Sexually Liberated Women

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#1
So there's a series called Gigolos about male escorts whose clients are women. It's a reality show. The men are not anything to write home about but it is a true culture shock to see role reversal and quite a few of these women procuring these services are married, sometimes it's the couple procuring the services.

Either way I hear feministas are all about sexual liberation or what they call sex positive ofcourse feministas are not homogeneous so kuna mute go wa sex positive, prochoice, pro sex work and the opposite too.

Now, assuming that sex positive or sexual liberation is emulating male sexuality which is just chaotic and has run amok, how does this empower a woman exactly? To my mind having penis addictions the same way men have pu**y addiction isn't being liberated its being enslaved because if you look at men especially on here, these people are not liberated by any stretch of the imagination. They are enslaved to sex like an addict is addicted to drugs, they will do anything to get the drugs, they will risk their life and to hell with their dignity, if they are in jail and the urge hits, they will have sex with a man.


I have never understood why women want to emulate the worst parts of men such as their sexuality. Why not emulate positive attributes and shun the bad side? Anyway, frankly I don't know where the world is heading and now women who were the level headed ones in matters sexuality are now like if you can't beat them join them.

The society is too hypersexualised and girls lose their innocence very early nowadays. I don't know how being sexually objectified or being reduced to a sex object is liberation. I really don't. Risking pregnancy, aboution diseases, taking harmful family planning that is giving women cancer, in which world is that liberation?

To me liberation is the power to chose. To chose to avoid what is not good for you, short term gratification at the risk of your health and your life. Peace of mind. No worries that your boyfriend will give you a disease because you don't have one. Not being compelled to dish out sex when you don't want to because it is a conjugal right. You are not a sex vending machine. And often even in marriage that's what women become sex dispensers. You can not control your own body and sexuality, it is all at the mercy of a man. Liberation is having the autonomy and agency as regards your body and sexuality. You are not a sex slave. Not for love, not for money.

I heard a story one day of a woman whose husband is a pastor, the lady who was a young mom of twins had she got home late from work. So tired she couldn't even eat. Her husband was counseling with some of his members at that late hour. When he was done, he went to the bedroom and found her sleeping in her work clothes, she was so exhausted that she couldn't even change. He changed her and then tried to ask her for sex. IMAGINE. A woman who was too tired to eat, shower or change into her nightwear.

To me, the life I live is the true definition of sexual liberation. I have complete autonomy and ownership of my body and my sexuality. I have zero risk of catching disease of the reproductive organs. If I miss my period or it's late I won't be having sleepless nights agonizing if I am pregnant and will the man take responsibility or should I procure a termination for it.

WOMEN have alot of dignity and the world is nothing with out us. Even James Brown said it, it may well be a man's world but it would be nothing without a woman in it. Let's avoid toxic lifestyles in the name of liberation. There's no liberation there. It will mess up your emotions, your hormones, your health and your peace of mind. Is it worth it? I don't think so. Don't fall for Okey doke. You have your own life to live not doing what is wrong because its what everyone is doing. If everyone jumped off the golden gate Bridge would you do it too? Remember that at the end of the day, you are an individual and even God will judge you as an individual. Do what is right for YOU based on your values. Do not be trying to prove anything to people. They do not feed you so live your liberated life and chuck out of the matrix of deception.
 

Exodus

Village Elder
#3
So there's a series called Gigolos about male escorts whose clients are women. It's a reality show. The men are not anything to write home about but it is a true culture shock to see role reversal and quite a few of these women procuring these services are married, sometimes it's the couple procuring the services.

Either way I hear feministas are all about sexual liberation or what they call sex positive ofcourse feministas are not homogeneous so kuna mute go wa sex positive, prochoice, pro sex work and the opposite too.

Now, assuming that sex positive or sexual liberation is emulating male sexuality which is just chaotic and has run amok, how does this empower a woman exactly? To my mind having penis addictions the same way men have pu**y addiction isn't being liberated its being enslaved because if you look at men especially on here, these people are not liberated by any stretch of the imagination. They are enslaved to sex like an addict is addicted to drugs, they will do anything to get the drugs, they will risk their life and to hell with their dignity, if they are in jail and the urge hits, they will have sex with a man.


I have never understood why women want to emulate the worst parts of men such as their sexuality. Why not emulate positive attributes and shun the bad side? Anyway, frankly I don't know where the world is heading and now women who were the level headed ones in matters sexuality are now like if you can't beat them join them.

