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RURACIO(DOWRY CEREMONY)

Lola-

Village Elder
#1
So a male friend invites me for his uthoni via a text. I'm just wondering...isn't dowry a men's affair? I mean we are not related and I don't even know the girl. So ananiita nikafanye nini? WTF!

Is it normal for men to invite their female friends to their dowry ceremony?
 
#12
Mi kwanza hii ujinga ya ruracio sipendi. It's like telling your friends to help you "purchase" a wife. Then unajam beshte yako akiomba bibi yako slices. He actually has "shares" in that marriage. Personally I invest only where am guaranteed a return.
Hapo umenoa. Hio chakuka utakula na soda lazima ulipie! Hana haja na pesa zako
 

epoch

Village Elder
#14
Si umpe excuse huwezi make. It is better uambiwe instead of being left out - maybe in other events - then unacomplain ati haukuambiwa. I suggest if you have time, pass by. Your appearance may go a long way. Just imagine kwa ceremony MC anasema ati friends wa Lola wasimame, then few-to-none wanasimama.....
I try as it is humanly possible to attend events I'm invited to.........kuna zingine nimejipata as the only friend who attended - and it meant a lot.
 

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