted by the hubby. The lady has severally shared about the abusive tendencies with the parents and they talk to the guy but he does not change. A family counsellor was also involved but this aggravated the situation and the dude became more abusive. Now for the young lady, walking out of the house is not an option because this is a home they built together from scratch and she is not willing to go back to square one.
Now as the older brother, would you consider taking matters to your own hands and teaching this man a lesson. Men who beat women are cowards, right? Will few slaps and kicks bring this coward right back to his senses. I mean something has to be done and you just can’t sit there like a kid and wait untill the day the bastard will kill your sister. After all, they say it is better to be feared than to be respected. Good people, I urgently need your advise before I act.
someone somewhere is wishing they had this chance to save their sister or daughter…kindly talk and salvage your sister from that coward ningekua wewe ningemtoa hapo jana juu unaeza nunua nyumba but once someone’s ecg goes flat no bilions can get it back.
Just ask her one question " [SIZE=7]IS ALL THAT WORTH IT? , [COLOR=rgb(184, 49, 47)]THE BEATING AND MONEY , [COLOR=rgb(85, 57, 130)]CAN SHE HANDLE THAT FOR ANOTHER 70 YEARS?"[/SIZE]
Then ask her if she is willing to go to the grave.
Coz that’s where she is headed. You can start from square one when alive, but when dead…tafakali hayo.
True. I am with you on this one. But several beatings and hospitalization later is no good reason not to conclude she be in an abusive relationship.
Beating the man up will only accelrsye the slide down.
Get your sis out of there…
What you should do is look for a crew of thugs you can trust. Every time he beats up your sister, they ambush him and give him a nice thorough beating. Every time. Wewe just keep acting like hayakuhusu. At some point, he will come to figure out that he receives beatings after doing it to your sister, and he will stop. It will be your very own Pavlov’s experiment.