The society is too hypersexualised and girls lose their innocence very early nowadays. I don't know how being sexually objectified or being reduced to a sex object is liberation. I really don't. Risking pregnancy, aboution diseases, taking harmful family planning that is giving women cancer, in which world is that liberation?

To me liberation is the power to chose. To chose to avoid what is not good for you, short term gratification at the risk of your health and your life. Peace of mind. No worries that your boyfriend will give you a disease because you don't have one. Not being compelled to dish out sex when you don't want to because it is a conjugal right. You are not a sex vending machine. And often even in marriage that's what women become sex dispensers. You can not control your own body and sexuality, it is all at the mercy of a man. Liberation is having the autonomy and agency as regards your body and sexuality. You are not a sex slave. Not for love, not for money.

I heard a story one day of a woman whose husband is a pastor, the lady who was a young mom of twins had she got home late from work. So tired she couldn't even eat. Her husband was counseling with some of his members at that late hour. When he was done, he went to the bedroom and found her sleeping in her work clothes, she was so exhausted that she couldn't even change. He changed her and then tried to ask her for sex. IMAGINE. A woman who was too tired to eat, shower or change into her nightwear.

To me, the life I live is the true definition of sexual liberation. I have complete autonomy and ownership of my body and my sexuality. I have zero risk of catching disease of the reproductive organs. If I miss my period or it's late I won't be having sleepless nights agonizing if I am pregnant and will the man take responsibility or should I procure a termination for it.

WOMEN have alot of dignity and the world is nothing with out us. Even James Brown said it, it may well be a man's world but it would be nothing without a woman in it. Let's avoid toxic lifestyles in the name of liberation. There's no liberation there. It will mess up your emotions, your hormones, your health and your peace of mind. Is it worth it? I don't think so. Don't fall for Okey doke. You have your own life to live not doing what is wrong because its what everyone is doing. If everyone jumped off the golden gate Bridge would you do it too? Remember that at the end of the day, you are an individual and even God will judge you as an individual. Do what is right for YOU based on your values. Do not be trying to prove anything to people. They do not feed you so live your liberated life and chuck out of the matrix of deception.
Sex is a biological right. It is literally hard wired in us to mate. Ing animals, if they don't get willing partners, they rape. Otherwise, how to we pass the genes as humans and ensure our survival as humans? The body produces hormones that make us want to f**k because ultimately, it's about us ensuring we survive this absolutely ruthless and competitive world.
 

Mzichi

Village Elder
#4
So there's a series called Gigolos about male escorts whose clients are women. It's a reality show. The men are not anything to write home about but it is a true culture shock to see role reversal and quite a few of these women procuring these services are married, sometimes it's the couple procuring the services.

Either way I hear feministas are all about sexual liberation or what they call sex positive ofcourse feministas are not homogeneous so kuna mute go wa sex positive, prochoice, pro sex work and the opposite too.

Now, assuming that sex positive or sexual liberation is emulating male sexuality which is just chaotic and has run amok, how does this empower a woman exactly? To my mind having penis addictions the same way men have pu**y addiction isn't being liberated its being enslaved because if you look at men especially on here, these people are not liberated by any stretch of the imagination. They are enslaved to sex like an addict is addicted to drugs, they will do anything to get the drugs, they will risk their life and to hell with their dignity, if they are in jail and the urge hits, they will have sex with a man.


I have never understood why women want to emulate the worst parts of men such as their sexuality. Why not emulate positive attributes and shun the bad side? Anyway, frankly I don't know where the world is heading and now women who were the level headed ones in matters sexuality are now like if you can't beat them join them.

The society is too hypersexualised and girls lose their innocence very early nowadays. I don't know how being sexually objectified or being reduced to a sex object is liberation. I really don't. Risking pregnancy, aboution diseases, taking harmful family planning that is giving women cancer, in which world is that liberation?

To me liberation is the power to chose. To chose to avoid what is not good for you, short term gratification at the risk of your health and your life. Peace of mind. No worries that your boyfriend will give you a disease because you don't have one. Not being compelled to dish out sex when you don't want to because it is a conjugal right. You are not a sex vending machine. And often even in marriage that's what women become sex dispensers. You can not control your own body and sexuality, it is all at the mercy of a man. Liberation is having the autonomy and agency as regards your body and sexuality. You are not a sex slave. Not for love, not for money.

