We went on our first date with the mother of the child last Sunday. We both had a good time together, We later exchanged contacts and have being talking and whasapping each other like love birds ever since. She had not told me that she had a 4year old son until yesterday afternoon. Her sincerity for revealing to me that she was a single mom at this early stages of our relationship has made me very proud of her cause come on how many women do we know out there that will hide their child(ren) away from their new lovers because they fear rejection. I give her credit and kudos for that.
I have talked to the son on phone even though we have never met. At first he was shy bt am good with children and with no time he got used to me and started laughing at my silly jokes like mimicking his favorite cartoons.
Am having a family date with both the mother and son this Sunday at Uhuru park. I want it to be special. I got the whole week to plan for this special occasion so it better be perfect.
My main agenda is to win the heart of the kid cause if i do then automatically i would have also won the heart of the lady. My other plan is convincing the mother to change her career. She is a highschool graduate but could not proceed to college because of financial reasons. Her english is good going by the way she texts. During the dinner date we did’nt speak english but now that we are texting each other she always writes in english. This tells you her IQ is high up there.
Back to toddler, guys & ladies how can i win the heart of the toddler this sunday at Uhuru park? Am planning to buy a small ball so that we can play football with the kid as the mother watches. Later on go for boat rides and then maybe luna park . Am planning to jump into the bouncing castle with my future step son. Add more please.
Just be yourself. Don’t go out of your way to please the boy. Stop planning or anticipating. Instead if there is such a thing just be genuine and let your actions be spontaneous.
dont try too hard but find out what he loves and try and engage him in that, even if it means you have to watch several hours of Tom and Jerry with him
I didnt finish reading. There is nothing like lovebirds. She is looking for a father to the kids. Coochie will be withheld until you submit and accept the job.
First, this is really a good thing that you’re doing because not so many men out there would take a lady with ‘baggage’ and show interest in not only getting to know her but also getting to know her with her son/child. Secondly, wanting to be with her is one thing and wanting to have this child with you is another thing altogether. When you get into this kids life; its no trial, it’s no game. The child will look up to you as a father figure and will expect that you be there come rain come sunshine. Having this in mind means that even when you and the woman have misunderstandings and break things off, the child hurts most. My view is that you should first take time to know the lady, spend more time with her minus the child…for now just do the phone calls until you get to know this lady well (and know the circumstances that led to her being a single parent i.e Will the baby daddy be an issue? )…after which you’ll have now decided whether you’ll handle both (her & the son combined).
Boss, come slowly. That is all i can say. Prostitutes know how to manipulate a man. They have experience from a thousand men. Besides, a nose that has sniffed tobacco shall sniff it again at some time.
Kula vitu na uende zako, not because she’s a singo matha, but coz she’s a prostitute.