what do i do with her ???

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Year 2012... while struggling and hustling to support my siblings i decide to take my young and only sister to college to study accounts.. first year i was so impressed with her on seeing that my efforts to educate her weren't going to waste after all.. then second year..boooooommmm... she got paged. I was so mad and upset.. and when i asked her who's responsible, i got a shocker of a lifetime... ametiwa mimba na makanga wa stage... asked her twende akanionyeshe huyo jamaa akanishow haina haja coz theres nothing the fella cud do. He lived in his friends mabati shack. Took the responsibility of raising the kid until she graduates ,get a job and finaly move out to a place of her own...
Guess what.... shes pregnant again by the same same loafer... and this time around its twins...

kwani what magic do these loafers use to bed a well educated woman surely... ? Yaani kuingizwa box na mtu hivi hivi .. hayo maneno yao kwani yana asali kiasi gani ndio dame aingie box faster hivo ? 24yrs with 3kids is there any future surely ?? .. mwenye kutaka mbisha aweke ya dadake kwanza.... IMG-20140801-WA0007-3.jpg


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Those jamaas wana mdomo ingine i dont understand how they wekelea these chics. 5yrs ago,I have a pal who was ingishwad box like that and this was no 24yr old. This is a woman in her 30s, joboing, you could even call her an uptown mama. Some makanga wekelead DF.
i laughed but gave the guy heshima.

anyway, the chic can still manage to have a life even with 3 kids. its going to be hard as hell lakini anaweza toboa if she's serious


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I support ol monk. You probably did the same to someone's daughter/sister. kharma is real, just like the lady's and makanga's thirst.

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Two things,
1. Daddy issues
2. The guy gives her a sense of security and companionship! This sounds cliché but he speaks to her soul! Sometimes that's all you need...
Being the g** you are, you should be thankful she is taking in the manly responsibility of propagating you lineage of blondes .. But seriously why are you letting the guy so easily off the hook? Mi naeza tafuta boy tumkalishe chini baada ya kumfinya makende na nimwambie amepata bibi.. Free hata staki mahari. Then it will be up to me to decide if i will help her, from her place...
And lest we forget, mbicha hata kama ni ya pregnancy ama i vote this as a HOYA NOMINATION


Waah.. Enyewe i feel for you. Sacrificing doo zako kuelimisha mtu badala ya kuwaste kwa quail ama hata kununua nayo ploti ruai. Huyo aliingizwa box atatoka when finally kila mtu atamkataa ndio ajue ni kubaya
@ol monk ... na @aviator.... am in no mood for insults.. so i'll just ignore you two.... this is my young sister am talking about.. sacrifices i made... loans i took to educate her... it realy pains . Been taking care of her kid as my own... i had plans for her to go overseas to further her studies... wanted
the best for her...


Village Elder
As much as you might not want to accept, your sister has already made up her mind and taken principal steps towards starting and raising her family. Accept that and respect her decision. Have you considered the fact that she might be happy with her broke jamaa? Probably she's using a different yardstick in her measure of success.
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