I heard a story one day of a woman whose husband is a pastor, the lady who was a young mom of twins had she got home late from work. So tired she couldn't even eat. Her husband was counseling with some of his members at that late hour. When he was done, he went to the bedroom and found her sleeping in her work clothes, she was so exhausted that she couldn't even change. He changed her and then tried to ask her for sex. IMAGINE. A woman who was too tired to eat, shower or change into her nightwear.

To me, the life I live is the true definition of sexual liberation. I have complete autonomy and ownership of my body and my sexuality. I have zero risk of catching disease of the reproductive organs. If I miss my period or it's late I won't be having sleepless nights agonizing if I am pregnant and will the man take responsibility or should I procure a termination for it.

WOMEN have alot of dignity and the world is nothing with out us. Even James Brown said it, it may well be a man's world but it would be nothing without a woman in it. Let's avoid toxic lifestyles in the name of liberation. There's no liberation there. It will mess up your emotions, your hormones, your health and your peace of mind. Is it worth it? I don't think so. Don't fall for Okey doke. You have your own life to live not doing what is wrong because its what everyone is doing. If everyone jumped off the golden gate Bridge would you do it too? Remember that at the end of the day, you are an individual and even God will judge you as an individual. Do what is right for YOU based on your values. Do not be trying to prove anything to people. They do not feed you so live your liberated life and chuck out of the matrix of deception.
The idea of casual sex has always baffled me because there's nothing casual about sex.
 

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#6
Sex is a biological right. It is literally hard wired in us to mate. Ing animals, if they don't get willing partners, they rape. Otherwise, how to we pass the genes as humans and ensure our survival as humans? The body produces hormones that make us want to f**k because ultimately, it's about us ensuring we survive this absolutely ruthless and competitive world.
Which animal is this that rapes? What I see is wooing. The male animal has aggression towards other males not females, it's only human males who have aggression towards human females. In the animal kingdom the male is the beautiful one like peacock, even lion has a mane and they use their physical beauty, fighting off other males and smell and sounds to woo the female. It's only some females who kill the male after they mate.

Further to that humans are an advanced species, we can not behave like animals. We need to reign in sex now because it's getting out of hand, slowly we have already started being programmed to see children as adults who are capable of consent to sexual acts. Have you perused kids cartoons and games, frankly it's content that is adult. How can a cartoon for kids be using cuss words like *** you?

The problem with sex is that the more you push the boundaries, the more perverse it becomes, it moves from homosexuality to open relationships to pedophilia the next thing will be beastility. You wait and see. Society was functioning very well indeed when sex was under wraps and under control. Like a fire in a jiko but now it's an uncontrolled fire that is burning down everything. Have you seen the Jewish model for sexuality? Very conservative. Even sex is limited to certain days based on the woman's cycle and during those days you can't even touch her at all, by the time you get back, the desire is rekindled but misuse and abuse of sex only leads to a disregard for the sacred nature of sex. It now becomes a thoughtless act of gratification like going to the washroom to relieve yourself, as long as you offload you don't care if it's a kanjo toilet or a toilet at the Ritz. Desensitization creeps in and then women no longer excite you bcz you have used and abused them enough they no longer light your fire that's when you see men going to children or to transsexuals bcz they need novel experience to get the same high much like a drug addict requires higher doses of drugs to attain the same high. The same applies for sex, the less you have the more exhilarating it is but if all you need is 300 Bob to get a quickie over your lunch break in a brothel, do you think you will enjoy it as much? Some researchers have even gone as far as say that the reason why men are underperforming compared to previous generations of men is because of the influx and flooding of sex. Free sex. Cheap sex. Back then men were highly motivated because to obtain sex you had to prove yourself as a man academically, financially and in your standing in society. So this thing is ruining alot of things. Men are also being affected by this free sex free for all environment, its killing their drive. It's a book I will get the title and bring it.
 

Simiyu22

Village Chief
#8
This is nothing new. There’s no liberation here. Gigolos have been there since the 40s. Even in Kenya. Sex drive of women is just as high as that of men, if not higher. Like said above, sex is a biological function. It’s a necessity in every person unless their hormones are out of sync or not producing some like oxytocin. Every humans body will crave for it in certain days of the month just like hunger for food, unless they are medically asexual. And they(men and women) will almost always reach out for it, in one form or the other. Sexual addiction is just as prevalent, it’s just that it’s a taboo and women will not openly air their fascinations.

