The irony of Dowry payment in a Feminist Age.

[Ka-Buda]

@MaryJane

There is nothing like knowing each other better. Even when you know each other, there are still things that can potentially break a marriage if there is no conscious choice to work and stay in a marriage. Marriage is not feeling, it is a choice.

Marriage is a commitment.
A commitment doesn’t have to mean marriage.
That’s why statistically, people who “road-test” commitment have a better chance of succeeding at marriage.

[Quanstrom]

Feminazis are loose cannons. As soon as you have enough of their sweet walls, you drop them like hot potatoes. You don’t want to imagine a lifetime with a feminazi

[system]

@Ka-Buda

Marriage is a commitment.
A commitment doesn’t have to mean marriage.
That’s why statistically, people who “road-test” commitment have a better chance of succeeding at marriage.

I think that depends on individual interpretation.

[girlciki93]

@Quanstrom

Kama tuko wengi sema nivae CD ya leather priss…sitaki kisonono

you don’t need CD if both of you are faithful

[Ka-Buda]

@MaryJane

I think that depends on individual interpretation.

Alot of married people are not committed
But all people who believe in commitment are married.

[Quanstrom]

@girlciki93

you don’t need CD if both of you are faithful

Me and my girl ama? I only do raw sex with her.

[girlciki93]

@Ka-Buda

I have my baby-mommas so I’m just seeking a helper with benefits.
I’m not even necessarily looking for more children but I wouldn’t mind having more with a worthy woman.
That’s why a Mboch seems like the most Suitable candidate!

yet again saying things from outta your ass. Wtf is a worthy woman? Be a man and say things upfront. Like I want a smart man, a good looking man, a stoic and self controlled man si ati worthy man

[Ka-Buda]

@girlciki93

yet again saying things from outta your ass. Wtf is a worthy woman? Be a man and say things upfront. Like I want a smart man, a good looking man, a stoic and self controlled man si ati worthy man

A worthy woman in my books is a woman who can cook, clean, obey and submit to me.
A worthy woman for me doesn’t need to worry about earning an income, she needs to worry about helping me earn a living for us.
A worthy woman is a believer in God’s appointment of her as my helper and not my Equal.
It won’t hurt if she has pretty face and a pear shaped ass.
But looks are secondary in my worthy woman.

[girlciki93]

@Quanstrom

Me and my girl ama? I only do raw sex with her.

yes, it’s the responsible way

[girlciki93]

@uwesmake

From a kid born in the 80s nasema kulipa mahari tuliwacha na generation ya kina @gashwin. Apan tambua hio upuss madem wametombwa all over then nilipe dowry aje hakuna hio ni ujinga.

Dem mukipendana piga yeye ball leta kwa nyumba muishi na usikae na dem more than 6 months kama hujachapa ball . Mambo ya mahari ukiona umejenga nyumba na umenunua gari na watoto wamemaliza university then unaweza rudisha mkono kwa wazazi to your level .

Hata Mimi kama si bibi kunipenda ningekuwa naishi peke yangu bila upuss .

haha kumbe unakuwanga mushy under all that upuss

[girlciki93]

@Ka-Buda

A worthy woman in my books is a woman who can cook, clean, obey and submit to me.
A worthy woman for me doesn’t need to worry about earning an income, she needs to worry about helping me earn a living for us.
A worthy woman is a believer in God’s appointment of her as my helper and not my Equal.
It won’t hurt if she has pretty face and a pear shaped ass.
But looks are secondary in my worthy woman.

1. Probably 8 or 9 out of every 10 women in Kenya knows housework. Personally, when I stay over at a guy’s house I wonder if I should do the stuff or he’ll think I’m marking territory.
2. Stop with that obey and submit vocabulary. That’s for your children. When you live with another adult what you want is understanding, compromise, trust and respect. Haha seriously ‘obey’ is such a term yaani.
3. I’m sorry a good woman helps you by worrying about her income. If one person depends on another you won’t get alot done. Imagine if you took charge of investments and luxuries like vehicle and your wife ensured you never go shopping for food or wonder what’s cooking. That’s helping each other. Everyone pulls their part.
4. No, a woman is your equal since with similar opportunity you’re equally capable.

[Ka-Buda]

@girlciki93

1. Probably 8 or 9 out of every 10 women in Kenya knows housework. Personally, when I stay over at a guy’s house I wonder if I should do the stuff or he’ll think I’m marking territory.
2. Stop with that obey and submit vocabulary. That’s for your children. When you live with another adult what you want is understanding, compromise, trust and respect. Haha seriously ‘obey’ is such a term yaani.
3. I’m sorry a good woman helps you by worrying about her income. If one person depends on another you won’t get alot done. Imagine if you took charge of investments and luxuries like vehicle and your wife ensured you never go shopping for food or wonder what’s cooking. That’s helping each other. Everyone pulls their part.
4. No, a woman is your equal since with similar opportunity you’re equally capable.

You asked me a question and I replied it honestly as par my personal requirements.
I’m old enough to have tried all that equality crap in most of the relationships I’ve had and I failed miserably.
All I want now is a relationship like my grandfather had.
But with most modern women wanting to be men as well,I’ve given up and I am quickly learning to be content with the fact that I will be a bachelor for the rest of my life.

