Hello talkers…i am in abit of a quagmire… so im in Diani with the 1st wife and our 2 boys the arrangement was i do Diani with 1st family then do Samburu with 2nd wife from 30th…but 2nd is acting up ati why do you post photos with 1st family but not with me…will my kids play 2nd fiddle…As a 36 year self made man i thought Polygamy was the solution but it seems i had not taken the nature of women into the equation…is monogamy working out for you guys or i just furnish a place at Imara it be my side man cave…
hehe continue wanking quietly in your tiny bedsitter as you dream about first an second wives while you chew on khat
Just tell her atapata chance yake. They are always dissatisfied
For you to marry a second wife means that the first must have acted up somewhat, how you failed to read it beats me
If I will marry I can’t try 2 because from the wisdom here one is enough to make you run mad, 2 means can make you commit suicide
Usiingishe khat kwà makasiriko yako mwenyewe
Tukiwaambia msioe you guys go ahead and do two? When will you ever listen to senior members’ advise
Marry a third wife. You will dilute the effect of having two wives who are envious of each other
Leave alone women feeling jealous, how about the children? Your wives are adults who willingly chose to entangle themselves in such a mess.
You should be worried about the product of those unions who did not choose how they came into the world. Most of their peers come from monogamous unions, do you think they would feel good knowing that their dad is being shared?
Remember, children are bound to feel like that when you post such pictures with your other family on social media. Whether you like it or not.
You created this unstable dyanamic yourself. Yet you are worried about your wives petty jealousies? I didn’t see you getting concerned and putting children nature into question.
So what now? You think being a self made man has to somehow translate to having more wives?
Bonobo logic never ceases to amaze.
For those saying msioe that ideology does not work for me as I need my kids (my legacy) to be raised in a stable environment or who else will continue my legacy… Getting a 2nd made the 1st tow in line so it seemed a good idea back then the problem I see now is having the 2nd tow in line and that becomes another cycle…for now let me focus with 1st family… Happy boxing day talkers!!
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A real African man unabeba familiar zote unapeleka diani. This means you can’t manage your wives. I’d like to tell you of how terribly you’ve failed as a man but I’ll let you see for yourself in a few years
ND now you’ve posted for talkers your real family Pic hujui hapa tuko na CSI /FBI give it a few hours someone will post your actual Pic without those face emojis na mpaka tuambiwe Nani anakula bibi zako.
CSI over to you
Should I or should I not elders?
When you do, please also patent the technology you used. You’ll likely be a birrionea.
Do
A real man takes both families to the same holiday location,leaves whoever wants to sulk to sulk her pettiness in a corner as you enjoy life with the children, they will be enemies for sometime, but after a few hours , they will become friends, and you will enjoy life with a big spoon, sio story ya ohh ohh. Be the MAN
mbona unadivide family yako? mix watoto wote muende holiday pamoja, wamama waspend time pamoja pia
He is setting himself up for failure by segregating one family
He is setting himself up for failure by segregating one family