Double standard for women

[system]

@Ingia

Its just the sexual urge. Most women cant keep up with it. And women just start offering sex while sometimes complaining or half asleep after mmezoeana. once a woman starts giving it to you casually as she does give her baby titties the man is put off and goes looking somewhere else. It is for the same reason men will hide from their wives and jerk off when the woman starts getting pricky when he wants sex. Once a man starts jerking off in your presence, he will jump on the next train he finds.

Mipango ya kando and chips funga are expensive and costly in terms of time and family relationships and nobody really thinks that they are ideal or gives a hoot about them. However, when mpango starts showing affection more than the wife, he starts negleting the wife and possibly the family. Women imagine their men to be some sort of hercules, but the reality is that they are just as fragile as the fairer gender. Only that men are more rational.

Some women might have reduced sex urge but its not something thats intentional especially for mothers. Sex is not rational for women in stable relationships, its an emotional affair and if they aren’t feeling emotionally connected to their partners there is no way they’d be happy about sex, it becomes a chore. At one point they are juggling a lot and we all know most men are allergic to helping with chores around the house. It is unrealistic for a man to expect a woman who gets to bed at midnight after a string of chores to get it on.

[jameson]

@gashwin

from experience? what you see is post coital depression, triggered by a drop in dopamine after the good feeling of the act…

Not exactly, it depends on who you do the act with, i don’t think a groom feels depressed after ejaculating inside his new wife on their honeymoon, that’s the perfect time to enjoy and is legal by all terms, so why would such a guy feel guilt and depression.?

[Mwenyewe]

@Ka-Buda

I agree with you as far as the disgust and guilt any man feels immediately after ejaculating. But like you say,this only applies with “easy lays”

these feelings u r describing only indicate someone fcuking a chic half-heartedly, do it whole-heartedly (hata kama ni easy lay) then come and repeat these words here…

[dingoo_wa_ingoo]

@Ladyette

Me thinks if men were to be honest they don’t like sleeping around, its an ego thing, trying to compesate for an inner deficiency. AND if they were to be REALLY honest I bet as soon as they ejaculate they are disgusted by themselves as much as they are disgusted by the prostitute they’ve just dicked or any other easy lay aka any woman they don’t care for. . . .

Namba wan, you are not a man. You have never had the inexplicable swelling on your crotch at the sight of a big, thick round booty…and them titties.

It’s not the ego that swells. I can tell you that.

[kijanamrefu]

@Ladyette

Some women might have reduced sex urge but its not something thats intentional especially for mothers. Sex is not rational for women in stable relationships, its an emotional affair and if they aren’t feeling emotionally connected to their partners there is no way they’d be happy about sex, it becomes a chore. At one point they are juggling a lot and we all know most men are allergic to helping with chores around the house. It is unrealistic for a man to expect a woman who gets to bed at midnight after a string of chores to get it on.

So many generalisations in this comment, wah. Afadhali to unarrate your relationship here.

[Diffre]

@Ingia

Its just the sexual urge. Most women cant keep up with it. And women just start offering sex while sometimes complaining or half asleep after mmezoeana. once a woman starts giving it to you casually as she does give her baby titties the man is put off and goes looking somewhere else. It is for the same reason men will hide from their wives and jerk off when the woman starts getting pricky when he wants sex. Once a man starts jerking off in your presence, he will jump on the next train he finds.

Mipango ya kando and chips funga are expensive and costly in terms of time and family relationships and nobody really thinks that they are ideal or gives a hoot about them. However, when mpango starts showing affection more than the wife, he starts negleting the wife and possibly the family. Women imagine their men to be some sort of hercules, but the reality is that they are just as fragile as the fairer gender. Only that men are more rational.

Well put,wen ya man starts seeing a mpango,u better elavate ya game,it’s not him it’s you

[system]

@dingoo_wa_ingoo

Namba wan, you are not a man. You have never had the inexplicable swelling on your crotch at the sight of a big, thick round booty…and them titties.

It’s not the ego that swells. I can tell you that.

Right swollen balls diminish mental capacity. Once they deflate??

[Diffre]

@ol monk

Si wanaume mna shida.

meaning?kwani wewe ni shemale??

[system]

@Mwenyewe

these feelings u r describing only indicate someone fcuking a chic half-heartedly, do it whole-heartedly (hata kama ni easy lay) then come and repeat these words here…

How is it possible to do it whole heartedly especially with a lady in business?Yet subconsciously unajua unaeza kuwa namba 1, 5, 10 or 100th for the day?

[Ingia]

@Ladyette

Right swollen balls diminish mental capacity. Once they deflate??

A man can never make better decisions than he does when his balls are properly emptied.

[Mwenyewe]

@Ladyette

How is it possible to do it whole heartedly especially with a lady in business?

coz am also in the biz of quenching my desires

[Diffre]

@Ingia

A man can never make better decisions than he does when his balls are properly emptied.

Very true…no wonder u find men who are on dry spell emotionally unstable

[Ka-Buda]

@Ladyette

You agree with me? How odd?

Kwani unakuanga umenibeba vibaya aje?
Anyway,@Ladyette ,quick question for you; Swallow or Spit?

[system]

@Ka-Buda

Kwani unakuanga umenibeba vibaya aje?
Anyway,@Ladyette ,quick question for you; Swallow or Spit?

Hahaha now look how far we have retrogressed. But if you must know I use my mouth to eat. Edible stuff only.

[system]

@Ingia

A man can never make better decisions than he does when his balls are properly emptied.

Thats why I said I think men feel disgusted after because if it weren’t for the bursting balls a rational man wouldn’t go to the lows of getting it in dingy places. . . I could be wrong though.

[system]

@Mwenyewe

coz am also in the biz of quenching my desires

Aiiee who would have thunk!

[black_mzungu]

@Mwenyewe

I sense someone is about to marry a prostitute

No man wants a woman whose history can be traced and thrown in his face. To commit to a girl from your neighborhood means that someone from that neighborhood fucked. To commit to a girl at your college, means that someone from that school fucked. If you start a new job, and Lucy the receptionist is giving you time, you’re excited… then you realize that Justin in accounting probably fucked her when he started and that your boss probably got the head at the Christmas Party.

[Ka-Buda]

@Ladyette

Hahaha now look how far we have retrogressed. But if you must know I use my mouth to eat. Edible stuff only.

I like the way you have taken my “untoward” question with humor unlike some other feminists who would have been offended.Good for you @Ladyette !

[Ingia]

@Diffre

Very true…no wonder u find men who are on dry spell emotionally unstable

I am also very irrational during dry spell. i go to a bar drink a little, look at women, decide they are not worth it, move on to another brothel, an so on. i end up calling up some woman I had banished and she is back fuckin up my life next morning.

[mundu_mulosi]

@Ladyette @Ka-Buda amekumulika, the tango continues.