Nothing has changed in sexual behavior in men and women. There were just as many single women in the 60s as is today. The internet just brings it to your eyes with a swipe on your phone. The cat is out of the bag.

Even those cultural limitations (Jews/Muslims) are nothing but just that. The men and women in there do it anyway. They can’t overcome their natural needs. The lady will say you can go through the back, but the front you have to meet her parents first.
 
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TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#10
This is nothing new. There’s no liberation here. Gigolos have been there since the 40s. Even in Kenya. Sex drive of women is just as high as that of men, if not higher. Like said above, sex is a biological function. It’s a necessity in every person unless their hormones are out of sync or not producing some like oxytocin. Every humans body will crave for it in certain days of the month just like hunger for food, unless they are medically asexual. And they(men and women) will almost always reach out for it, in one form or the other. Sexual addiction is just as prevalent, it’s just that it’s a taboo and women will not openly air their fascinations.

Nothing has changed in sexual behavior in men and women. There were just as many single women in the 60s as is today. The internet just brings it to your eyes with a swipe on your phone. The cat is out of the bag.

Even those cultural limitations (Jews/Muslims) are nothing but just that. The men and women in there do it anyway. They can’t overcome their natural needs. The lady will say you can go through the back, but the front you have to meet her parents first.
I don't think that being from Luhyas community you can give an objective opinion on sex related matters for obvious reasons. Your school of thought is in line with your high libido. It's not true however, so many people are abstaining and they are very much OK. None of them has died due to so called dry spells. A society without standards is a society with out a future. The standards set were put there to safeguard society and individuals. SEX IS NOT A NECESSITY. It is a choice like how you can choose to be vegetarian or not. It's only a nessity to people who have high sex drive or using sex as an escape. I don't understand why you would say sex is a necessity when abstention even has improved the overall physical and emotional health of many people. If sex is what you say why are prostitutes so miserable? Using drugs to numb their pain. You know sexuality is a portal to so many aspects of one's being, you can't just have sex randomly bcz its a necessity, you must do it in the right context which is marriage. Outside of that it's very detrimental not just to you but to society at large. Please read Ben Shapiro book Generation Porn 2005 to understand how much sex has evolved since the 60s you speak of. We are currently in a hypersexualised society and it's hurting every one including kids who should have no business with sex.
 

Simiyu22

Village Chief
#15
I don't think that being from Luhyas community you can give an objective opinion on sex related matters for obvious reasons. Your school of thought is in line with your high libido. It's not true however, so many people are abstaining and they are very much OK. None of them has died due to so called dry spells. A society without standards is a society with out a future. The standards set were put there to safeguard society and individuals. SEX IS NOT A NECESSITY. It is a choice like how you can choose to be vegetarian or not. It's only a nessity to people who have high sex drive or using sex as an escape. I don't understand why you would say sex is a necessity when abstention even has improved the overall physical and emotional health of many people. If sex is what you say why are prostitutes so miserable? Using drugs to numb their pain. You know sexuality is a portal to so many aspects of one's being, you can't just have sex randomly bcz its a necessity, you must do it in the right context which is marriage. Outside of that it's very detrimental not just to you but to society at large. Please read Ben Shapiro book Generation Porn 2005 to understand how much sex has evolved since the 60s you speak of. We are currently in a hypersexualised society and it's hurting every one including kids who should have no business with sex.
Libido is controlled by a hormonal pathway and not a culture. Unless you tell me the endochrine system in a Luhya acts different from a Meru, I will believe otherwise.

You can abstain all you want, but there is a biological need coming from a metabolic clock. Its like cutting weight by not eating. It only works in short bursts. Eventually th bodys mechanisms will get you. Unless those mechanisms are flawed. Like an anorexic person mainaining weight by not eating. They can do it. In essence, you cant beat your own hunger. Yeah ideally inside marriage. But conformance to this is very low in those not married. How many wait? 1%, maybe 2.
 

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#16
Libido is controlled by a hormonal pathway and not a culture. Unless you tell me the endochrine system in a Luhya acts different from a Meru, I will believe otherwise.

