Love and marriage; What to do with interfering in-laws????

[john_doe]

Unafanya vijana kama sisi tuogope ndoa, 10 yrs ya ndoa na umepitia hiyo shit yote?

 

[Wakanyama]

Wewe shida yako ni nini kiyana????.....

mkanyage na hio garbage truck yako ,halafu umutupe kwa dumpsite

 

[Saka]

This things affect sissy men

 

[Purr_27]

This things affect sissy men

Are you married ..ur lucky if urs is nearly perfect

 

[Purr_27]

Nothing hurts a woman more than a cold shoulder! Give her a cold one alright...Make your alimony payment on time, send a text to ask for child visitation, if she declines don't ask why just Drop the plan. Then with zero hearty conversations and no conjugal visits she will ask..."What did I do Hun?" Here, drop the CUZO bombshell....She will never ever entertain her again!

True .. u know wen u visit her u meet her intimate needs so shes not deprived.. but shes not meeting ur emotional needs..make it strictly about ur babies nothing more n see the results

 

[karema-hitI]

@kabuda Remember garbage in garbage out also applies in marriage. And keep everyone (parents, siblings, relas) out of your marriage. You married one woman, not a whole clan.

 

[kush yule mnono]

Na wewe @Ka-Buda kwani iko nene. I thought you had 3 different women that you wanted to get together in a baraza ndio wajuane. Leave the drama queen and her cousin and go to one of the other two. Wacha na yeye pia akutafute so she can understand vyenye kunaendaga. Am not a pro at these mashida hivi hivi coz have never been married na sioni nikioa anytime soon. Listen to @Purr_27 and @Female Perspective wakuonyeshe how it goes. Asande

 

[Fala 12]

sasa uko na wa southafrica wawili chunga xenophobic attack

 

[Okiya]

your stories remind me of programmes such as deadly affairs & who on earth did I marry.

 

[fabian mburu]

Marriage is sweeter than honey bt I fear diabetes.

 

[Macdonald]

I am really tempted to make an indecent sexual proposal to her cousin (just to wreck their relationship) but i am not that cold and calculating.

That's your answer right there. It's what any man in your position would do

 

[PewterShmit]

Me and my South African wife were okay until this cousin of hers came into the picture (literally moved a few doors down our street).
When i say okay i don`t mean perfect;we had our fair share of relationship squabbles that every couple faces,issues of infidelity,money,babymomma dramas etc.. But for some reason,we had always overcome this issues for a solid 10 years and we were both settling down to the fact that we were going to grow old together..(she loved it when i said that!)
Now i don`t have anything against single mothers BUT,if me and my wife of 10 years are going to take any advise about love and marriage,i don`t think we want to seek it from a a single mother of 3 uncontrollable,rowdy rascals who can`t be tamed by the most patient zoo keeper.
I am talking about my wife`s cousin (god knows i can`t stand the bitch!)
We parted ways about 3 months ago but we have kept a jovial,"mature" and for all intents and purposes, a good relationship in the interests of our kids.
I have been able to come and go into the house as i pleased even keeping the key and being able to have "conjugal" visitations with my "ex-wife" who has vowed to me that we are just going through a bad patch and that in time we will get back as a family -well,thats what she tells me everytime we have sex!
I could almost live with this weird arrangement but its like just when we have got together,had a nice day with the kids just like before,and even ended up in bed together,i always get an inconsistent behavioural "surprise"!
The other day it was papers from the courts regarding child maintanance which i don`t need to be told by a court to pay and of which i have paid over the court order`s expectation even before the cousin advised her to have the court do to me.Jana i asked her if i could go see the kids and she told me that her and the cousin were out shopping so it was bad timing!
This bitch is getting on my last nerve and i don`t know what to do.
Has anybody been in this circumstance?! I am really tempted to make an indecent sexual proposal to her cousin (just to wreck their relationship) but i am not that cold and calculating.
Nani ana experince kama hii?

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[Ka-Buda]

man, this stuff is what makes for good content. you cld be earning from this passively if you knew how.

What do you mean? Please tell me how?

 

[PewterShmit]

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You need some kind of blog, i will bring the world to you and then we can both sit and enjoy a cold drink from the proceeds. That did not sound g** did it?

 

[Ka-Buda]

im the technical guy, i know how to play with search engines and when i come across good, original content like yours, i salivate.

You need some kind of blog, i will bring the world to you and then we can both sit and enjoy a cold drink from the proceeds. That did not sound g** did it?

no it did not. It sounded like a good business proposition and you are welcome to inbox me so we talk more about it.
Literature,languages,poetry and well written short stories (hekaya or not) i think i can do, so please hit me! I happen to have time on my hands at the moment; this blogging business,how does it work?

 

[Riddim]

1. take the female perspective
2. weka mbisa ya huyo cousin hapa
ni hayo tu, asante

 

[PewterShmit]

no it did not. It sounded like a good business proposition and you are welcome to inbox me so we talk more about it.
Literature,languages,poetry and well written short stories (hekaya or not) i think i can do, so please hit me! I happen to have time on my hands at the moment; this blogging business,how does it work?

i just started a new project. i will get back to you