[Quanstrom]

@Ka-Buda

You asked me a question and I replied it honestly as par my personal requirements.
I’m old enough to have tried all that equality crap in most of the relationships I’ve had and I failed miserably.
All I want now is a relationship like my grandfather had.
But with most modern women wanting to be men as well,I’ve given up and I am quickly learning to be content with the fact that I will be a bachelor for the rest of my life.

Arguing with a feminist is an exercise in futility. You have better luck squeezing juice from a stone

[captain_obvious]

Mimi hapa sipumui juu I have three women baying for my hand in marriage.
Then there are the desperados sampuli ya @girlciki93 who consider it a blessing if I cum inside them.
Us Young Urban Professionals are having a hard time wading through all this pussy being thrown our way.
Alafu nilipe dowry?
https://media.giphy.com/media/26gs6vEzlpaxuYgso/giphy.gif

[Quadro_k4000]

@Ka-Buda

Apparently, Meghan Markle; the latest addition to the dysfunctional family that is the British royal family is a self confessed Feminist.

What is a Feminist?
She is a divorcee and chances are we might see a black baby waving back at us from the upper balcony of Buckingham palace! (I’m sure there are plenty of Brits who are hoping their babies don’t come out in the wrong shade of black!.. kikikikkkk…)

In Kikuyu culture, there is a saying or rather a description for impregnating a woman before marrying her.
" Kuuna mburi kuguru"
Loosely translated, it means Breaking the Goat’s leg.

It means damaging and devaluing goods for sale.
It means that an interested buyer will not fork out the asking/going price of the said commodity and in all honesty, the buyer has an upper hand in negotiations because he is paying for inferior quality goods.

So how does a modern, Educated Kenyan woman in 2017 reconcile being a Feminist and then going through with being “bought” in the name of Dowry?

Never mind the double standards, but is any woman today worth paying dowry for?
I can only speak from a Kikuyu cultural point of view.

In my grandfather’s time, the potential bride had to be a virgin and of good reputation for her to even be considered marriage material.
Today, the average 21 year old woman strutting their behinds on the streets of Nairobi has slept with more men than they count on all their fingers and toes!
They demand respect and claim to be independent and empowered.
They might even have a sprog or two!

But they still want you to “pay” for them in marriage.
Isn’t it what Dowry is ?.. Payment?

In Kikuyu marriage is traditionally described as " kugurana" … - Purchasing.

@MaryJane , @Purple etc… how do you justify allowing your parents to accept any payment or reward in exchange for you as an independent human being/woman in 2017?
And is it not ridiculous that any woman today would even consider themselves Empowered if her parents accepted any form of dowry for her hand in marriage?

There is no such thing as Feminism.

There is just a whole new generation of selfish women who want to have their cake and eat it too.
And they won’t let culture, religion or morality get in their way.

Personally, I don’t know any woman that is worth paying dowry for.
In an age of equality there is no place for dowry.
Women are traditionally and religiously supposed to be Helpers of the man.

And that is why I choose to invest in a Mboch rather than a wife.

#resistdowrypayment
#savetheboychild

:D:D:D:D:D

[Quadro_k4000]

@Ka-Buda

@Nefertities is not a Feminist, she is a confused element.

:D:D:D

[girlciki93]

@Ka-Buda

You asked me a question and I replied it honestly as par my personal requirements.
I’m old enough to have tried all that equality crap in most of the relationships I’ve had and I failed miserably.
All I want now is a relationship like my grandfather had.
But with most modern women wanting to be men as well,I’ve given up and I am quickly learning to be content with the fact that I will be a bachelor for the rest of my life.

if you’re the common factor in all these failed relationships maybe you should do an introspection

[girlciki93]

@captain obvious

Mimi hapa sipumui juu I have three women baying for my hand in marriage.
Then there are the desperados sampuli ya @girlciki93 who consider it a blessing if I cum inside them.
Us Young Urban Professionals are having a hard time wading through all this pu**y being thrown our way.
Alafu nilipe dowry?
https://media.giphy.com/media/26gs6vEzlpaxuYgso/giphy.gif

hahahaha lemme let you in on a secret. If you’re truly happy you never have to brag

[Quadro_k4000]

@Ka-Buda

I wonder what he really thinks of you.
I still believe a woman should love the man more than the man loves her in a healthy relationship so all the best.
But if you think you’re going to import a man you push about ati juu umemleta America, you have another thing Cumming!

Wish you all the best.

[system]

@captain obvious

Mimi hapa sipumui juu I have three women baying for my hand in marriage.
Then there are the desperados sampuli ya @girlciki93 who consider it a blessing if I cum inside them.
Us Young Urban Professionals are having a hard time wading through all this pu**y being thrown our way.
Alafu nilipe dowry?
https://media.giphy.com/media/26gs6vEzlpaxuYgso/giphy.gif

Sadly, I know your type. You enjoy playing with women’s emotions lakini mwishowe you’ll die single and alone with no capacity for love. Trust me. Unless you change you will never know what it means to cherish one female for life. You think you’re doing them a favor. nkt
Lastly, I can’t touch your kind again with a 10 ft pole.
Kienyeji all the way…never been happier.