Advice needed

[Voltron]

@Nattydread

What kasaman is saying is that you spoiled your cousin by playing provider and giving her the impression that you were an ATM without a pincode. Where do you think that husband got the means to become an alcoholic?

I have made a decision not to help with even a single cent. She will either have to ask her husband to step up, or leave him if he cant be responsible.

[Dan_Otty]

You are dealing with a bottomless pit… Just be sure you also dont drop into the same pit…

[Acoustic]

Instead of opening that business on her behalf rather you had used that money to pay schoolfees directly. There are people you cannot teach how to fish, you just have to provide the fish.

[D_Mungai]

@Okwonkwo

To stop someone from borrowing you money,anza kumuomba yeye pesa. Lament how you are in distress and your job ain’t doing well. If you are employed, mwambie hata hujalipwa since December

Real kenyan… :D:D:D

[Baby_Panay]

Jiondoe pole pole.

[AMB_Sunday]

Get tough
I suggest that you kaa ngumu until she ditches the deadbeat dad juu asipomtoka she is forever screwed

[Fr_Lingwangwa]

you got yourself in the mix
you need clear exit strategy that will secure your legacy in the family, meanwhile continue with the guardian roles

[Str8up]

@john_doe

Kwani biz ilienda aje?

Ilikunywa maji

[Koolibah]

@Voltron

Ni kama walikula yote ikaisha. Last time I checked the shop was almost empty. There was no stock and no money to show for it. I think she shoulders all the financial responsibilities of the family as the husband blows all his cash on alcohol.

This is no reason. She is irresponsible and hidong behind the changaa hussy. How do singo mathas doing the same business survive? As long as the man is drinking hsing his own cash where does the business retunrs go to? Ingisha mtoi form one na uzime simu

[Koolibah]

@gashwin

mwambie you are ready to assist her one final time but lazima awe tayari kufunga mizigo ahamie tarakea where the deadbeat husband will not find her. kama ni muti atapata ingine mbele…

Atoroke mzae ahaishwo nû? Believe you me despite how she describes the man, he is still important in keeping her grounded. Shida ni huyo mama, she cant manage finances.

[Koolibah]

@Voltron

This is not an arrangement. She simply started borrowing money when I started earning…since she was desperate and I knew it I assisted where I could. Because she is a relative and we grew up together, I view her like a sister and I decided to open a business for her so that she can get an income. Unfortunately, it is as if she is the breadwinner in that family because the husband doesnt really care about them.

This is not an issue unless the hussy forcefully takes money from her. A drunkard is low maintenance just one meal a day. Shida ni huyo mama. Singo matha anauza nyanya na anasomesha. Mwambie akauze chapo umoja

[Simiyu22]

Good luck in making sense to a changaa addict.

[123tokambio]

@Nattydread

I’d suggest that you pay fees directly to the school for your niece, and also equip her for the term. Under no circumstances should you provide CASH or convertible assets to your cousin and her deadbeat man.

Word!

Hebu sikiza mzee Ojwang hatari @Nattydread Right now it may look like its the best decision you’ll ever make, but if that child is denied basic education and she ends up living a miserable life, believe you me, that will come to haunt you, saa hii utasema ooh ‘never ever, i’m done’ but, you need to consider that child more than anything else, lipia yeye first term plus all the necessary requirement, then ujitoe, and keep off; hopefully wajipange na the rest. But i would say this, just pay the damn fees if you can, don’t give your cousin not a single dime! But don’t put your niece in that awful mix. That child will appreciate you more than anyone else. tenda wema nenda zako…

[Nattydread]

@123tokambio

Word!

Hebu sikiza mzee Ojwang hatari @Nattydread Right now it may look like its the best decision you’ll ever make, but if that child is denied basic education and she ends up living a miserable life, believe you me, that will come to haunt you, saa hii utasema ooh ‘never ever, i’m done’ but, you need to consider that child more than anything else, lipia yeye first term plus all the necessary requirement, then ujitoe, and keep off; hopefully wajipange na the rest. But i would say this, just pay the damn fees if you can, don’t give your cousin not a single dime! But don’t put your niece in that awful mix. That child will appreciate you more than anyone else. tenda wema nenda zako…

Ahsande Mkubwa @123tokambio.

[Ice_Cube]

peleka mtoto public day school sababu the way I see it, soon atatumwa kwako na result slip na admission letter with pitiful eyes one morning na huwezi mfukuza…

[x-trail]

We saidia lipa fees alafu utafte MTU mwingine to operate the shop faida irudi kwako

[system]

@LeoK

I think the chap is politely asking if the kids are yours.

@Voltron

The kids are definitely not mine…she is my blood cousin for Christ’s sake…how can the kids be mine??

Hehehe.

[system]

@kamnjoro

Hehehe.

@aviator,unacheka nini shemale?

[jmungai]

@kasaman

You did pay all along…Why not in secondary school ?

he he he… a honest and on pint response… You stated it, just finish it

[system]

@wetu

@aviator,unacheka nini shemale?

Sasa nimekua Aviator tena? Isorait.

lakini nacheka vile huyo jamaa amekataa hio mashtaka. A classic definition of “vehemently”.