swali to pinkies...single mums

hcaikp

Village Elder
#4
"damu ni nzito kuliko......." watajuana tuu, na hawezi kataa mama yake, its just life, he will come to know the father and wuld never hate the mum.
 

Masood

Village Elder
#9
@culture the lady is wrong in posting pic ya mtoto. So maybe you can edit using your wisdom.

Second, the child's mental development requires a father figure. The problem is that many ladies try to weaponise children so as to get back at the father. It is very painful for a child not to have or know their father while their fellow children have fathers or father figures.

Some women are so good they just want the kid to see you and know you and may not want anything else from you.

Finally, the lady is not very bright. How can you go to a mganga over your child. Her hate and bitterness are too much. She should just cut off links and move on.
 

WANJIKU

Village Elder
#12
Would you let your child interact with his/her father ata kama alikuruka ukiwa na ball
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Its difficult to deal with some situations and they require a lot of wisdom and maturity. A child does not choose who becomes his or her parent its a God given thing .as such we cannot choose or put conditions in how a child interacts with either parent. This lady does not realize there is a difference in her childs relationship and his dad and the one he had with her. The father can have a relation ship with the child without having one with her(although this takes a lot of will because of dicmatization/pussmitazation).i would totally let them have a relationship.after all my child is the one who will benefit from being with both parents even if we are not together.the lady is using the child to get back at him and she is hurting the child more while at it.
 

Ka-Buda

Village Elder
#16
Its difficult to deal with some situations and they require a lot of wisdom and maturity. A child does not choose who becomes his or her parent its a God given thing .as such we cannot choose or put conditions in how a child interacts with either parent. This lady does not realize there is a difference in her childs relationship and his dad and the one he had with her. The father can have a relation ship with the child without having one with her(although this takes a lot of will because of dicmatization/pussmitazation).i would totally let them have a relationship.after all my child is the one who will benefit from being with both parents even if we are not together.the lady is using the child to get back at him and she is hurting the child more while at it.
If some of my baby-mommas were half as smart as you,I would be a happy man.
 

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