A thread on marriage: so many discouraging comments

[Mimi_Huwa_Namwaga_Nd]

@GREY2020

precisely 43 come april- InshaaAllah ( God Willing).

So u got married at 21? Well, that explains a lot then

[ChifuMbitika]

@GREY2020

precisely 43 come april- InshaaAllah ( God Willing).

Wewe ni my agemate basi. I am 44

[GREY2020]

@ChifuMbitika

Wewe ni my agemate basi. I am 44

2ko pamoja kwa uzee mzee mwenzangu tushakula chumzi sanaaaaa, halafu hapa vijana naona wakipiga makelele na masimbitii zao, nawahurumiaa.

[mzitomimi]

Marriage is for those who are “ready” we need to clarify the meaning of “ready”

[GREY2020]

@GREY2020

2ko pamoja kwa uzee mzee mwenzangu tushakula chumzi sanaaaaa, halafu hapa vijana naona wakipiga makelele na masimbitii zao, nawahurumiaa.

chumviii sio chumzii, apologies 4 that.

[ChifuMbitika]

@GREY2020

2ko pamoja kwa uzee mzee mwenzangu tushakula chumzi sanaaaaa, halafu hapa vijana naona wakipiga makelele na masimbitii zao, nawahurumiaa.

Let’s keep on praying for them to see better days ahead

[ngomi]

Naona tunachezea ligi moja tho 2yrs older… ni kutulia tu sai lookin at all the dramas everyday

[ChifuMbitika]

@ngomi

Naona tunachezea ligi moja tho 2yrs older… ni kutulia tu sai lookin at all the dramas everyday

True

[Ngimanene_na_matharo]

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Watu wapendane, we are all flawed.

[ChifuMbitika]

@Ngimanene na matharo

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Watu wapendane, we are all flawed.

Cooper is the real deal

[gosh]

Marriage works and happy marriages exist. If you grew up in a violent home with no love, then you are bound to think every home is the same. Yet marriages are thriving out here, in silence. I know a number of couples who are happy in their marriages. Of course I do not know every single detail about them but some things cannot be hidden. The issues that may be bothering them are so little as compared to the so many things that they are doing right. It’s such couples that give me hope that if two partners were meant to be and are determined, they can go far.

[Thirimaii]

@Muthafari

Bad news travels faster, so bad marriages and domestic problems will always dominate headlines rather than people who have good and happy marriages.

A single person living in apartment block where he can hear the neighbors wife akichapwa kama burukenge can develop a completely pessimistic view of marriage from that single event.

Should we blame him or her for generalizing that marriage is a shitty deal? Of course not.

From a risk analysis perspective, it’s the most rational attitude every thinking human being should have, when scary stories about marriage dominate the news cycle. Nobody has time for statistics when self preservation and human happiness is at stake.

Thanks for encouraging red pilled talkers

[RV_Pundit]

@Muthafari

[COLOR=rgb(247, 218, 100)]Bad news travels faster, so bad marriages and domestic problems will always dominate headlines rather than people who have good and happy marriages.

A single person living in apartment block where he can hear the neighbors wife akichapwa kama burukenge can develop a completely pessimistic view of marriage from that single event.

Should we blame him or her for generalizing that marriage is a shitty deal? Of course not.

From a risk analysis perspective, it’s the most rational attitude every thinking human being should have, when scary stories about marriage dominate the news cycle. Nobody has time for statistics when self preservation and human happiness is at stake.

Exactly !!!
E.g there are 1000s of Kenyans working happily and doing very well in the middle east but ever once in a while there is news of bad things happening to 2 or 3 of them.
That has lead the foolish masses to believe that all those Kenyans in ME are suffering.

[Obaba]

The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a good wife

[sani]

maisha ya ndoa ni maisha tamu.

[fisi_fc]

Men die before their wives and its not even close. I wonder why

[Obaba]

Binadamu wamekuwa wakioana tangu zamani,nowadays men marry women they have met from clubs and social media and when the marriage fail they blame the institution of marriage

[Jura]

@GREY2020

precisely 43 come april- InshaaAllah ( God Willing).

Wewe mdogo

[Jura]

@ChifuMbitika

Wewe ni my agemate basi. I am 44

Chief, I know you, how did you manage to accumulate what you have at only 44yrs?am not judging but I can’t understand

[mishale]

@Obaba

Binadamu wamekuwa wakioana tangu zamani,nowadays men marry women they have met from clubs and social media and when the marriage fail they blame the institution of marriage

but didnt the older generations

@kukuru kakara

Patanisho is a scripted show. Get that through your skull. Any such segments on radio are scripted to bring in more listeners, hence, advertising revenue.
Hata wale wa “nimeshinda”. The whole ruckus is rigged man.
Get off that bandwagon ya kuwaste time.

isn’t everything/most things in the world scripted/rigged?

i say, enjoy what makes you happy, be it Maina, Giddy, Jalas, Mbusi, Movies, Politics, Religion, Society…
but don’t put all your trust/faith/emotions… blindly into them