Of 'Strong' women..punguzeni bangi.

inzhener_otmetka · September 10, 2017, 6:32am

Cease being slow, Sir.
Mons veneris…

M2Random · September 10, 2017, 6:35am

Kuna ule dame alikuwa anasema anakaanga na remote sitting room akisoma gazeti as her husband prepares supper in the kitchen. I think ni @Ebonycurves kama sijakosea. Halafu anadai kupea mechanic slices.

sodamadiaba · September 10, 2017, 7:57am

Lmaooo when it rains it pours hahahagahaggafg

Ebonycurves · September 10, 2017, 8:01am

As we speak ako kitchen na mtoi preparing my ’ Sunday breakfast in bed’

M2Random · September 10, 2017, 8:11am

Na bado unagawia mechanic monkey style as your man is busy doing YOUR duties? I pity the nigga…and there is a special place in hell for you:D

Ebonycurves · September 10, 2017, 8:47am

He doesn’t mind spoiling me…
And what he doesn’t know…
I look at it as him getting help but my heart is for him…

M2Random · September 10, 2017, 8:50am

He deserves it for being slow.

Ebonycurves · September 10, 2017, 8:53am

We are both happy so… sioni shida

Bakayaro · September 10, 2017, 9:04am

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gashwin · September 10, 2017, 9:27am

Of course Sir, I understood that perfectly well. Guess you are the one who’s slow:D:D

mayekeke · September 10, 2017, 11:41am

In short you’re talking about gender equity, which the feminazi should be fighting for and not equality.

system · September 10, 2017, 12:57pm

There is no one blueprint for the good life. What matters is not what everyone else is doing or what other people think we should be doing, but whether we can find the places, the spaces and the people that fit who we really are and allow us to live our best lives.

system · September 10, 2017, 1:21pm

Equity is giving everyone what they need to be successful. Equality is treating everyone the same. For example giving men maternity leave and putting urinals in women’s washrooms is equality. Equity is giving poor gals pads so they wont miss school wen theyre perioding. Lowering marks for pupils in hardship areas to avail opportunities to join uni. Gender rule in politics.

system · September 10, 2017, 1:54pm

WORD!!!
Preach Sista Preach. Finding that person that will help you grow. Georgina, I feel sad when I see my Kenyan girlfriends falling all over themselves trying to keep up with the ‘Kamaus’ (Joneses). If one takes their child to St Mary’s, the others run to Rusinga School…as for the fleets of cars? as for the salon?. I know a lady that owns a salon and she has most of these women as her clients. The gossip there jameni? I was feeling ill just sitting there having my nails done. She has made a lot of money though as she and her trusted hairdressers take the services to their homes. They gossip about their hubbies too in a salon!!

girlciki93 · September 10, 2017, 2:48pm

baba panya nyamaza

girlciki93 · September 10, 2017, 2:49pm

Slim_fit:

Over and about, we may have come across those chics who think that they are too cool for this man or too independent to get hooked to that man. Next time you are describing yourself as Independent, ask yourself in whose jail you’ve been in. If you may, feel free to refer to our dear Kenya- she’s been independent for over 50 years but has a debt way much deeper than your vibrator shaped Pusey. And if men are dogs, you can guess what you are since you are an offspring. Singo mature women I’m attacking you on this one, and my attack is not only confined to you but also to those girls whose crappy imagination has reassured them that they will still be dildo-ing themselves to sleep at age 45 lying on a bed surrounded by cabinets of money they have earned ‘independently’.
Let me clarify that you may be single due to stuff out of your control, which is deeply understandable, lest I find myself getting insults stinkier* than the rectum of the dandora dump site. Hii ni ya wale wako single coz they think handling four bottles of Guinness or two glasses of the cheap shit most of you have been calling wine yet you clearly know nothing about vintage and glass stems; is an achievement. Na ni ya wale wanafikirianga paying your own rent is equal to having a dck. FYI, that’s what most men do and they don’t go around asking for a drum roll about it.
Independence or misinformation? No dildo can replace a man, just like no mboch or man-friend can replace the fatherly experience you may be denying your child while trying to justify your little defiance to nature. Being able to do barest minimum any human being should do to themselves at a certain age isn’t what being a strong woman is about. Look into the lives of some of the real strong women like Ngina Kenyatta, Ngilu et al and you will see that you deserve no applause for owning a car below 3000 cc and a two bedroomed apartment whose second bedroom is more deserted than the caves in Karura.
We will cheer you up for the far you’ve reached career wise. But I still stick to some advice someone gave me a year ago: " if you hear a woman saying she wants to be equal to a man, mwambie aandike initials za jina yake akikojoa".After that small step, she can now come to the negotiating table.
Meanwhile you should always know your place- I don’t say you should go lick a man’s dck every time he coughs; or use your sexuality for favors, like its a damn deformity. Just be a woman, that’s what most of us real men want. Simple, Ambitious, Respectful women. Kudos if you have managed to strike the balance- you are the real Queens, forget the slay queen bullshit that is heating the processors of instagram servers. You are the queen. If not yet, be one. Have a great night ahead.

kama hauna hela Kaka, punguza Raha. Punguza kelele pia

Willy_Matadi · September 10, 2017, 5:36pm

GeorginaMakena:

For a long time pple esp women are sold a narrative that marriage is the alpha and omega of the human experience. And without it life isnt even worth living. Marriage is not the be all and end all of life. Its not the guarantee that you’ll never be lonely ever again. Bcz there’s no guarantees in life. None! A friend in a difficult marriage told me,some nights after conjugal duty,she lies nxt to her snoring husband and she feels a deep ache of abandonment, isolation&lostness like she’s the only person in the entire world. She says, the worst loneliness is the kind wea you’re surrounded by pple yet you have no connection with them or when you feel like your value to them is the role you play not YOU as a person. You can see it in celebs who had millions of adoring fans yet felt terribly lonely inspite of having entourages with them everywea they go and even having their own parents working for them. Marriage for some women is the absolute worst thing that ever happened to them and for those women their lives wouldn’t have been ruined if they’d stayed single instead of getting married for the sake of it n against their better judgement.

