Married Men

#1
Ahem! Wangwana wale mumeoa hebu kujeni kidogo mlete mawaidha hapa. I'm married to this woman who's been wonderful for the six years we've been an item. Trust has been excellent! She has all my pin numbers, i have hers. Has all my passwords( except ya hii kijiji), i have hers. Joint bank a/c too. I happened to know her Ex though we've never met physically. She knows this since she begged me in the beginning not to be like him. Fisi kama Uwes. We've been having no qualms as far as phone messages are concerned. Everyone has been careful i guess.

So juzi sato nimeland home and found everyone asleep. Comp ya hao ilikua inadownload movies overnight as usual. Kuingia browser nikapata tabs kadhaa open, most of which were MKZ. Yeye bado yuko huko. I scanned the pages with no particular interest and coincidentally she got a message in her messanger. Kuona hivi ni huyo mlevi. He was asking how her family was doing. So i took interest and scanned all the messages in her chat. They were far apart. One was in Jan, another April. The two were initiated by the guy and she replied with very short answers. But of particular interest was that of Aug. 9/8 to be precise. Mama watoto initiated this. The chat went on for two days. The guy asking to be provided with a shoulder to cry on since he had lost in Kericho parliamentary race. The nerve!! I didnt even know the guy contested. Bibi akamshow asijali ati dunia ni hivo. I was struck by a thunderbolt. Jina 'Kunguru' malingering somewhere in my mind. Turns out the guy is a rela to moneyed Charles Keter. Upto now i cant even work properly. Wangwana do i confront her ama i just let it pass? @Budspenceress akinimess sijui kama nitawai recover. Of the married men here do you happen to know exes wa mama watoi? Is this normal? image.jpg
 

threetatu

Village Elder
#3
Curiosity killed the cat and/or what you don't know won't kill you...

Hapa leave subtle hints that you know and see how she will confess or not... You will know more by her reaction to your hints. Patience pia is a virtue
 

Mundu Mulosi

Moderator
Staff member
#4
Let her know you saw the chat and you are not comfortable she initiated it. Ask her if there is anything you should be worried about. The answers you will get are obvious but at least she will know you know. Otherwise nobody is an angel, don't put all your trust in a human being. Always entertain the thought that anything is possible so when shit happens you can handle it.
 
#12
Ahem! Wangwana wale mumeoa hebu kujeni kidogo mlete mawaidha hapa. I'm married to this woman who's been wonderful for the six years we've been an item. Trust has been excellent! She has all my pin numbers, i have hers. Has all my passwords( except ya hii kijiji), i have hers. Joint bank a/c too. I happened to know her Ex though we've never met physically. She knows this since she begged me in the beginning not to be like him. Fisi kama Uwes. We've been having no qualms as far as phone messages are concerned. Everyone has been careful i guess.

So juzi sato nimeland home and found everyone asleep. Comp ya hao ilikua inadownload movies overnight as usual. Kuingia browser nikapata tabs kadhaa open, most of which were MKZ. Yeye bado yuko huko. I scanned the pages with no particular interest and coincidentally she got a message in her messanger. Kuona hivi ni huyo mlevi. He was asking how her family was doing. So i took interest and scanned all the messages in her chat. They were far apart. One was in Jan, another April. The two were initiated by the guy and she replied with very short answers. But of particular interest was that of Aug. 9/8 to be precise. Mama watoto initiated this. The chat went on for two days. The guy asking to be provided with a shoulder to cry on since he had lost in Kericho parliamentary race. The nerve!! I didnt even know the guy contested. Bibi akamshow asijali ati dunia ni hivo. I was struck by a thunderbolt. Jina 'Kunguru' malingering somewhere in my mind. Turns out the guy is a rela to moneyed Charles Keter. Upto now i cant even work properly. Wangwana do i confront her ama i just let it pass? @Budspenceress akinimess sijui kama nitawai recover. Of the married men here do you happen to know exes wa mama watoi? Is this normal? View attachment 125411
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#14
Curiosity killed the cat and/or what you don't know won't kill you...

Hapa leave subtle hints that you know and see how she will confess or not... You will know more by her reaction to your hints. Patience pia is a virtue
Wasnt curiosity. Ni ile tu unapita ukifunga tabs unaona pop up. Looking closely, unapigwa na butwaa. Any man akiona hio will proceed to check the message
 
#16
Let her know you saw the chat and you are not comfortable she initiated it. Ask her if there is anything you should be worried about. The answers you will get are obvious but at least she will know you know. Otherwise nobody is an angel, don't put all your trust in a human being. Always entertain the thought that anything is possible so when shit happens you can handle it.
Doable. Wacha niende na hii yako Omwami
 

gashwin

Village Chief
#19
Hapa leave subtle hints that you know and see how she will confess or not...
i don't agree with you here. subtle hints will only increase the distance heightening mistrust and making the parties vulnerable to external exploitation. @Budspencer look for an opportune time and tell your wife of your find - and how you found it - and express your discomfort with it. if there's more to it she will attempt to deny, deflect (such as bringing up your past infractions)....if she agrees that there has been communication let her know that you don't think it is fine - hoping she will agree with you.
 

Scorp

Village Elder
#20
The very fact that she entertained chats from that ninja tells alot.Ideally,for a wife hizi vitu anafaa kuwacha akishaolewa na kupata familia.

Najua she means a lot to you but you'd not want to guess what would happen during an interaction with the guy,ataanza kumshika mabega..kidogo vidole ndo izo kwa nywele..mkono ingine imeanza kuhead kwa matiti alafu wife aanze kupata nostalgia and you know what happens next.

Kama ndume kwa hiyo nyumba make sure their interactions come to an end,na ikibidi wekelea bibi slaps mbili moto ndio afunguke akili
 

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