you need a sit down with the wife because hii inakaa in kitu INA kusumbua.you need to look at all the things that need money together and agree .don’t just allocate ,allocate according to vile mmepanga pamoja.kaa in shopping.kitchen budget and all.be strict on when and how more money will be allocated. I wish naeza mpea my home for one month akue ndie anathukuma na kumeet all needs of the hau.akirudi kwako utakua unampea 5k inamaliza mwezi na anakurudishia change!