I support this. Women becomes a hormonal mess when they’re pregnant. Even to them they don’t understand what is happening to their mind, body and emotions . OP should try his best and not be reactive. Deal with her as if dealing with with a child. Knowing a baby is coming and taking full responsibility for it can lead to achieve things you didn’t know you’re capable of…and if your prayerful, you will gain God’s favor
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bro just assume mtoto ni wako until you know otherwise. you’ll hate yourself pregnancy ikipata complication and harms your child while you had the money to help but didn’t
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Mkamba Mluhya niaje
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Keep the crazy lady and the nut at bay until you have concrete evidence that it’s yours. Meanwhile keep ducking story za pesa as best you can
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Hio mbegu aliweka hapo ndani ndio inasumbua huyo dem.but being a first time dad labda he’s not used to it . Mimi ball ya wife ya kwanza almost drove me nuts .but you just play calm because many changes are occurring in her body
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Poa mkia leo wapi?
THOU SHALL NOT NUT IN CRAZY.
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inaitwa precarious situation… Hafadhali kuzaa na dame maragoli. Anyway, if you want to be part of your child’s life when he or she is born, start investing now on the mother small small. Jifanye mtu mjinga, listen to her, make sure you take care of the maternity fees etc, when the baby is born by then utakua ushaingiza mama box and she will let you name the baby.
Ensure you get the birth notification slip from the hospital and you apply for the birth certificate yourself. Do not let that lady keep the birth certificate at whatever cost. After all these is done and mtoto ako salama, sasa anza madharau towards the mother… only offer necessary assistance towards your child pekee. If she throws tantrums at you, spice it up with a double dose of tantrums… Belittle her completely. Move on with your life but ensure you take good care of your baby even if it is remotely.
You have been given loads of garbage advice here, peleka yeye court, the court will ask for the DNA test and results are released to them, if she doesn’t turn up, Just know you are being taken for a fool. Funny thing is that these crazy bitches will turn up for the DNA test knowing the child is not yours, hoping that you do not show up. But wacha ufala and immediately, enda court. Its not complicated, get a half decent lawyer, lipa 10-20k depending on what they charge, DNA at kemri is 20k. If child is not yours, she will be asked to pay you back the 20k. Trust you will never here from the witch again.
Also looking at your story, she decided to visit your broke ass from Nairobi tu suddenly and brought goodies? Enyewe, you deserve some of this stupidity in your life to teach you lessons moving forward.
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Are You Okay… You think we are Neanderthal women!!!.. We can smell such bullshit from a mile ahead…
Vile @Stick-Up_Kid amesema huyo mama ni kisirani utajipata kwa sceptic tank mkikosana. Fanya DNA lipia mdiki fees na medical na uchukue mtoi weekends mkibond
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… Wewe uko gulf, uta smell aje?
If you don’t want men to play smart, then why do you allow them to impregnate you? Sii muende muwekwe Artificial Insemination kama ngombe.
Lets wait 6 months and request follow up hekaya
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You do understand that women get very temperamental when they get pregnant. She will become herself 6 months after pregnancy.
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Same here…I always look back and think that this is knowledge/advice that should be given to men in relationships and who are intending to be fathers. To think of the many relationships that have gone down the drain because of this is sad.
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