Goals in Marriage

Ned Stark

Village Elder
#1
Villagers ikifika hapa mtu hufanya aje u apply for mtu kazi kila saa anaitwa over 3 interviews amekataa kuenda just because one backfired among those some are with NGOs and blue chips company instead ironically anakuambia anataka kufanya online work am not being tribal but now I get why people go for shiny eyes
 
#8
You provide everything. Mpaka pesa ya always.

She sees no need to work the normal jobs the rest of us have.
But,again,do not dismiss those online jobs just because they do not fit the societal moulds.
Lastly,how is ya communication? What are her fears,aspirations,dreams,goals etc?
 
#9
Sasa kazi ya 20k surely alafu anashinda akipigia kelele ooh sijui she is not having a career growth
20k kwa bibi si mbaya. Mambo ya providing ni yako si yake. Bora anakutunza wewe na watoto vizuri sioni shida. Mwambie abadilishe priorities zake to homemaking ndio asikulwe a stress za career growth.
 

Ned Stark

Village Elder
#10
20k kwa bibi si mbaya. Mambo ya providing ni yako si yake. Bora anakutunza wewe na watoto vizuri sioni shida. Mwambie abadilishe priorities zake to homemaking ndio asikulwe a stress za career growth.
Hata nikalipwa 100k si kitu mtu anataka lifestyle mzuri na hataki sacrifices and hii maisha ni kusaidiana we pool resources or else tutaishi rental houses forever and living from hand to mouth
 

Ned Stark

Village Elder
#11
You provide everything. Mpaka pesa ya always.

She sees no need to work the normal jobs the rest of us have.
But,again,do not dismiss those online jobs just because they do not fit the societal moulds.
Lastly,how is ya communication? What are her fears,aspirations,dreams,goals etc?
Online jobs si ati ni assurity u will have a stable income I do them as a side hustle and things are not smooth always
 
#13
Hata nikalipwa 100k si kitu mtu anataka lifestyle mzuri na hataki sacrifices and hii maisha ni kusaidiana we pool resources or else tutaishi rental houses forever and living from hand to mouth
Pull resources with your friends and/or extended family to start businesses so that your wife can be a dedicated homemaker, u won't need her income at all. That's how somalis and Indians do it. They're very rich yet all their wives do is take care of the kids and family business. That's the life man. Where's ur wife from?
 

Mankind

Village Elder
#14
Umemuoa?
If not then you are just paying for the goodies unakula kila siku.
If you are planing to marry her then mkalishe down before muende mbaaali.
If you are married then uko na kibarua. Muitie wajomba na mashangazi wamueleze point umeshindwa!!
 

Ned Stark

Village Elder
#16
Pull resources with your friends and/or extended family to start businesses so that your wife can be a dedicated homemaker, u won't need her income at all. That's how somalis and Indians do it. They're very rich yet all their wives do is take care of the kids and family business. That's the life man. Where's ur wife from?
Ukambani
 

Ned Stark

Village Elder
#17
Umemuoa?
If not then you are just paying for the goodies unakula kila siku.
If you are planing to marry her then mkalishe down before muende mbaaali.
If you are married then uko na kibarua. Muitie wajomba na mashangazi wamueleze point umeshindwa!!
Sumu ya mapenzi ukikunywa hata maziwa haisadii my fren
 

snapdragon

Village Elder
#20
Pimia yeye pesa ya mahitaji..like zero cash u buy everything in the house and make sure hujaacha ata 10bob.it also helps pia wewe usiwe na any cash
 

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