How are You? I need free help

[system]

If ever there was or is anything like an introvert’s bible, it has to be The Introvert Advantage by Marti Olssen Laney. Grab yourself a copy and read it.

I’m probably the most introverted of fellows you ever met, but I don’t wear that chip in my shoulder. I simply get out there and get the job done.

Oh, and yes I hate small talk, have very poor memory of people’s names and have a passionate loathing for meetings; in fact if any meeting lady’s more than 45-60mins I’m done.

Anyway, take one step at a time. Show up there and get the job done.

[entertainedd]

@BlackjackKE

Needless to say, I’m new here. Well, I’ve familiarized myself a bit with what you do here. I see fun, hatred, insults, and some rare bits of love. Definitely, you’ll find the most abusive seat and one of you will master up to post it here first. First, whoever is planning to do that, you’re welcome and thanks a bunch in advance.

Anyway, for those who’re seriously willing to help, I’ll appreciate. For almost a year, I’ve been working in insurance. Good. Problem is I’m required to start working as a senior team member coming Monday. I didn’t have problems with the previous status as it allowed me to work alone in my own space.
I am an introvert, but extroverted to some extent. I love being around people but I can’t stand some things people like talking about. I’m not able to have conversations about temperature and the like. I can’t stand small talks. I still love being alone and I’m most productive when working alone. And I love that I’m an introvert (extroverted one).
Now, I can’t change. From Monday, I’m expected to work and hold discussions with people from morning to evening. Believe me, I can’t. I’m sure there are some introverts who can relate to my situation. This coming Monday is the most frightening Monday I’ll ever have. Should I just turn down the offer and propose that I remain in my previous post or will I make it alive this coming week? Is there any medication that changes one from being an introvert to an extro immediately? I’m not so sure if I want that. Is there any other introvert who has successfully conquered such moments?

Uyo jamaaa wa kiti ako wapi?Nimechoka kusimama[ATTACH=full]35911[/ATTACH]

Feel you bro

[entertainedd]

@Deorro

Boss introvert is just an excuse nashuku kuna a bigger problem hutuambii…
Hata @Luther12 ni intro na ni daktari. He needs to talk to the patients to do proper diagnosis n also advise em. Talk to him how he manages to do that

Objective conversations with patients is not the same thing as small talk just to pass time and feel flattered

[kush_yule_mnono]

@BlackjackKE

For almost a year, I’ve been working in insurance. Good. Problem is I’m required to start working as a senior team member coming Monday.

@Afro did you really have to come up with a new handle to ask this question?

[BlackjackKE]

@Ka-Buda

Feel at Home and welcome.
I am the Head of this Psychiatric Asylum that is KTalk and everyone you meet here has Mental Health Issues.
You will never walk alone and please confide in me if you run into any bother.

Just avoid @Web Dev and @Nefertities … They should be in Straight jackets if you ask me!.. kikikikiii…

Sounds like a decent welcome…I appreciate

@Deorro

Mboss when it comes to work you have to talk to people. Work can’t get done in silence. Si lazima you talk about weather n other isht just talk about work n when done nenda zako. I know of a lawyer ni introvert na kwa court lazima aongee she doesn’t let that make her keep mum ama kwa board meetings when she was a company secretary. Don’t let an opportunity pass just because wewe ni intro.

I’ve often been discouraged before that I can’t be a salesperson because I’m not aggressive. I don’t even find the sense to negotiate, whether buying sth or selling. Either we are in or out. Thanks @Deorro but I’ve tried to not keep mum, trust me, it never ends well esp when my mind reminds me that I’m just an impostor at that specific time.

[BlackjackKE]

@denis young

Personally I would also label myself an introvert seeing that i despise small talk. My brain gets tired very fast when i am around several people.
How do i deal with this? I set goals for myself. Interacting with those people is just a stepping stone towards achieving your goal. Allow your brain to adjust to that reality and get a girl you can confide in sort of bff kinda chiq…she is quite outgoing…thats how i cope

I can bet on it you’re an extrovert. I doubt if male introverts have bffs (female), unless they’ve known each other since childhood. For me it’s simple, case is immediately closed if the p****y fails to open. What other business do we have together? I’ve nothing against ladies in my life.

[BlackjackKE]

@Luther12

If ever there was or is anything like an introvert’s bible, it has to be The Introvert Advantage by Marti Olssen Laney. Grab yourself a copy and read it.

I’m probably the most introverted of fellows you ever met, but I don’t wear that chip in my shoulder. I simply get out there and get the job done.

