Lately there have been incidences my friends’ relationships and in most cases the dudes have been messing up and getting away with it.
In one case,the guy was patwad red handed kulaing some ho when he thought his woman had traveled… she knocked severally on their apartment door,which was evidently occupied…even tried calling him and heard the phone ring from inside…she gave them 15minutes chance before she chomoad havoc hapo njee ya ploti saying kuna wezi kwa nyumba and that the caretaker should call the police…ninja kuskia hivyo akajisalimisha tu.That weekend we met as mboyz na tukamwish all the best in singlehood.Three weeks later tunaona wako pamoja…ati they’ve “burried the hatchet”…
The other dude naye had a condom burst akiwa mawindoni…na juu ilikuwa usiku,it was agreed with the prey that she would avail herself kesho yake at some clinic wapimwe ndio wajue hali yao.kesho yake chick was a no-show…mjamaa akatupigia ametense…tukapigia dem…akasema ashaenda machaa na haoni akirudi soon but akasema she had been pimwad and she is clean…nikasuggest atume picha ya strip which she obliged after apparently taking another test juu ya kwanza strip was already disposed…But mboyz wetu mmoja huwa nurse wa knh akasema hiyo si proof tosha na kwa hivyo mjamaa ajipeleke macha…kufika macha simu ya dem mteja…mse akakaa for hours kungoja kama simu itafunguliwa lakini wapi.So ule nurse akamshow arudi aanze tu PEP atamuorganizia…The days that followed ilikuwa ngumu sana juu the dude vomits kila usiku na bibi akisema waende hosi anasema waobserve kwanza…kitu ingine tena ni ati bibi akitaka sakamsido mjamaa anasema hayuko in the moods.Bibi akakuwa chivy sana hadi ikabidi aconfess…Eventually ati bibi alimsamehe na akamwambia it was very wise of him to start the PEP medicines…
I know another one who was involved with a mboch and blamed wife for his dryspell and that “a man has got needs”…iligeuka tena bibi ndio anaomba msamaha for “neglecting” him…
I could go on and on and mention more.
Sasa mimi on the other hand,so far kama nacheza mi hucheza safe…rarely make mistakes…But naona ni kama i try hard unnecessarily juu ni kama mwanamke ameumbwa kusamehe na kuvumilia…So niko tempted kuwachilia just ONE blunder…maybe leave a careless trace of my clandestine arrangements nione loyalty ya huyu msichana imefika wapi …and yeah…i know it is stupid
What was it that you did or heard a friend did that seemed unforgivable but still got forgiven
Let me tell you one thing kwa roho safi sana as I would like to think you are my friend here.
There is something missing in your marriage and it is what you need to work on. Remember the receipt? and a few other escapades you have written about that escape me now? then also ask yourself why you are paying sooo much attention to other peoples’ relationships mpaka unajua intimate details…I recall another post where you were asking for opinions on when your friends’ wife should stop breastfeeding…weee bana watch it.
Just try what your friends have done and tell us how you get on. Not all women are forgiving and not all women can entertain childish mind games…most importantly ask yourself why you want to try it!!!
.hehee…hiyo ya risiti nilishasolve swiftly…and about paying attention in other people’s relationships,it is not really intimate details…guys talk…plus story ukiletewa utakataa kuskiza?..and yea…if hillary clinton forgave then i think all women can…and lastly i just said it is just a stupid loyalty test
One of the MAIN reasons why it is unwise to invest in this bullshit called marriage is because, ‘Hell Hath no fury like a woman scorned’
Ile siku mwanamke atakupata offside, which is bound to happen sooner rather than later, she will conveniently forget all the prior sacrifices u have ever made to the union. Atakuweka kwa level ya chokoraa in the streets, utakuwa meffi tu in her eyes even if you are POTUS. Hapo ndio unapata mtu amekuletea mimba kutoka nje ulee like the fool u are.
Mawaidha ya babu na nitakuambia umpe huyo Rafiki yako. mwanamke akikushika na kosa halitasahaulika na pia atakufanya ulipe 4EVA!!!
Watu sio wajinga wakisema deny, deny ,deny hata ukipatikana wazi wazi. kana, kana, kana!
Kibri cha mwanamke ni hatari sana maanake alivyo kupenda ndivyo atakavyokuchukia na twajua chuki ni kitu hatari maanake kuiondoa yahitaji malipo. Ole wewe ulio kwenye hiyo njia ya mwanamke na kibri. lazma utalipa na huwa sio fedha ama maneno, vitendo ndipo atakapokupata na hutaweza kujikokota kutoka hapo kwa sababu utapatikana pabaya.
With those few words I cant wait to hear of the coming hekaya of the wrath of ur pals wife. it will take a few years because women are canniving, they scheme and plan to hit you most when and where he will hurt.
Don’t try. She may forgive, but they never forget… she will revenge when you least expect it. I know because I have eaten people’s wives and you know the common denominator? The husband once cheated or is a cheat too. And what hurts most? You will never catch her; and when she begins, just pray she doesn’t enjoy the game. It is only menopause that will halt her.