You can abstain all you want, but there is a biological need coming from a metabolic clock. Its like cutting weight by not eating. It only works in short bursts. Eventually th bodys mechanisms will get you. Unless those mechanisms are flawed. Like an anorexic person mainaining weight by not eating. They can do it. In essence, you cant beat your own hunger. Yeah ideally inside marriage. But conformance to this is very low in those not married. How many wait? 1%, maybe 2.
Libido is a social contract like gender, it is governed by culture. You can take the most promiscuous nymphomaniac to Afghanistan and guess what she will stay abstaining for years. Luhyas culture is hypersexual, nothing to do with the endocrine system. Women have a cycle affecting their libido but because of social Moores some women in say marriage or even prostitution will have sex for money or to avoid displeasing the man of the house. Not when she is ovulating sometimes even when she is menstruating, so basically this oversimplification of yours to try and fit human sexuality into your narrative is actually not factual.

The whole point of sex in marriage is to secure the offspring, it's good for society. Look at black Americans. I don't know how you can compare eating food and having sex. Is sex that important to you? Have you ever fasted for a prolonged period? If you have you'd never compare anorexia to abstention. The tightest meal plan is called OMAD. One meal a day. That's the strictest. How long can a person go without sex? 10 years, 20,30,40,50,60,70 even. I know you are biased but some arguments lack any shred of logic. Matter of fact the more you avoid sex the less you want it but the more you have the more you need. Just like booze. Let us not encourage promiscuity in the name of hormones and whatever. The mind and spirit control everything.
 

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#17
Libido is controlled by a hormonal pathway and not a culture. Unless you tell me the endochrine system in a Luhya acts different from a Meru, I will believe otherwise.

You can abstain all you want, but there is a biological need coming from a metabolic clock. Its like cutting weight by not eating. It only works in short bursts. Eventually th bodys mechanisms will get you. Unless those mechanisms are flawed. Like an anorexic person mainaining weight by not eating. They can do it. In essence, you cant beat your own hunger. Yeah ideally inside marriage. But conformance to this is very low in those not married. How many wait? 1%, maybe 2.
What is a metabolic clock? Is it a circadian clock?

LOL. You can't beat your own hunger? But what hunger mister? You are a sex addict. Seek professional help my fren b4 its too late. Wtf man? You can't beat your own hunger? Niggah puhleeze.
 

Simiyu22

Village Chief
#18
Libido is a social contract like gender, it is governed by culture. You can take the most promiscuous nymphomaniac to Afghanistan and guess what she will stay abstaining for years. Luhyas culture is hypersexual, nothing to do with the endocrine system. Women have a cycle affecting their libido but because of social Moores some women in say marriage or even prostitution will have sex for money or to avoid displeasing the man of the house. Not when she is ovulating sometimes even when she is menstruating, so basically this oversimplification of yours to try and fit human sexuality into your narrative is actually not factual.

The whole point of sex in marriage is to secure the offspring, it's good for society. Look at black Americans. I don't know how you can compare eating food and having sex. Is sex that important to you? Have you ever fasted for a prolonged period? If you have you'd never compare anorexia to abstention. The tightest meal plan is called OMAD. One meal a day. That's the strictest. How long can a person go without sex? 10 years, 20,30,40,50,60,70 even. I know you are biased but some arguments lack any shred of logic. Matter of fact the more you avoid sex the less you want it but the more you have the more you need. Just like booze. Let us not encourage promiscuity in the name of hormones and whatever. The mind and spirit control everything.
You are covering too many topics. And factually agreeing to what I am saying but not accepting. And as for Blacks in America, I left that topic for you. If Luhyas are hypersexual, what are coasterians?
 

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#19
You are covering too many topics. And factually agreeing to what I am saying but not accepting. And as for Blacks in America, I left that topic for you. If Luhyas are hypersexual, what are coasterians?
Never heard Coastarian going for 15 rounds like lunjez. I don't agree with anything you are saying bcz you are insinuating that a human being has no control over their sex drive. That's ludicrous. So if you rape a woman you will blame your hunger that you cant beat.
 

Simiyu22

Village Chief
#20
What is a metabolic clock? Is it a circadian clock?

LOL. You can't beat your own hunger? But what hunger mister? You are a sex addict. Seek professional help my fren b4 its too late. Wtf man? You can't beat your own hunger? Niggah puhleeze.
Not what I am talking about. But ok.
 

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