Oh, and yes I hate small talk, have very poor memory of people’s names and have a passionate loathing for meetings; in fact if any meeting lady’s more than 45-60mins I’m done.

Anyway, take one step at a time. Show up there and get the job done.

.pdf or hardcover Doc? The Bible I mean.

[system]

@entertainedd

Objective conversations with patients is not the same thing as small talk just to pass time and feel flattered

Jamaa amesema he wants to turn down the promotion to avoid talking to people

[private_developer]

@BlackjackKE

.pdf or hardcover Doc? The Bible I mean.

https://kat.cr/usearch/The%20Introvert%20Advantage%20%3A%20How%20to%20Thrive%20in%20an%20Extrovert%20World/

[system]

@BlackjackKE

.pdf or hardcover Doc? The Bible I mean.

I’m never able to read books on screen. I prefer hard copies. I bought mine years ago from the now closed bookshop hapo Moi Avenue.

[BlackjackKE]

@private_developer

https://kat.cr/usearch/The Introvert Advantage : How to Thrive in an Extrovert World/

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Thanks a Lot Sir.

[upepo]

@Ka-Buda

Feel at Home and welcome.
I am the Head of this Psychiatric Asylum that is KTalk and everyone you meet here has Mental Health Issues.
You will never walk alone and please confide in me if you run into any bother.

Just avoid @Web Dev and @Nefertities … They should be in Straight jackets if you ask me!.. kikikikiii…

Thank you Truphena. You care for new villagers.

[kitu_yoyote]

Y are you being mis guided, alcohol will make you loose it all. If you can’t smoke weed enda kaa mganga those two can help you. What are friends for.?

[kitu_yoyote]

Y are you being mis guided, alcohol will make you loose it all. If you can’t smoke weed enda kaa mganga those two can help you. What are friends for.?

[Ice_Cube]

half a weed cake every morning

[Alchemist]

@Ice_Cube

half a weed cake every morning

Before you know it you will be like Lil Wayne. How did it go @BlackjackKE ?

[Blaze2]

@BlackjackKE

Needless to say, I’m new here. Well, I’ve familiarized myself a bit with what you do here. I see fun, hatred, insults, and some rare bits of love. Definitely, you’ll find the most abusive seat and one of you will master up to post it here first. First, whoever is planning to do that, you’re welcome and thanks a bunch in advance.

Anyway, for those who’re seriously willing to help, I’ll appreciate. For almost a year, I’ve been working in insurance. Good. Problem is I’m required to start working as a senior team member coming Monday. I didn’t have problems with the previous status as it allowed me to work alone in my own space.
I am an introvert, but extroverted to some extent. I love being around people but I can’t stand some things people like talking about. I’m not able to have conversations about temperature and the like. I can’t stand small talks. I still love being alone and I’m most productive when working alone. And I love that I’m an introvert (extroverted one).
Now, I can’t change. From Monday, I’m expected to work and hold discussions with people from morning to evening. Believe me, I can’t. I’m sure there are some introverts who can relate to my situation. This coming Monday is the most frightening Monday I’ll ever have. Should I just turn down the offer and propose that I remain in my previous post or will I make it alive this coming week? Is there any medication that changes one from being an introvert to an extro immediately? I’m not so sure if I want that. Is there any other introvert who has successfully conquered such moments?

Uyo jamaaa wa kiti ako wapi?Nimechoka kusimama[ATTACH=full]35911[/ATTACH]

I fully understand what you are going through. I grew up an introvert and focussed on my studies. Obviously since i was very sharp i was throwb into management roles quite young. Suddenly you have to work with people, advise people and supervise people. All aspects I hated. Anxiety attacks when addressing forums or media was common. All jobs require human interaction ultimately and you have to gerrit down. Alcohol and weed are not sustainable solutions and affect your judgement at work. The solution is twofold
1 work on your people skills. you have no choice
2 Get anti anxiety pills. very cheap in pharmacies.

[system]

@Blaze2

I fully understand what you are going through. I grew up an introvert and focussed on my studies. Obviously since i was very sharp i was throwb into management roles quite young. Suddenly you have to work with people, advise people and supervise people. All aspects I hated. Anxiety attacks when addressing forums or media was common. All jobs require human interaction ultimately and you have to gerrit down. Alcohol and weed are not sustainable solutions and affect your judgement at work. The solution is twofold
1 work on your people skills. you have no choice
2 Get anti anxiety pills. very cheap in pharmacies.

I lack the difference btwn weed /alcohol and your proposed alternatives (read: pills)