People are individuals and so blanket condemnations is too simplistic a formula to explain why women bcm single moms or just single with no Kids.Many women grew up seeing their moms suffer unimaginable cruelty at the hands of their dads. And that puts them off marriage. Others spent too much time in long term relationships that didnt work. Others were dumped after bcming pregnant.Others are not willing to compromise their standards and personal beliefs to get married. Others are too traumatized by past relationships to try again.I mean there’s like 15 million reasons why some pple don’t get married, we can’t lump all of them together.

There’s no woman who decides to replace love with money. However if a woman isnt finding fulfilling rships why not pour the huge amounts of energy spent in bad rships into work and compensate their lack of rship with success? In anycase raising kids takes up alot of resources, if a woman has no kids all tht money thatd ave gone to kids is at her disposal so she’s bound to be richer. In anycase men also don’t want a woman with no ambition and even the Bible says in Proverbs 31 that an exemplary woman is a rich woman. So I don’t understand why men have contempt4rich, single esp childless women and blame the luv of money4the womans single status.But then only a small fraction of these women are rich. Especially single moms are mostly poor bcz they don’t have 2paychecks to raise kids like married women. And the fact is rarely will men support their kids if the kid is with the mom and the man is estranged from her.

You know for a country where 70% is below poverty line,owning a home is a big deal and being financialy independent is an achievement everyone should be proud of especially women bcz most well paying jobs are in the hands of men.

As for equality and women knowing their place, women at one time couldn’t vote,couldnt own property ,borrow money from the bank or even have their own file in Nyayo House. We would not have as women many opportunities if some women knew their place. Heck we’d not have Uhuru Park if Wangari Maathai was just a good,docile and agreeable woman who knew her place.In order for future generations of women to have more opportunities boundaries must be pushed,that can’t be done unless we as women leave our comfort zones.

Women are not equal to men. Women are physically weaker, have less money,have more commitments and demands recquired of them in child rearing n domestic work aamong other disparities. Men will always have an advantage over women. You can’t be equal when you’re so different in so many ways. They’re complimentary but women are a marginalized group in socio economic and political spheres and so what women are jostling for is equity,equitable access to resources ,is all.

I understand the insecurity men feel about women who are empowered. If I was a man Id feel exactly the same bcz its a loss of power. And who gives up their privilege without a struggle? For all the elected women there’s a man who lost an opportunity so its expectated.But my philosophy is this,nobody sent an application to be a woman and also that God doesnt check genitalia b4 bestowing talent and brains. And also that women are half the population,if half your team wameuma bench surely their talents remain latent and are wasted they don’t make as big a contribution as theyre capable of and society is the loser.Bcz maybe the cure for AIDS or Cancer will be sent to us thru a woman. So if tht woman lacks the opportunity or resources that cure will die with her!

Its unfortunate that women are the universal scapegoat for the ills plaguing society. Just like in the garden of Eden.Its expected for men to defend their turf from being usurped by women folk by being territorial. But that one cant stop women making strides and so availing more opportunities to future generations.

This antagonistic attitudes btwn men and women don’t add value to my life or wellbeing bcz I know in any group there’s the gud,bad n ugly. So generalizations esp pejorative ones will rob me of seeing and benefitting from the good. And that hate in my heart will consume me too. Live and let live,hating someone coz theyre not like you or not living life upto your standards is intolerance which is a form of bigotry. If God gave everyone freewill why is it that mortals ostracize those whose free will leads them to alternative lifestyles that deviate from the norm? I’ve never seen a happy, fulfilled person complain about others. Or talk down2them. If you’re ok with urself what does it matter that women are making luv to their piles of money. My advice to all y’all who luv putting women down is, is put down the magnifying glass n pick up the mirror.When your life is going great I can assure u tht ull be too busy enjoying ur bliss2bitch abt anyone! If u feel offended by s1else lifestyle,then YOU bcm the change you want2see!

Finally,DO NOT JUDGE THAT IS GOD’S JOB!!!

This independence thing is not just about women (men have it too), its an an attitude humans adopt after obtaining what they thought was out of their reach, in essence I would call it inferiority complex, childish and contemptible if expressed by a grown person.

Of what benefit is it for me remind people who I am unless I am a fraud. Ladies if you acquired your wealth on merit, its yours, enjoy it without feeling insecure, no one is entitled to dictate to you how you live your life however if you chose married life then there are limits be selfless as individual actions can impact other parties in the marriage in a way you personally would not like to be impacted and that is not too much to ask from one whether a man or a woman once you have made the commitment to get married.

Marriage is not for everyone, consider it only when you are ready and you have the right partner, don’t get into it because of societal pressure and then start blaming men, both parties are to blame for making wrong choices when you cannot agree to make it work.